By Gabyskra Go To PostDoes he ever stop?
Also, where the fuck did I say wanting kids was homophobic? Why are you wasting your and my time, vahagn? You can't possibly think I wrote that?
No you didn't write that but that's not the point. The point is everything else I stated about the nature of this thread. You called someone sexist and another person "conservative/anti scientific" and forced a debate with a guy who was defending Phaze.
How's about you stop calling people sexist and homophobic just in general. For any reason other than full blown blatant sexism and let them discuss the hopes and wishes they have for their lives?
By DY_nasty Go To Postvahagn
get over yourself before you get rate limited like reirom. you want to disagree with someone, by all means do it. but if you want to take a petty approach and bark at them across separate threads, then you're going to force action by moderation.
Fuck it, fine. He thinks he's above reproach anyway.
You guys deal with his condescending stuff - I'll just block him and stay out of it
By Trey Go To PostDy has become that which he hates.And you just know we're cutting into his holler at hawaiian babes time.
Responsible.
I've been a recluse for the past month because I'm broke as fuck lol. Just bought my car on the 7th and I don't get paid again until the end of the week or so. I wouldn't even holla at myself right now.
Vahagn, I'll write what I want to write, and if mods want to censor me, it's their prerogative. If I don't like the way the forum is handled, I leave. On your part, you can read what you want to read, and you're free not to read what you don't want to read.
If someone says something racist or sexist or classist or whatever, I can say that their idea is this or that, I can characterize it as I please (the same way you've been calling me a crazy leftist btw). When Evilore boasted about groping the ass of a reluctant spanish girl back in the day, because he was tripping on some PUA koolaid, I called him out on it. I don't feel like changing, deal with it.
Also, I'm pretty sure i've been more supportive of people dealing with relationship issues here than most, since I like discussing the issue (could be in the dating thread in gaf too, my handle there is 1871). You can re-read the thread.
And a final point, mentioning Dan Savage in discussions about life and relationships is not arrogant, it's just pretty obvious, like mentioning Nate Silver in poli-gaf, or whatever.
If someone says something racist or sexist or classist or whatever, I can say that their idea is this or that, I can characterize it as I please (the same way you've been calling me a crazy leftist btw). When Evilore boasted about groping the ass of a reluctant spanish girl back in the day, because he was tripping on some PUA koolaid, I called him out on it. I don't feel like changing, deal with it.
Also, I'm pretty sure i've been more supportive of people dealing with relationship issues here than most, since I like discussing the issue (could be in the dating thread in gaf too, my handle there is 1871). You can re-read the thread.
And a final point, mentioning Dan Savage in discussions about life and relationships is not arrogant, it's just pretty obvious, like mentioning Nate Silver in poli-gaf, or whatever.
By DY_nasty Go To PostI've been a recluse for the past month because I'm broke as fuck lol. Just bought my car on the 7th and I don't get paid again until the end of the week or so. I wouldn't even holla at myself right now.
What did you get
By DY_nasty Go To PostI've been a recluse for the past month because I'm broke as fuck lol. Just bought my car on the 7th and I don't get paid again until the end of the week or so. I wouldn't even holla at myself right now.You haven't even been shaving have you.
By Smokey Go To PostWhat did you getgot a 2012 lancer hatchback. i thought i had bad credit (student loans) but it turns out i actually have no credit (deferred lol) so it really limited what i could do lol. Im liking it though - ONLY because i'm out here. one of the few kinds of cars that i'd feel comfortable driving to post, the beach, and into town with.
the bike would've happened but the issue was i just couldn't have it as my only vehicle out here. dudes look depressed as fuck driving home through hurricanes and shit.
Good job getting a recent but not new car.
I think I read somewhere that getting a car 3-5 years old is the best value (assuming you get a good deal obv).
Getting some 10 years old means you might only have it for a couple years unless you pour money into it and brand new cars, well everyone knows about the depreciation.
2012 Acura TL would definitely be my next car purchase assuming I can get it in the next two years
I think I read somewhere that getting a car 3-5 years old is the best value (assuming you get a good deal obv).
Getting some 10 years old means you might only have it for a couple years unless you pour money into it and brand new cars, well everyone knows about the depreciation.
