By psychintellect Go To PostWell, father tried to stab me today.
Yo, wtf.
That feel when you already got tons of cats in the house but there are some ones that come into your yard you wanna grab. (No id far as I can tell.)
Especially the russian blue and one that shows up looking like this:
Especially the russian blue and one that shows up looking like this:
Don't want to get into details but yeah, arguments started happening(during that second game I was playing with smokey)
Arguments escalated, dude ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife, came at me, my mom called the cops, he peeled out.
Kind of glad it got to this point because my mom finally had to do something about his bum ass.
Arguments escalated, dude ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife, came at me, my mom called the cops, he peeled out.
Kind of glad it got to this point because my mom finally had to do something about his bum ass.
By psychintellect Go To PostDon't want to get into details but yeah, arguments started happening(during that second game I was playing with smokey)
Arguments escalated, dude ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife, came at me, my mom called the cops, he peeled out.
Kind of glad it got to this point because my mom finally had to do something about his bum ass.
Damn man, that's rough, I'm sorry.
By psychintellect Go To PostDon't want to get into details but yeah, arguments started happening(during that second game I was playing with smokey)And i'm just sitting here bitching about having to do an exam.
Arguments escalated, dude ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife, came at me, my mom called the cops, he peeled out.
Kind of glad it got to this point because my mom finally had to do something about his bum ass.
Hope it all works out.
I am now an uncle. My brother sent me a text announcing the birth of my neice, Arianna Walker, middle-name pending.
It would be the first time my brother said anything to me since March 11 when he revealed to me that he tattled on me to dad about me talking about his anger issues.
I did not bother to tell him that my sister-in-law (already) has a daugher named Ariana (with one "N"), but I will once he and his wife have picked out a middle name and the social security card has come through. The probability of them picking "Michelle" has to be statistically impossible, but we'll see.
I offered to buy something...bottle warmer, breast pump....asked if they had a registry. But my bro is reclusive, so I doubt it.
I think he's the one who sent my son the random Ralphael ninja turtle for his birthday, but nothing came with it indicating that it was from him. So my son has an unclaimed gift.
My family...joke. My wife's family has its problems but at least they actually communicate to each other.
It would be the first time my brother said anything to me since March 11 when he revealed to me that he tattled on me to dad about me talking about his anger issues.
I did not bother to tell him that my sister-in-law (already) has a daugher named Ariana (with one "N"), but I will once he and his wife have picked out a middle name and the social security card has come through. The probability of them picking "Michelle" has to be statistically impossible, but we'll see.
I offered to buy something...bottle warmer, breast pump....asked if they had a registry. But my bro is reclusive, so I doubt it.
I think he's the one who sent my son the random Ralphael ninja turtle for his birthday, but nothing came with it indicating that it was from him. So my son has an unclaimed gift.
My family...joke. My wife's family has its problems but at least they actually communicate to each other.
By psychintellect Go To PostDon't want to get into details but yeah, arguments started happening(during that second game I was playing with smokey)
Arguments escalated, dude ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife, came at me, my mom called the cops, he peeled out.
Kind of glad it got to this point because my mom finally had to do something about his bum ass.
I really wish you would have just quit :(
welp. finally snapped on my roommates
went exactly like i thought it would. broke two tvs and threw a hot pan filled with pasta all over the floor. felt good tho
went exactly like i thought it would. broke two tvs and threw a hot pan filled with pasta all over the floor. felt good tho
fuck man, some of the stuff on these last few pages.
i read something like psy's situation and it gets me thinking what might have happened to old internet friends I had that just fell off the face of the planet. glad your ok
i read something like psy's situation and it gets me thinking what might have happened to old internet friends I had that just fell off the face of the planet. glad your ok
By Omega Go To Postfuck man, some of the stuff on these last few pages.Thanks man.I totally get that feeling too, That's why I'm hoping that LFK and isn't just avoiding Forever. Has anyone heard from him?
i read something like psy's situation and it gets me thinking what might have happened to old internet friends I had that just fell off the face of the planet. glad your ok
By DY_nasty Go To Postwelp. finally snapped on my roommatesGo on.......
went exactly like i thought it would. broke two tvs and threw a hot pan filled with pasta all over the floor. felt good tho
By DY_nasty Go To Postwelp. finally snapped on my roommates
went exactly like i thought it would. broke two tvs and threw a hot pan filled with pasta all over the floor. felt good tho
Island fever setting in? You broke their tv?
