By h3roI'm proposing to my girlfriend today!
:)
I forsee a drink to celebrate in our future. Good luck bro!
By h3roI'm proposing to my girlfriend today!Atlanta allows gay marriage?
:)
Hope you and LS are happy together.
By AdamDon't want to really ruin a possible friendship though.
Every time your brain tells you this, smack it. That is the classic guy wuss-out move. You already know full well friendship isn't what you're after.
There's a planet full of billions of people you can be friends with. Making it the ones you'd rather get with is basically punching yourself in the balls.
By livefromkyotoBy AdamDon't want to really ruin a possible friendship though.
Every time your brain tells you this, smack it. That is the classic guy wuss-out move. You already know full well friendship isn't what you're after.
There's a planet full of billions of people you can be friends with. Making it the ones you'd rather get with is basically punching yourself in the balls.
Yes, sifu. :(
SLAENT has pretty much spoken with one voice...
By giririsssBy h3roI'm proposing to my girlfriend today!Atlanta allows gay marriage?
:)
Hope you and LS are happy together.
Oh Giri. Why you so jelly of H3ro's and my relationship? We have pizza, gelato, wine and laughs. We share laughs, smiles, and joy. It's truly a bromance.
By AdamYes, sifu. :(
LOL, just take it from a guy who used to do the same thing and wonder why he always ended up in the friend zone until one day...
By IWMTB19PUA garbageshit is still PUA garbageshit tho, LFK.
Nobody's telling anyone to be a PUA. I'm telling him not to suppress his feelings for the sake of a friendship that doesn't actually exist. Becoming friends with a woman when you have another agenda is dishonest and not good for either party.
By reiloNooo don't do it.
Just kidding. Good luck! You won't need it.
By viakadoGodspeed brother.
By SmokeyGood stuff h3ro
Prepare for tears
By MorisCongrats
By dy_nastyfollow ur <3
By lovingsteamI forsee a drink to celebrate in our future. Good luck bro!
By giririssss gay marriage?Thank you guys!
Hope you and LS are happy together.
Everything went off without a hitch and been celebrating since.
Clovis, we gotta celebrate once I'm back down in Atl!
Don't hate giri, you wish you could be gelato-bros like steam and I.
By h3roThank you guys!
Everything went off without a hitch and been celebrating since.
Clovis, we gotta celebrate once I'm back down in Atl!
Don't hate giri, you wish you could be gelato-bros like steam and I.
Grats breh.
So there's this chick. Current goal is to bang. I asked her out, she said yes, and then apparently she got really bad cramps from her birth control? So canceled the dinner (my wallet thanked me), and just smoked instead. Nothing happened, just talked and smoked. That was Saturday.
Last night we smoked after work, talked, etc. My mistake was that I just got out of the car without doing anything except saying goodbye. I didn't even kiss her or look at her really. I was really stoned. Now that I think back on it, she was definitely dropping hints but I was too high to realize it at the time.
My question is, how do I get that opportunity again? Obvious answer is just to invite her to share a blunt, but I was wondering if you guys had any ideas.
Last night we smoked after work, talked, etc. My mistake was that I just got out of the car without doing anything except saying goodbye. I didn't even kiss her or look at her really. I was really stoned. Now that I think back on it, she was definitely dropping hints but I was too high to realize it at the time.
My question is, how do I get that opportunity again? Obvious answer is just to invite her to share a blunt, but I was wondering if you guys had any ideas.
By balddemonSo there's this chick. Current goal is to bang. I asked her out, she said yes, and then apparently she got really bad cramps from her birth control? So canceled the dinner (my wallet thanked me), and just smoked instead. Nothing happened, just talked and smoked. That was Saturday.
Last night we smoked after work, talked, etc. My mistake was that I just got out of the car without doing anything except saying goodbye. I didn't even kiss her or look at her really. I was really stoned. Now that I think back on it, she was definitely dropping hints but I was too high to realize it at the time.
My question is, how do I get that opportunity again? Obvious answer is just to invite her to share a blunt, but I was wondering if you guys had any ideas.