2012 Acura TL would definitely be my next car purchase assuming I can get it in the next two years
I actually learned a lot during the car buying process this time around. I was set on getting a hybrid car out here (tax reasons) but I learned that I had to be really cautious looking at used hybrids because of the battery stuff. Some dealerships don't give a fuck at all when it comes to that. So some people end up driving off with cheap cars that'll end up requiring a new expensive ass battery that'll have you rethinking your entire purchase.
Tesla is actually kinda big out here too. Damned nice looking cars. I want one one day.
But I got a really good deal all things considered.
Tesla is actually kinda big out here too. Damned nice looking cars. I want one one day.
But I got a really good deal all things considered.
So, I just went to my desk, minding my own business, taking a minute to look at my screens...
I look up at some point, and I end up with my face half a foot away from that
Fuck my heart. I jumped like crazy. My window was barely open. It has come to collect my soul.
Or so I thought, it has been over an hour and it is still there. Sigh. I guess I made a friend.
I look up at some point, and I end up with my face half a foot away from that
Fuck my heart. I jumped like crazy. My window was barely open. It has come to collect my soul.
Or so I thought, it has been over an hour and it is still there. Sigh. I guess I made a friend.
By SweetPussySatday Go To PostYou didn't shoo it out?
Left it there for a while, it was sleeping and I was cleaning up around my mother's house. Now it's out. Hit on the window after though...
Gaby mace that animal. I would've maced him and put that yama with red dot sight in his face and told him to make a wish or leave because PETA.
Damn DY balling. I remember going through ttwo cars in a 15 month stretch. Third car wound up dying 14 months after that. Those cars a saw bunch of quasi-legal activity that we not about to get into on these here boards. Motherfucker hit me with the I got to take an involuntary sabbatical to Mexico. Not so bad right? UNTIL THIS DUDE DOES A DAMN FAREWELL TOUR. Dude talking about some he did 10 years in prison and ain't trying to go back. Ain't never been more scared of a charge in my life... except for that one time I skipped out on a court date, wound up boarding a bus to college, and illegally leaving the state. Shout out to my lawyers they da real mvps...
Damn DY balling. I remember going through ttwo cars in a 15 month stretch. Third car wound up dying 14 months after that. Those cars a saw bunch of quasi-legal activity that we not about to get into on these here boards. Motherfucker hit me with the I got to take an involuntary sabbatical to Mexico. Not so bad right? UNTIL THIS DUDE DOES A DAMN FAREWELL TOUR. Dude talking about some he did 10 years in prison and ain't trying to go back. Ain't never been more scared of a charge in my life... except for that one time I skipped out on a court date, wound up boarding a bus to college, and illegally leaving the state. Shout out to my lawyers they da real mvps...
that bird makes me proud to be a gun owner holy fuck
its trying to steal your monitor too gaby. how many lines will you let it cross?
can't even afford gas in this bitch right now lmao
its trying to steal your monitor too gaby. how many lines will you let it cross?
By Furyous Go To PostGaby mace that animal. I would've maced him and put that yama with red dot sight in his face and told him to make a wish or leave because PETA.breh i'm broke as fuck lmao i bought my car at the beginning of the month
Damn DY balling. I remember going through ttwo cars in a 15 month stretch. Third car wound up dying 14 months after that. Those cars a saw bunch of quasi-legal activity that we not about to get into on these here boards. Motherfucker hit me with the I got to take an involuntary sabbatical to Mexico. Not so bad right? UNTIL THIS DUDE DOES A DAMN FAREWELL TOUR. Dude talking about some he did 10 years in prison and ain't trying to go back. Ain't never been more scared of a charge in my life… except for that one time I skipped out on a court date, wound up boarding a bus to college, and illegally leaving the state. Shout out to my lawyers they da real mvps…
can't even afford gas in this bitch right now lmao
By db Go To PostYou haven't even been shaving have you.Dy can't grow facial hair
By blackace Go To PostDy can't grow facial hairdahell
my beard is powerful and militant and gets whatever it wants
I'm in the Seattle area for the next three weeks and the rental car I got was the Blake Griffin Special.