By psychintellect Go To PostThanks man.I totally get that feeling too, That's why I'm hoping that LFK and isn't just avoiding Forever. Has anyone heard from him?
Tbh not like him to leave cause of that lol. never took ball so seriously and joked around for the most part.
but yeah hope its nothing too serious
Island Fever is a lie.
What happened was the guy roommate told the girl (not me) that some homeless dude was going to spend the night. I didn't hear about anything until I step out of my room to use the shower. Guy looks ...homeless. Homeless dude in my apartment. Anyways, I pull the guy roommate outside and ask for the rundown and he tells me "I've known the guy since 3rd grade"
....
Fuck that. That was 20+ years ago, that don't mean shit. I got a government ID sitting on the wall and my wallet on the shoe rack. You run shit by me and you be straight up with me when you do. But I roll with it for the night. The next day, I'm surprised to see them come back at 4pm with homeless guy still around. I'm not cool with it anymore. I look straight at girl and tell her "this isn't cool" she wants to ignore me, tell me how great the day was, and cook a meal like some pasta is going to make things all better. I tell the guy roommate in his room..
"hey, you told me this guy was gonna be out. what's the deal?"
"he's staying"
"....that's not what I said at all. If he needs a place to stay, I can help get him a room somewhere else if this is about charity"
"that's my boy and he's staying"
"....i'm clearly agitated right now. chill out. i don't need this right now. i'm offering a solution for everyone. i pay rent here like everyone else, and"
"you don't even buy groceries"
"i don't eat what you guys eat, and that doesn'-"
"he's staying and he-"
Then I flipped his TV because I saw the conversation was going nowhere and people clearly weren't understanding my frustration so I figured show was better than tell at that point lol. The homeless guy immediately recognizes shit has gone sour and exits. He's smart. The girl stops cooking then inserts herself in the obviously heated situation.
"you didn't even talk to him. he's a nice guy"
dahell
"i don't have to like anybody or talk to anybody"
"you should just have dinner"
*ignore*
guy roommate moves towards my room
"how would you like it if i broke your shit?"
"i don't care. i need to be able to relax in my own fucking place"
"its always about you. you doing your angry, 'i'm perfect and its everyone elses fault' shit"
"..."
*i kick in my own tv to clearly illustrate how no one is gonna get any fucking peace in the house if i wasn't getting mine anymore. seemed like the right answer. and the guy at least seemed to get the picture. he's known me long enough to realize that i was extremely angry at that point and that MAYBE he fucked up.*
"dude wtf :("
girl goes back into kitchen to keep cooking because she's insane. goes on to blame me for not getting to know the bum. the guy roommate tries to cut her off, but i figure i may as well filet her ass up too since i'm already going in
mind you - when i first met the girl she'd roll into a fetal position and repeat how dumb of a stupid, dumb woman she was for making any kind of mistake. no exaggeration. she was pathetic. i'd actually gone out of my way to give her some semblance of self-confidence since i've been here. she wanted to throw it all back in my face... that's what pissed me off more
so while telling me what a horrible person i am for
a) not letting a homeless guy 'get to know me'
b) not cleaning up despite her getting mad when i do clean up because that is her ptsd coping mechanism
c) not buying food i don't eat
d) taking her room (we switched rooms because the guy roommate was so scared of walking past my 'room' in the common area that he'd literally eat nothing but tuna and piss in bottles to keep away from me) when she begged me to switch with her (i liked my spot, but i did her the favor)
e) getting my shit together (yes. i'm a bad person for getting over my issues lol)
f) going out to see the island when she can't
g) staying in my room most of the day to edit instead of playing house with them
h) not eating the food i don't pay for
i) cleaning the apartment on her days off (which somehow prevents her from getting out on her days off)