Walk up to her and say "wanna fuck".
/me shrug
By psychintellectSmoke againyeah this is the most likely route lol. i was this close to having her invite me over tonight but idk i probably said something dumb. there's always tomorrow night.
"Wanna fuck?"
By balddemonBy psychintellectSmoke againyeah this is the most likely route lol. i was this close to having her invite me over tonight but idk i probably said something dumb. there's always tomorrow night.
"Wanna fuck?"
if she drinks bring a tiny alize and henny.... thug passion & weed won't fail you.
By Zeus Ex MachinaI like the way you think. Plus she's a Tupac fan. She likes a lot of older rap actually. I'm trying to turn her on to Dead Prez and Deltron 3030, having just "discovered" them myself. Any recs for albums from them? Already have Deltron 3030 and Let's Get Free.By balddemonBy psychintellectSmoke againyeah this is the most likely route lol. i was this close to having her invite me over tonight but idk i probably said something dumb. there's always tomorrow night.
"Wanna fuck?"
if she drinks bring a tiny alize and henny…. thug passion & weed won't fail you.
By balddemonBy Zeus Ex MachinaI like the way you think. Plus she's a Tupac fan. She likes a lot of older rap actually. I'm trying to turn her on to Dead Prez and Deltron 3030, having just "discovered" them myself. Any recs for albums from them? Already have Deltron 3030 and Let's Get Free.By balddemonBy psychintellectSmoke againyeah this is the most likely route lol. i was this close to having her invite me over tonight but idk i probably said something dumb. there's always tomorrow night.
"Wanna fuck?"
if she drinks bring a tiny alize and henny…. thug passion & weed won't fail you.
Honestly a combination of 90's and current RnB and whatever is on the radio is what i usually would recommend. if she considers herself an artistic weed head play this song for her when your rolling up....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwTNOxJXMYM
get the mp3 cause the video has an interlude
also this song always gets the mood set
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjk2oUINxnA
haha well. Last night could probably not have gone worse. At first she just wanted to stay at home, which I was fine with and did not try to force her to change her mind. Then she changed her mind, I picked her up and we went to the party. we kissed for the first time in the car before she made up some bullshit excuse about having chapped lips and not liking to kiss while high. i said whatever , we went in, smoked a bowl and started socializing. at least, I did. I tried to introduce her to people but she was being super awkward and shy.
Eventually everyone went upstairs for the countdown, we made out for a lil bit at midnight which was cool. By this point I am super twisted, having not eaten much all day, smoking weed and chugging drinks. I admit i was being annoying as fuck, asking her why she didn't wanna kiss me anymore, why she changed and wasn't her usual bubbly self anymore, and not accepting her answer of "I'm just really high and chilling" because it was more than that. A little bit later she asked me to take her home. I had been chuggin water so I did. She mentioned I was leaving my stuff and when I told her i was coming back, she seemed kind of disappointed? i mean, that's doubtful since she thought i was mad (i was drunk) at her earlier and was kind of pissed herself. She was just sitting upstairs alone watching tv while everyone else was downstairs partying.
on the way back to her house, we argued about something i don't really recall. I do remember that she said she has no friends and thats why she was awkard and shy. Obviously I was probably not in the right state of mind to be doing much more than more partying, and did not say the right thing. ended up driving in silence most of the way. I went back, drank some more, brooded, then puked my guts out and pretty much passed out on the bathroom floor sitting up against the wall. Came to at 7:15am, went home, brushed my teeth and slept.
Woke up at 2:30pm, and sent her a text about some stupid stuff when all I probably should have said was " I was drunk and acting foolishly. I didn't take your feelings into account and for that I'm sorry. can you forgive me?" I might still do that. But anyways, I told her I want to be her friend and that she can join our little group or w/e. probably the wrong thing because it probably seems like I pity her or some bullshit.
anyways, can't believe I fucked it up so badly. Just want to somewhat fix things before we work together on Monday LOL.