Missing like everyone of my family members' birthdays but I guess Getting away from the LA heat in August September is a welcome feeling though
Missing like everyone of my family members' birthdays but I guess Getting away from the LA heat in August September is a welcome feeling though
By IWMTB19 Go To PostThat bird is beautiful, you guys are mean D:
I'm hungry and need something to eat...
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This credit card company in Salt Lake City called me back for a possible job interview. Would you take another $2 an hour to work in a professional environment but increase your rent by $200 a month? It's cheaper for me to stay here and make $2 less an hour but live with cheaper rent but... I need to leave to get around a more accepting community that's not college students.
By Furyous Go To PostI'm hungry and need something to eat…So you want to be a black man in Utah?
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This credit card company in Salt Lake City called me back for a possible job interview. Would you take another $2 an hour to work in a professional environment but increase your rent by $200 a month? It's cheaper for me to stay here and make $2 less an hour but live with cheaper rent but… I need to leave to get around a more accepting community that's not college students.
By Furyous Go To PostWould you take another $2 an hour to work in a professional environment but increase your rent by $200 a month? It's cheaper for me to stay here and make $2 less an hour but live with cheaper rent but… I need to leave to get around a more accepting community that's not college students.
2 things to consider
- if you're gonna like the new place better (do you get a better experience based on your own desires, not just the mathematical formula)
- if it's better for your career to get a better position, it could be a step before another evolution
By Gabyskra Go To Post2 things to consider
- if you're gonna like the new place better (do you get a better experience based on your own desires, not just the mathematical formula)
- if it's better for your career to get a better position, it could be a step before another evolution
Honestly, it's more of a need for me to live. I've spent 12 years $172,295 on five degrees working on six. This is the equivalent of going from working in non professional environment to working a professional one.
Salt Lake City is different from the rest of Utah. I refuse to travel anywhere in the state based on the number of hate groups that exist.
I'm more worried about being a member of the church in SLC than living as black man there. They're judgemental as shit HERE so imagine what happens when the church is in their backyard. Ain't shit I can do about this mythological black rage these white people grew up indoctrinated with. History has shown ain't nothing I can do about that other than get money and keep hurting they souls by existing in the same space as them anyway.
By Furyous Go To PostHonestly, it's more of a need for me to live. I've spent 12 years $172,295 on five degrees working on six. This is the equivalent of going from working in non professional environment to working a professional one.
Salt Lake City is different from the rest of Utah. I refuse to travel anywhere in the state based on the number of hate groups that exist.
I'm more worried about being a member of the church in SLC than living as black man there. They're judgemental as shit HERE so imagine what happens when the church is in their backyard. Ain't shit I can do about this mythological black rage these white people grew up indoctrinated with. History has shown ain't nothing I can do about that other than get money and keep hurting they souls by existing in the same space as them anyway.
excuse me
Yeah you could explain, that's interesting. I can understand having 5 (2 BAs, 2 MAs, 1 PhD; but considering the cost of US education it's kinda crazy), but what could a 6th be?
All I did was glance in the mental health / depression thread on that other site and I'm like eww. I'm bad right now, but I'm like... actively bad. My biggest issue by far is just being unable to do stuff and power through crap like I'm used to. Lack of energy, can't enjoy stuff, more introvert than usual, distanced, no taking care of myself like I should, zero sleep, patterns of reckless behavior coming back, irritable, can't work, etc. Basically, I shouldn't have to work this hard to enjoy a drink or put my shoes on to leave the house.
I know where I'm at right now. A lot of that just seems really, really different and it kinda throws me. Even when I was dealing with people with stuff going on back in Texas, it just came off very differently. Not even trying to say that I'm better or worse than them, so I'm sorry if it comes off that way - its just odd and a bit jarring to see. Maybe its because I developed 'productive' coping mechanisms on my own or its because they haven't. Maybe its the exact opposite. Can't really tell. But it bothers me. I'm kinda happy I kept a lot to myself if that's what I would've sounded like. I don't think I ever would've sounded like that... but how I would come off is definitely one of the reasons why I waited so long to tackle my own problems.