all while cooking still, like i don't have a more than enough reasons to be pissed off the past 6 months. i guess i gotta flip this pan and put dinner on the floor now since people want to be stupid and play last word instead of just owning up
*flip*
guy roommate just watches it happen. doesn't say shit and sits in awe. she cries and says she wants to kick me out i laugh in her face, bring up all the times when she cried to me about all the shit he did that was way worse, and she has this .... *thing*... where she just can't stfu and take the L. I clearly told these guys several times months ago that they wouldn't be able to deal with me pissed off. Now here I am, sober as fuck, pissed off for a valid reason, and she wants to keep throwing shit in my face saying shit she doesn't mean to try and 'win' an argument like a petulant child. We talking about buying groceries when I paid for your pregnancy test? lmao We talking about kicking people out when you were begging me NOT to kick him out for punking you in your own parking space? so okay
i'll sit right in your chair and let you say everything you could possibly regret in the morning. i don't even have to go in on you. i'll just let you continue to pile on whatever you need to fully bury yourself in guilt until you run out of air. and like a true asshole, i commit
the guy catches on eventually and steps in. she runs outside crying. at that point... i'm feeling pretty good with shit off my chest lol. head to my room, close the door, and get ready to rack out
about 30 minutes later a friend from work shows up completely out of the blue responding to a text he got hours before everything started. i hear him knock, laugh when he responds to the obvious tension in the house, he checks on the other guy and sees the girl crying on a shoulder, then asks if i want to walk outside and rap about it. ynot
head outside, explain the situation, he's trying to understand how calm i am given the look the of the place and i'm really just like "some people should listen when you say you're upset lol". he offers to let me crash at his spot and i take the offer
woke up to his roommate playing piano, dope coffee, and vice doc on syria.
i'm gonna move out of my place asap
What happened was the guy roommate told the girl (not me) that some homeless dude was going to spend the night. I didn't hear about anything until I step out of my room to use the shower. Guy looks ...homeless. Homeless dude in my apartment. Anyways, I pull the guy roommate outside and ask for the rundown and he tells me "I've known the guy since 3rd grade"
....
Fuck that. That was 20+ years ago, that don't mean shit. I got a government ID sitting on the wall and my wallet on the shoe rack. You run shit by me and you be straight up with me when you do. But I roll with it for the night. The next day, I'm surprised to see them come back at 4pm with homeless guy still around. I'm not cool with it anymore. I look straight at girl and tell her "this isn't cool" she wants to ignore me, tell me how great the day was, and cook a meal like some pasta is going to make things all better. I tell the guy roommate in his room..
"hey, you told me this guy was gonna be out. what's the deal?"
"he's staying"
"....that's not what I said at all. If he needs a place to stay, I can help get him a room somewhere else if this is about charity"
"that's my boy and he's staying"
"....i'm clearly agitated right now. chill out. i don't need this right now. i'm offering a solution for everyone. i pay rent here like everyone else, and"
"you don't even buy groceries"
"i don't eat what you guys eat, and that doesn'-"
"he's staying and he-"
Then I flipped his TV because I saw the conversation was going nowhere and people clearly weren't understanding my frustration so I figured show was better than tell at that point lol. The homeless guy immediately recognizes shit has gone sour and exits. He's smart. The girl stops cooking then inserts herself in the obviously heated situation.
"you didn't even talk to him. he's a nice guy"
dahell
"i don't have to like anybody or talk to anybody"
"you should just have dinner"
*ignore*
guy roommate moves towards my room
"how would you like it if i broke your shit?"
"i don't care. i need to be able to relax in my own fucking place"
"its always about you. you doing your angry, 'i'm perfect and its everyone elses fault' shit"
"..."