Eventually everyone went upstairs for the countdown, we made out for a lil bit at midnight which was cool. By this point I am super twisted, having not eaten much all day, smoking weed and chugging drinks. I admit i was being annoying as fuck, asking her why she didn't wanna kiss me anymore, why she changed and wasn't her usual bubbly self anymore, and not accepting her answer of "I'm just really high and chilling" because it was more than that. A little bit later she asked me to take her home. I had been chuggin water so I did. She mentioned I was leaving my stuff and when I told her i was coming back, she seemed kind of disappointed? i mean, that's doubtful since she thought i was mad (i was drunk) at her earlier and was kind of pissed herself. She was just sitting upstairs alone watching tv while everyone else was downstairs partying.
on the way back to her house, we argued about something i don't really recall. I do remember that she said she has no friends and thats why she was awkard and shy. Obviously I was probably not in the right state of mind to be doing much more than more partying, and did not say the right thing. ended up driving in silence most of the way. I went back, drank some more, brooded, then puked my guts out and pretty much passed out on the bathroom floor sitting up against the wall. Came to at 7:15am, went home, brushed my teeth and slept.
Woke up at 2:30pm, and sent her a text about some stupid stuff when all I probably should have said was " I was drunk and acting foolishly. I didn't take your feelings into account and for that I'm sorry. can you forgive me?" I might still do that. But anyways, I told her I want to be her friend and that she can join our little group or w/e. probably the wrong thing because it probably seems like I pity her or some bullshit.
anyways, can't believe I fucked it up so badly. Just want to somewhat fix things before we work together on Monday LOL.
By balddemonhaha well. Last night could probably not have gone worse. At first she just wanted to stay at home, which I was fine with and did not try to force her to change her mind. Then she changed her mind, I picked her up and we went to the party. we kissed for the first time in the car before she made up some bullshit excuse about having chapped lips and not liking to kiss while high. i said whatever , we went in, smoked a bowl and started socializing. at least, I did. I tried to introduce her to people but she was being super awkward and shy.
Eventually everyone went upstairs for the countdown, we made out for a lil bit at midnight which was cool. By this point I am super twisted, having not eaten much all day, smoking weed and chugging drinks. I admit i was being annoying as fuck, asking her why she didn't wanna kiss me anymore, why she changed and wasn't her usual bubbly self anymore, and not accepting her answer of "I'm just really high and chilling" because it was more than that. A little bit later she asked me to take her home. I had been chuggin water so I did. She mentioned I was leaving my stuff and when I told her i was coming back, she seemed kind of disappointed? i mean, that's doubtful since she thought i was mad (i was drunk) at her earlier and was kind of pissed herself. She was just sitting upstairs alone watching tv while everyone else was downstairs partying.
on the way back to her house, we argued about something i don't really recall. I do remember that she said she has no friends and thats why she was awkard and shy. Obviously I was probably not in the right state of mind to be doing much more than more partying, and did not say the right thing. ended up driving in silence most of the way. I went back, drank some more, brooded, then puked my guts out and pretty much passed out on the bathroom floor sitting up against the wall. Came to at 7:15am, went home, brushed my teeth and slept.
Woke up at 2:30pm, and sent her a text about some stupid stuff when all I probably should have said was " I was drunk and acting foolishly. I didn't take your feelings into account and for that I'm sorry. can you forgive me?" I might still do that. But anyways, I told her I want to be her friend and that she can join our little group or w/e. probably the wrong thing because it probably seems like I pity her or some bullshit.
anyways, can't believe I fucked it up so badly. Just want to somewhat fix things before we work together on Monday LOL.
man jeez that was bad... idk what to tell you but next time don't get fucked up in front a girl until after you have a repertoire with a girl enough that she knows you don't normally act like that. Don't introduce her to your friends until you've been together for a while (and even then give her heads up on them so she sort of knows them by reputation if not literally). Also lastly don't text apologies try to call her or give them in person. She might not think you might not have anything to apologize for and brush it off to you being drunk but once you say "I fucked up" she is going to think "You know what.... He did fuck up" Thats why having a discussion is key. So you can get a feel of how she feels and act appropriately.