I know where I'm at right now. A lot of that just seems really, really different and it kinda throws me. Even when I was dealing with people with stuff going on back in Texas, it just came off very differently. Not even trying to say that I'm better or worse than them, so I'm sorry if it comes off that way - its just odd and a bit jarring to see. Maybe its because I developed 'productive' coping mechanisms on my own or its because they haven't. Maybe its the exact opposite. Can't really tell. But it bothers me. I'm kinda happy I kept a lot to myself if that's what I would've sounded like. I don't think I ever would've sounded like that... but how I would come off is definitely one of the reasons why I waited so long to tackle my own problems.
By Gabyskra Go To PostYeah you could explain, that's interesting. I can understand having 5 (2 BAs, 2 MAs, 1 PhD; but considering the cost of US education it's kinda crazy), but what could a 6th be?
The breakdown:
1 BS in Radio/TV/Digital Media
1 Communication Minor (which is an associates degree adjusted for credits at 2.5 credits per normal credit hour)
1 Spanish minor (which is an associates degree adjusted for credits at 2.5 credits per normal credit hour)
1 MBA
1 Finance minor (which is an associates degree possibly higher adjusted for credits at 2.5 credits per normal credit hour)
Right now I'm going for an MPH online via a highly popular school somewhere in the DMV.
By Furyous Go To PostThe breakdown:
1 BS in Radio/TV/Digital Media
1 Communication Minor (which is an associates degree adjusted for credits at 2.5 credits per normal credit hour)
1 Spanish minor (which is an associates degree adjusted for credits at 2.5 credits per normal credit hour)
1 MBA
1 Finance minor (which is an associates degree possibly higher adjusted for credits at 2.5 credits per normal credit hour)
Right now I'm going for an MPH online via a highly popular school somewhere in the DMV.
have you looked into leaving utah? like...any of the major cities with credentials like that you could have numerous opportunities
unless you just like utah
By reilo Go To PostWhy aren't you in like, Austin or Houston by now? How far do your warrants run?
If he can speak any kind of Spanish, that right there already puts him above comp down here in Houston.
is it the work dy? maybe the day to day of what you do is grinding on you and sapping your motivation to actually do other shit when you're finally free
By Dark PhaZe Go To Postis it the work dy? maybe the day to day of what you do is grinding on you and sapping your motivation to actually do other shit when you're finally freeNaw, its not work. I've been kinda toughing through shit for a while and it piled up a lot right before I joined the military - which was actually dope, it just happened to also reinforce a lot of bad habits and introduced new kinds of stresses. Basically, the way I handle stress just isn't working anymore. I used to have anger issues like a mofo (which of course made me really productive back in Texas and helped me through rehab after my shoulder injury) but ever since I got out, I really have almost no reason to be mad about shit lol
So I can't get mad about stuff, I have no outlet anymore. I can't enjoy shit - but I haven't enjoyed much of anything outside of sex and near death experiences and its not cool being an addict to either one of those things.
Its been a weird back and forth for a while, so maybe its clinical. I can still get through the day to day okay, but something tells me it shouldn't be this hard. I just want to get out ahead of this. If I had a family, a career job, a real obligation right now.... I'd be fucked though. That's what's scary.
By Gabyskra Go To PostWhat are your enablers DY? Identify them.Before it was the military, that's why I got out of active duty. Now, I have zero clue. That's why I'm kinda lost on things right now.
By giririsss Go To Postlmao at all the people in here getting scared by a bird.I wouldn't be scared if it was dead :ugeek:
By Smokey Go To Posthave you looked into leaving utah? like…any of the major cities with credentials like that you could have numerous opportunities
unless you just like utah
I'm somewhere north of Utah so I need to leave...
By reilo Go To PostWhy aren't you in like, Austin or Houston by now? How far do your warrants run?
Speaking of warrants, I accidentally just walked into the employee section of the police department... looked around like NOPE wrong place whoops. Went to the next door and started a records request. Apparently i'm clean and only have citations and no arrests/priors. *skips down the street happy as shit*
Similar to that one time I was coming off some quasi-legal situation in another state and wound up at another police department and slowly crawled away..
I'd lose my damn mind in Houston but I'm down for it. Austin has yoga and white open to that interracial understanding so it's a cool place. I haven't applied to Austin or Houston because I'm so far away and people keep dismissing my application because I'm sooo far away.