*i kick in my own tv to clearly illustrate how no one is gonna get any fucking peace in the house if i wasn't getting mine anymore. seemed like the right answer. and the guy at least seemed to get the picture. he's known me long enough to realize that i was extremely angry at that point and that MAYBE he fucked up.*
"dude wtf :("
girl goes back into kitchen to keep cooking because she's insane. goes on to blame me for not getting to know the bum. the guy roommate tries to cut her off, but i figure i may as well filet her ass up too since i'm already going in
mind you - when i first met the girl she'd roll into a fetal position and repeat how dumb of a stupid, dumb woman she was for making any kind of mistake. no exaggeration. she was pathetic. i'd actually gone out of my way to give her some semblance of self-confidence since i've been here. she wanted to throw it all back in my face... that's what pissed me off more
so while telling me what a horrible person i am for
a) not letting a homeless guy 'get to know me'
b) not cleaning up despite her getting mad when i do clean up because that is her ptsd coping mechanism
c) not buying food i don't eat
d) taking her room (we switched rooms because the guy roommate was so scared of walking past my 'room' in the common area that he'd literally eat nothing but tuna and piss in bottles to keep away from me) when she begged me to switch with her (i liked my spot, but i did her the favor)
e) getting my shit together (yes. i'm a bad person for getting over my issues lol)
f) going out to see the island when she can't
g) staying in my room most of the day to edit instead of playing house with them
h) not eating the food i don't pay for
i) cleaning the apartment on her days off (which somehow prevents her from getting out on her days off)
all while cooking still, like i don't have a more than enough reasons to be pissed off the past 6 months. i guess i gotta flip this pan and put dinner on the floor now since people want to be stupid and play last word instead of just owning up
*flip*
guy roommate just watches it happen. doesn't say shit and sits in awe. she cries and says she wants to kick me out i laugh in her face, bring up all the times when she cried to me about all the shit he did that was way worse, and she has this .... *thing*... where she just can't stfu and take the L. I clearly told these guys several times months ago that they wouldn't be able to deal with me pissed off. Now here I am, sober as fuck, pissed off for a valid reason, and she wants to keep throwing shit in my face saying shit she doesn't mean to try and 'win' an argument like a petulant child. We talking about buying groceries when I paid for your pregnancy test? lmao We talking about kicking people out when you were begging me NOT to kick him out for punking you in your own parking space? so okay
i'll sit right in your chair and let you say everything you could possibly regret in the morning. i don't even have to go in on you. i'll just let you continue to pile on whatever you need to fully bury yourself in guilt until you run out of air. and like a true asshole, i commit
the guy catches on eventually and steps in. she runs outside crying. at that point... i'm feeling pretty good with shit off my chest lol. head to my room, close the door, and get ready to rack out
about 30 minutes later a friend from work shows up completely out of the blue responding to a text he got hours before everything started. i hear him knock, laugh when he responds to the obvious tension in the house, he checks on the other guy and sees the girl crying on a shoulder, then asks if i want to walk outside and rap about it. ynot
head outside, explain the situation, he's trying to understand how calm i am given the look the of the place and i'm really just like "some people should listen when you say you're upset lol". he offers to let me crash at his spot and i take the offer
woke up to his roommate playing piano, dope coffee, and vice doc on syria.
i'm gonna move out of my place asap
By Moris Go To PostAh, classic case of Island Fever.
lol
You're sort of in the wrong. Your room mates have issues, and you have issues with them. But you were a dick, and in the wrong.
Regardless, you're obviously not capable of living with these people, moving out is the best option.
Regardless, you're obviously not capable of living with these people, moving out is the best option.
lol moris
By giririsss Go To PostYou're sort of in the wrong. You're room mates have issues, and you have issues with them. But you were a dick, and in the wrong.i get to be a dick after the shit i put up with
Regardless, you're obviously not capable of living with these people, moving out is the best option.
By DY_nasty Go To Postlol morisNot sure anyone is ever entitled to physically intimidate. But it is confirmation that the environment is toxic and you need to move out. Which you were already partially aware of. Maybe it'll be the impetus you need to move on.
i get to be a dick after the shit i put up with
we switched rooms because the guy roommate was so scared of walking past my 'room' in the common area that he'd literally eat nothing but tuna and piss in bottles to keep away from me)Go on..........
But damn dy did you have to flip his TV tho?
Guy sounds timid as fuck because I would have been seeing red if someone fucks up my shit.
he physically intimidated me by trying to put his foot down having a homeless guy in the house and basically telling me to go fuck myself in my own home. i told them both i was uncomfortable, rolled with it for a day, reiterated it, offered a compromise, then tried to prevent them from further antagonizing me while clearly being aware of how close i was to going off
going off was a legit, well thought out option at that point man.
going off was a legit, well thought out option at that point man.