Like to put this in perspective, she is probably nervous around new people since it sounds like she is a introvert, she was high, and with you being drunk (and not functioning at 100%) it was like she was by herself in a room a strangers. She might of not been mad at you so much as just uncomfortable about the whole situation. I don't know what you wrote in that text but I would say try to call her and discuss yesterday. Maybe you can talk your way into another date (if thats what you want) and even if you do just want to be friends it will be more sincere if she heres you say it.
Also I should of told you specifically the thug passion and weed was to be consumed prior to sleeping with her. Not going out with her. I thought your plan was to get her to your or her house since you would be drinking, smoking weed and listening to music.
By Zeus Ex MachinaGreat advice actually. With all this in mind, I talked to her and we're all good now. I'm just gonna be nice to her and see what happens. I feel like she mostly needs a friend, not someone trying to get in her pants. I can do that. Thanks for the help amigo, you were like 100% spot on with that shit.By balddemonhaha well. Last night could probably not have gone worse. At first she just wanted to stay at home, which I was fine with and did not try to force her to change her mind. Then she changed her mind, I picked her up and we went to the party. we kissed for the first time in the car before she made up some bullshit excuse about having chapped lips and not liking to kiss while high. i said whatever , we went in, smoked a bowl and started socializing. at least, I did. I tried to introduce her to people but she was being super awkward and shy.
Eventually everyone went upstairs for the countdown, we made out for a lil bit at midnight which was cool. By this point I am super twisted, having not eaten much all day, smoking weed and chugging drinks. I admit i was being annoying as fuck, asking her why she didn't wanna kiss me anymore, why she changed and wasn't her usual bubbly self anymore, and not accepting her answer of "I'm just really high and chilling" because it was more than that. A little bit later she asked me to take her home. I had been chuggin water so I did. She mentioned I was leaving my stuff and when I told her i was coming back, she seemed kind of disappointed? i mean, that's doubtful since she thought i was mad (i was drunk) at her earlier and was kind of pissed herself. She was just sitting upstairs alone watching tv while everyone else was downstairs partying.
on the way back to her house, we argued about something i don't really recall. I do remember that she said she has no friends and thats why she was awkard and shy. Obviously I was probably not in the right state of mind to be doing much more than more partying, and did not say the right thing. ended up driving in silence most of the way. I went back, drank some more, brooded, then puked my guts out and pretty much passed out on the bathroom floor sitting up against the wall. Came to at 7:15am, went home, brushed my teeth and slept.
Woke up at 2:30pm, and sent her a text about some stupid stuff when all I probably should have said was " I was drunk and acting foolishly. I didn't take your feelings into account and for that I'm sorry. can you forgive me?" I might still do that. But anyways, I told her I want to be her friend and that she can join our little group or w/e. probably the wrong thing because it probably seems like I pity her or some bullshit.
anyways, can't believe I fucked it up so badly. Just want to somewhat fix things before we work together on Monday LOL.
man jeez that was bad… idk what to tell you but next time don't get fucked up in front a girl until after you have a repertoire with a girl enough that she knows you don't normally act like that. Don't introduce her to your friends until you've been together for a while (and even then give her heads up on them so she sort of knows them by reputation if not literally). Also lastly don't text apologies try to call her or give them in person. She might not think you might not have anything to apologize for and brush it off to you being drunk but once you say "I fucked up" she is going to think "You know what…. He did fuck up" Thats why having a discussion is key. So you can get a feel of how she feels and act appropriately.
Like to put this in perspective, she is probably nervous around new people since it sounds like she is a introvert, she was high, and with you being drunk (and not functioning at 100%) it was like she was by herself in a room a strangers. She might of not been mad at you so much as just uncomfortable about the whole situation. I don't know what you wrote in that text but I would say try to call her and discuss yesterday. Maybe you can talk your way into another date (if thats what you want) and even if you do just want to be friends it will be more sincere if she heres you say it.
Also I should of told you specifically the thug passion and weed was to be consumed prior to sleeping with her. Not going out with her. I thought your plan was to get her to your or her house since you would be drinking, smoking weed and listening to music.