At my university, some Young Republicans group was giving out free root beer floats to anyone that signed up as a Republican, lol. Come on, it's fucking Utah, you don't need to bribe people to become Republicans.
Us (Citizens Climate Lobby) and Amnesty International spent some time trolling them with "I Support Planned Parenthood" stickers and Donald Trump jokes though.
Us (Citizens Climate Lobby) and Amnesty International spent some time trolling them with "I Support Planned Parenthood" stickers and Donald Trump jokes though.
Do you guys actually know very many Republican caricatures like that? I'd imagine that more friends of mine identify as Republican than Democrat, but none of them are the Fox News Obama Death Panel types.
My relatives are all Republican, but only because they hate brown people and gay people more than the government and rich people so yeah, I unfortunately have known a lot of the caricature GOP (or more accurately, Trump) supporters.
I'm just laughing at them trying to bribe people for signups, come on, dudes, lol.
All I had to sell my organization were my incredible looks and great speaking skills.
I'm just laughing at them trying to bribe people for signups, come on, dudes, lol.
All I had to sell my organization were my incredible looks and great speaking skills.
As a Republican Ion't fuck with nnoooooneeee of these dudes. I'd rather vote for another Democrat than vote Republican again.
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Job called me back in Utah and wants to pay me $14 an hour but has me working 9 hour shifts five days a week. And they want a personal statement explaining the two legal citations on my record. Slight problem is one of them is a paraphernalia citation and the other is the result of some fat fuck female cop on a power trip. Lawyer got me a citation after five minutes of talking to the DA. Hopefully this Utah company lets me be great and offers me a solid package. Give me Obamacare and access to the company gym.
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This barber FUCKED UP MY HAIR. Nigga MAD AS FLAMING FUCK. Then she gon hit me with the "************** law states we are not allowed to put alcohol on your hair at the end. I gave her this rampant look of scust not seen since I saw this black frat boy in KKK outfit.
Now I'm home washing my hair searching for rubbing alcohol. FUCK!! *throws bottle through a window*
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Job called me back in Utah and wants to pay me $14 an hour but has me working 9 hour shifts five days a week. And they want a personal statement explaining the two legal citations on my record. Slight problem is one of them is a paraphernalia citation and the other is the result of some fat fuck female cop on a power trip. Lawyer got me a citation after five minutes of talking to the DA. Hopefully this Utah company lets me be great and offers me a solid package. Give me Obamacare and access to the company gym.
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This barber FUCKED UP MY HAIR. Nigga MAD AS FLAMING FUCK. Then she gon hit me with the "************** law states we are not allowed to put alcohol on your hair at the end. I gave her this rampant look of scust not seen since I saw this black frat boy in KKK outfit.
Now I'm home washing my hair searching for rubbing alcohol. FUCK!! *throws bottle through a window*
LOL so the dealership calls me right before I get ready to make the first payments on the car and they say that I'll need a co-signer because all of a sudden the loan can't get approved - SO i can either get a co-signer or get my down payment back
lolololololol give me my cash back foh god telling me to get a bike again
lolololololol give me my cash back foh god telling me to get a bike again
Guess who's halfway fired? I sat something in the wrong place and a manager threw his towel like T-Rex. I can log into the system to change my information but the manager took me off the schedule. I don't know whether to call back tomorrow and plead for my job, call back Sunday when the make the schedule and speak to a manager about this apologizing, or say fuck everyone collect unemployment, and stack financial aid in order to move. I'm only working here to bolster my employment history while applying for jobs I want to do as a career. What should I do?
Yall remember my friend i posted about a long ass time ago that had an idea for the adult industry? He found a partner for his company and investment capital. CFO will be flying down here to finalize some time this week. This dude first told me about this and started working on it like 5 years ago. Made me sign NDA and everything. Looks like it may literally pay off.
No. He asked me in the very beginning though. I just wasnt about it at the time and we both just started working at our current employer. But he's ran things by me or asked for advice, if he should take this trip, talk here etc. For awhile he was flying all over the country just knocking on peoples door. He would get off work and then work another 8+ hours on his company. It's been a grind but looks like there's some light for him at the end of the tunnel.