By psychintellect Go To PostGo on……….I told reilo and db about it as it was happening. This guy was at one point a really good friend of mine and his family welcomed me with open arms when I was getting set up out here. He lied about a ton of shit, and continued some alcoholic behavior - being his boy, and repaying a favor when I was going through shit, I went out of my way to help him out. Instead of just saying "no, i need to be fucked up" he said some off the wall shit like "even my mom sticks up for you"... making me think I was in the wrong.
But damn dy did you have to flip his TV tho?
Guy sounds timid as fuck because I would have been seeing red if someone fucks up my shit.
Then I found out he was lying about his PTSD by saying some imaginary soldier friend of his was killed in indirect fire back in Afghanistan and his mom was happy that I was helping him confront his real issues. That's what she was "sticking up for me for". Helping him. So once I put those facts together I verbally undressed him. It was real bad. And for the next two months he drank himself stupid in a corner in his room while marathoning How I Met Your Mother while eating nothing but tuna. Dude had piss bottles and a trash bag next to his bed. He wouldn't even use the bathroom if he thought I was home.
Guy has 60 lbs on me easily. Used to be a great friend.
By DY_nasty Go To Posthe physically intimidated me by trying to put his foot down having a homeless guy in the house and basically telling me to go fuck myself in my own home. i told them both i was uncomfortable, rolled with it for a day, reiterated it, offered a compromise, then tried to prevent them from further antagonizing me while clearly being aware of how close i was to going offUnless you own the house, you don't get to dictate the whole environment. Just the way it rolls. It's the horrendous downside to renting. I wouldn't have been happy about the situation either, and the 3 of you needed to sit down and talk it out properply, but neither party seemed interested in doing that.. 2 out of 3 voted against, you didn't get your way, and had a tantrum. Is how that reads. Honestly.
going off was a legit, well thought out option at that point man.
Could replace homeless with a roomies sketchy ass gf whom you think does drugs instead of a homeless man, and you still wouldn't have a "right" until something illegal happens. I've seen many friendships blow up over sketchy gf's staying multiple nights too
Yeah, he was homeless, the other two have issues, but you didn't offer a compromise, you offered your solution and that was it. The fact there's other issues between the 3 house mates means it wasn't going to work long term anyway. This was just boiling point.
By db Go To PostYou just don't bring in random homeless junkies into a house you share with other people.
I agree, but if the other guy vouches for him as a friend, he's a friend. Until he crosses a line you're sort of jacked.
By giririsss Go To PostUnless you own the house, you don't get to dictate the whole environment. Just the way it rolls. It's the horrendous downside to renting. I wouldn't have been happy about the situation either, and the 3 of you needed to sit down and talk it out properply, but neither party seemed interested in doing that.. 2 out of 3 voted against, you didn't get your way, and had a tantrum. Is how that reads. Honestly.naw man. i was told -last minute- one night, and i was lied to about his circumstances. if ONE person doesn't feel comfortable with a person in the house, that's it. wasn't any didn't go my way thing at all. its courtesy to let people know that kind of stuff. no effort was made. on top of that, i've got government property and restricted access stuff here. to not even make me aware of someone showing up is pure dickery. then he's here the next night? naw. now we got problems.
Could replace homeless with a roomies sketchy ass gf whom you think does drugs instead of a homeless man, and you still wouldn't have a "right" until something illegal happens. I've seen many friendships blow up over sketchy gf's staying multiple nights too
Yeah, he was homeless, the other two have issues, but you didn't offer a compromise, you offered your solution and that was it. The fact there's other issues between the 3 house mates means it wasn't going to work long term anyway. This was just boiling point.