By balddemonBy Zeus Ex MachinaGreat advice actually. With all this in mind, I talked to her and we're all good now. I'm just gonna be nice to her and see what happens. I feel like she mostly needs a friend, not someone trying to get in her pants. I can do that. Thanks for the help amigo, you were like 100% spot on with that shit.By balddemonhaha well. Last night could probably not have gone worse. At first she just wanted to stay at home, which I was fine with and did not try to force her to change her mind. Then she changed her mind, I picked her up and we went to the party. we kissed for the first time in the car before she made up some bullshit excuse about having chapped lips and not liking to kiss while high. i said whatever , we went in, smoked a bowl and started socializing. at least, I did. I tried to introduce her to people but she was being super awkward and shy.
Eventually everyone went upstairs for the countdown, we made out for a lil bit at midnight which was cool. By this point I am super twisted, having not eaten much all day, smoking weed and chugging drinks. I admit i was being annoying as fuck, asking her why she didn't wanna kiss me anymore, why she changed and wasn't her usual bubbly self anymore, and not accepting her answer of "I'm just really high and chilling" because it was more than that. A little bit later she asked me to take her home. I had been chuggin water so I did. She mentioned I was leaving my stuff and when I told her i was coming back, she seemed kind of disappointed? i mean, that's doubtful since she thought i was mad (i was drunk) at her earlier and was kind of pissed herself. She was just sitting upstairs alone watching tv while everyone else was downstairs partying.
on the way back to her house, we argued about something i don't really recall. I do remember that she said she has no friends and thats why she was awkard and shy. Obviously I was probably not in the right state of mind to be doing much more than more partying, and did not say the right thing. ended up driving in silence most of the way. I went back, drank some more, brooded, then puked my guts out and pretty much passed out on the bathroom floor sitting up against the wall. Came to at 7:15am, went home, brushed my teeth and slept.
Woke up at 2:30pm, and sent her a text about some stupid stuff when all I probably should have said was " I was drunk and acting foolishly. I didn't take your feelings into account and for that I'm sorry. can you forgive me?" I might still do that. But anyways, I told her I want to be her friend and that she can join our little group or w/e. probably the wrong thing because it probably seems like I pity her or some bullshit.
anyways, can't believe I fucked it up so badly. Just want to somewhat fix things before we work together on Monday LOL.
man jeez that was bad… idk what to tell you but next time don't get fucked up in front a girl until after you have a repertoire with a girl enough that she knows you don't normally act like that. Don't introduce her to your friends until you've been together for a while (and even then give her heads up on them so she sort of knows them by reputation if not literally). Also lastly don't text apologies try to call her or give them in person. She might not think you might not have anything to apologize for and brush it off to you being drunk but once you say "I fucked up" she is going to think "You know what…. He did fuck up" Thats why having a discussion is key. So you can get a feel of how she feels and act appropriately.
Like to put this in perspective, she is probably nervous around new people since it sounds like she is a introvert, she was high, and with you being drunk (and not functioning at 100%) it was like she was by herself in a room a strangers. She might of not been mad at you so much as just uncomfortable about the whole situation. I don't know what you wrote in that text but I would say try to call her and discuss yesterday. Maybe you can talk your way into another date (if thats what you want) and even if you do just want to be friends it will be more sincere if she heres you say it.
Also I should of told you specifically the thug passion and weed was to be consumed prior to sleeping with her. Not going out with her. I thought your plan was to get her to your or her house since you would be drinking, smoking weed and listening to music.
No problem man I'm just glad to help. Also some of the best girlfriends a man can get started out as their friends. So yeah get to know her and see if the attraction is still there in a few days or weeks. Just make sure to always complement her on her appearance if you want to convert a friendship into a relationship later.
By balddemonThe good thing was, she wanted you to stay with her after the party. If it was a 'terrible' date for her, she would tucked and rolled from your car at 5 mph and not looked back.By Zeus Ex MachinaGreat advice actually. With all this in mind, I talked to her and we're all good now. I'm just gonna be nice to her and see what happens. I feel like she mostly needs a friend, not someone trying to get in her pants. I can do that. Thanks for the help amigo, you were like 100% spot on with that shit.By balddemonhaha well. Last night could probably not have gone worse. At first she just wanted to stay at home, which I was fine with and did not try to force her to change her mind. Then she changed her mind, I picked her up and we went to the party. we kissed for the first time in the car before she made up some bullshit excuse about having chapped lips and not liking to kiss while high. i said whatever , we went in, smoked a bowl and started socializing. at least, I did. I tried to introduce her to people but she was being super awkward and shy.
Eventually everyone went upstairs for the countdown, we made out for a lil bit at midnight which was cool. By this point I am super twisted, having not eaten much all day, smoking weed and chugging drinks. I admit i was being annoying as fuck, asking her why she didn't wanna kiss me anymore, why she changed and wasn't her usual bubbly self anymore, and not accepting her answer of "I'm just really high and chilling" because it was more than that. A little bit later she asked me to take her home. I had been chuggin water so I did. She mentioned I was leaving my stuff and when I told her i was coming back, she seemed kind of disappointed? i mean, that's doubtful since she thought i was mad (i was drunk) at her earlier and was kind of pissed herself. She was just sitting upstairs alone watching tv while everyone else was downstairs partying.
on the way back to her house, we argued about something i don't really recall. I do remember that she said she has no friends and thats why she was awkard and shy. Obviously I was probably not in the right state of mind to be doing much more than more partying, and did not say the right thing. ended up driving in silence most of the way. I went back, drank some more, brooded, then puked my guts out and pretty much passed out on the bathroom floor sitting up against the wall. Came to at 7:15am, went home, brushed my teeth and slept.
Woke up at 2:30pm, and sent her a text about some stupid stuff when all I probably should have said was " I was drunk and acting foolishly. I didn't take your feelings into account and for that I'm sorry. can you forgive me?" I might still do that. But anyways, I told her I want to be her friend and that she can join our little group or w/e. probably the wrong thing because it probably seems like I pity her or some bullshit.
anyways, can't believe I fucked it up so badly. Just want to somewhat fix things before we work together on Monday LOL.
man jeez that was bad… idk what to tell you but next time don't get fucked up in front a girl until after you have a repertoire with a girl enough that she knows you don't normally act like that. Don't introduce her to your friends until you've been together for a while (and even then give her heads up on them so she sort of knows them by reputation if not literally). Also lastly don't text apologies try to call her or give them in person. She might not think you might not have anything to apologize for and brush it off to you being drunk but once you say "I fucked up" she is going to think "You know what…. He did fuck up" Thats why having a discussion is key. So you can get a feel of how she feels and act appropriately.
Like to put this in perspective, she is probably nervous around new people since it sounds like she is a introvert, she was high, and with you being drunk (and not functioning at 100%) it was like she was by herself in a room a strangers. She might of not been mad at you so much as just uncomfortable about the whole situation. I don't know what you wrote in that text but I would say try to call her and discuss yesterday. Maybe you can talk your way into another date (if thats what you want) and even if you do just want to be friends it will be more sincere if she heres you say it.
Also I should of told you specifically the thug passion and weed was to be consumed prior to sleeping with her. Not going out with her. I thought your plan was to get her to your or her house since you would be drinking, smoking weed and listening to music.
So, take that and her self proclaimed awkwardness as an excuse to rebound. Give her a chance for her to come out of her shell in a different setting.
By Zero ToleranceBy psychintellectSmoke again
"Wanna fuck?"
Are women that easy these days?
In Missouri?
By Zero ToleranceBy psychintellectSmoke again
"Wanna fuck?"
Are women that easy these days?
The best and worst ones, yeah.
Got a lot of stuff I want to do this year. For one I'm going to try and go back to school this fall and start my Masters. Trying to decide what to study -- further Management Information Systems (what I got my BA in) studies or go another direction towards a Masters in Global Energy Management. I work for an oil company...so my thinking is that could help me get on the business side of the company whereas I am currently in IT. Or could further MIS skills by going that Masters route. Got to take GMAT first. Going to order the Manhattan Prep 10 book package and go to work and see what I can do. Problem I always run into is I think of going to class 6p-9p after work and immediately my brain shuts down. Really trying to move past that this time though.