I agree, but if the other guy vouches for him as a friend, he's a friend. Until he crosses a line you're sort of jacked.
and if we're trying to take care of a homeless person, then why isn't coming up with money out of my pocket - and i don't even know or like the guy - not a compromise and a solution? i don't have to do shit. i could just call the cops say i feel threatened and fuck everyone up.
i've brought over girls before and if the girl roommate didn't feel comfortable with it, i dropped it then and there. that's how shit works.
the next night he was there. and neither of them wanted to address it. i told them i was agitated. he wanted to put his foot down and take a stand for someone that he hadn't seen in decades instead of communicate. she wanted to play house. they both have had me sit between their back and forths for months. its only fucking fair that i communicate that issue in language that they understand
and they got the point going by all the apology texts i've been getting today lol
i'm still packing my shit and getting my deposit tho
By giririsss Go To PostI agree, but if the other guy vouches for him as a friend, he's a friend. Until he crosses a line you're sort of jacked.
Dude no.
You have roomies you have to get permission for people to stay and give notice ahead of time.
By db Go To PostDude no.You don't. . Not really. Unless its in the contract.
You have roomies you have to get permission for people to stay and give notice ahead of time.
There doesn't need to be a contract for common sense. I don't know, maybe you lived with enough friends and they brought over friends of friends. Where I lived it was pretty natural to give a heads up about people possibly staying with and if that was okay. Because the other roomies have to basically live around that guest too.
By IWMTB19 Go To PostLearning how to program (with Python as the language I picked) is fun :)If you think "logically" it's fun.
This nigga Dy really played pastaball with someone's Vizio, loooool
They say Hawaii changes a man.
As for me, getting my wisdom teeth pulled this Friday. Should be fun.
They say Hawaii changes a man.
As for me, getting my wisdom teeth pulled this Friday. Should be fun.
By Trey Go To PostAs for me, getting my wisdom teeth pulled this Friday. Should be fun.
I've had some of the worst teeth. I had to get my wisdom teeth pulled and all my molars extracted. All these teeth were stuck in my gums so recovery was a bitch. I just got my last 2 molars taken out 2 weeks ago and I'm still not fully recovered yet.
it all depends on just how bad the placement is, otherwise a week is standard. Just enjoy painkillers and chill out bruh
I finally got dental again (a healthy benefit package, at that!) so I'll be hitting up the dentist soon to get my teeth fixed and hopefully Invisalign down the line to get my bottom teeth lined up.
I need some veneers and a nightguard. Ground my teeth in my sleep for years now and my front two teeth look scary.
By db Go To PostI need some veneers and a nightguard. Ground my teeth in my sleep for years now and my front two teeth look scary.My bottom row is starting to chip up because of nighttime grinding. Gums night be receding on the inside of the back row too maybe.
Starting a regimen to socialize one of these cats if it kills me. Cannot be holed up in one room for the rest of her days because other cats bother her. Right now I got her in a cage like below but in the living room on the couch exposed to all the smells and other cats.
By db Go To PostDude no.
You have roomies you have to get permission for people to stay and give notice ahead of time.
Preach
By giririsss Go To PostYou don't. . Not really. Unless its in the contract.
As a dude who has delt with this on both sides of the discussion.........
........
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HEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLL TOOOO DAAAAAA NNNNNAAAAWWWW.
If I see someone pull out a sleeping bag outta nowhere or walk out the shower when I don't know them nor why they're in the house then it's problems.
Add that shit up with the rest of the shit dy went though and hell I woulda done the same thing. Or make the dude pay triple the rent for homeless dude. Or said fuck it and call the cops.-----
Other news, I got grades back from this semester and got a 3.5 gpa.
All I need now is to finish this summer math class and undergrad is done.
By IWMTB19 Go To PostLearning how to program (with Python as the language I picked) is fun :)
Damn this reminds me, I really need to get back on learning a programming language. I've been working my ass off trying to get some stable income.
I just haven't been able to jump back on the train since my Costco job can be physically and at times mentally taxing. Despite this I'm crazy enough to still go hard and workout after my shift no matter how tired I am. Due to this, I usually need rest to the point that I only have an hour or 2 before my shift the next day which usually starts at 2.
Though now things may be looking up. Been using YNAB and it's doing wonders with my finances. And since my sister is done with nursing school I'm hoping she can land a job soon enough after getting her RN license. Hope is I can work less and focus on getting an actual career in programming for myself while starting on savings for retirement, vacation, and whatever else.