Also signed up for this training site called PluralSight (pluralsight.com). If you're into IT check it out. Tons and tons of courses, videos, and tests. They have a 10 day trial which then converts to either $30 month or $50 a month depending on the package you choose. I did networking in my previous job assignment at my company and have always loved that shit. Want to eventually go for my CCNA. Been spending the majority of the night going in on network material. Some videos are several hours long. Anything IT related you can think of is on there -- programming, web development, networking, SQL etc.
Also signed up for this training site called PluralSight (pluralsight.com). If you're into IT check it out. Tons and tons of courses, videos, and tests. They have a 10 day trial which then converts to either $30 month or $50 a month depending on the package you choose. I did networking in my previous job assignment at my company and have always loved that shit. Want to eventually go for my CCNA. Been spending the majority of the night going in on network material. Some videos are several hours long. Anything IT related you can think of is on there -- programming, web development, networking, SQL etc.
By andthebeatgoesonThe good thing was, she wanted you to stay with her after the party. If it was a 'terrible' date for her, she would tucked and rolled from your car at 5 mph and not looked back.yeah idk about that man. trying to hang out with her the last couple times is like pulling teeth. we smoke, and then when we're done, she just leaves or asks me to drive her back. it's like she thinks I want to do more with her, but I'm not making a move so she thinks it's awkward? not sure, don't really care. moving on. I'll hit her up to smoke every once in a while because she's pretty cool. but i ain't chasin a super hot girl to be her friend.
So, take that and her self proclaimed awkwardness as an excuse to rebound. Give her a chance for her to come out of her shell in a different setting.
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anyways i have a real problem now (lol). texted my ex with a number that a mutual friend gave me so I could apologize to her for the way i treated her way back when. I said "hi is this Katherine?" she said "yep" and I didn't respond (this was yesterday afternoon lol). it scared me so much for some reason. she was amazing and i totally made love to the pooch on that one.
also, I need a resume update now that I'm an EMT. who do i talk to here that can glance it over? I know in the past that some IRC guys would do it so I"ll also ask them.
this is gonna be an interesting month for me because i STILL haven't got my bonus and now its directly interfering with work
if i don't see anything by the 15th, i'll seriously consider packing my shit and taking that job in DC instead :/
if i don't see anything by the 15th, i'll seriously consider packing my shit and taking that job in DC instead :/
Soon as I signed up for that pluralsight account because it was taking too long for approval at work, I was granted a corporate license today. $50 a month saved . Gonna dive deep into this stuff.
All she can day is no. If she says no just keep it moving . I'm assuming you've already know her or is this more of a I've seen this girl around so many times type thing ?
By IWMTB19I'm going to ask this girl I really like out when the new semester starts, hopefully it goes well.
All she can day is no. If she says no just keep it moving . I'm assuming you've already know her or is this more of a I've seen this girl around so many times type thing ?
I know her a bit and have talked to her a few times, she's really cool. I'm not really worried about rejection. If it happens, it's fine. I'm just hopeful for yes.
I pretty much turned my life around in terms of health last year, lost 30KGs and went from being obese to being in pretty decent shape (though I fear the effect the holidays had on me), but this one is shaping up to be just as big - I'm planning to finish my masters thesis ASAP so I can get that off my back and start dedicating time to personal projects which I've had to sideline, and I've also got a big trip to Europe with my gf of 5 years in March, which should be fun. If that goes as well as I expect it to, we'll probably be looking into getting our own place during the latter half of the year. Can't wait to see how it turns out.
Working second shift when you have a wife and kids sucks.
Before I went to work today, a Cheerios commercial came on about this very topic. Some kid gets up in the middle of the night to have "breakfast" with their father before he went to work on 3rd shift. Touching. I once came home and yelled at my son for being up past 2AM but he said he was up because he wanted to see me. I felt bad.
Anyway, guy in the commercial works 3rd shift. That would be better than 2nd. At least then, I could see my kids before they went to school, sleep while they are at school, and be up when they come home and have dinner with them before I went in. On 2nd, I sleep before they get up and see them for like one hour before I have to go to work after picking them up from school.
Wife is a whole 'nother topic. This morning she wanted a piece of me after I had gotten up to pee, but I was too pooped to whoop.
The shame.
Before I went to work today, a Cheerios commercial came on about this very topic. Some kid gets up in the middle of the night to have "breakfast" with their father before he went to work on 3rd shift. Touching. I once came home and yelled at my son for being up past 2AM but he said he was up because he wanted to see me. I felt bad.
Anyway, guy in the commercial works 3rd shift. That would be better than 2nd. At least then, I could see my kids before they went to school, sleep while they are at school, and be up when they come home and have dinner with them before I went in. On 2nd, I sleep before they get up and see them for like one hour before I have to go to work after picking them up from school.
Wife is a whole 'nother topic. This morning she wanted a piece of me after I had gotten up to pee, but I was too pooped to whoop.
The shame.
By Zero ToleranceWorking second shift when you have a wife and kids sucks.damn breh i feel you lol
Before I went to work today, a Cheerios commercial came on about this very topic. Some kid gets up in the middle of the night to have "breakfast" with their father before he went to work on 3rd shift. Touching. I once came home and yelled at my son for being up past 2AM but he said he was up because he wanted to see me. I felt bad.
Anyway, guy in the commercial works 3rd shift. That would be better than 2nd. At least then, I could see my kids before they went to school, sleep while they are at school, and be up when they come home and have dinner with them before I went in. On 2nd, I sleep before they get up and see them for like one hour before I have to go to work after picking them up from school.
Wife is a whole 'nother topic. This morning she wanted a piece of me after I had gotten up to pee, but I was too pooped to whoop.
The shame.
did that to my sister. i was halfway into telling her off for waking me up in the middle the night (massive time zone difference and the last time she typically only calls me in the middle of the night when someone's about to need a trip to the hospital) just a few weeks ago.
"just wanted to make sure you were the first person to know that i got accepted into college @ ECU! :3"
felt like such a scumbag, man
let me tell you the best thing about hawaii so far
everyone here pretends leg day doesn't exist lol. i haven't had to wait on a single leg machine or squat rack in 2 months. its amazing.
everyone here pretends leg day doesn't exist lol. i haven't had to wait on a single leg machine or squat rack in 2 months. its amazing.
By dy_nastylet me tell you the best thing about hawaii so far
everyone here pretends leg day doesn't exist lol. i haven't had to wait on a single leg machine or squat rack in 2 months. its amazing.
That just makes me hurl. Although now that I think about it, very rarely do I wait for one of the two power racks to open up at 24 hour.
Happy to be in 2015 as 2014 was the most tumultous year of my life and if it wasn't for my daughter and girlfriend, damn, would have sucked. Have some good goals for 2015 which includes going to Europe for the first time with my girl, continuing to build my business, see the fam (haven't seen my parents in about 17 months). Also, I seriously can't believe how much I was missing out on in regards the relationship I was in with my ex wife. I've never been happier in a relationship as I am now.
The woman I'm with is freaking amazing in every single way. She's my best friend in the entire world, supportive even with the tumultuous ups and downs with my business, and my god does my daughter love her. If things continue I definitely am thinking of popping the question later this year. Can't believe I went from the relationship from hell to heaven so quickly. Also, from my experience, I definitely don't recommend anyone getting married until living with their SO for some time.
The woman I'm with is freaking amazing in every single way. She's my best friend in the entire world, supportive even with the tumultuous ups and downs with my business, and my god does my daughter love her. If things continue I definitely am thinking of popping the question later this year. Can't believe I went from the relationship from hell to heaven so quickly. Also, from my experience, I definitely don't recommend anyone getting married until living with their SO for some time.
By lovingsteamHappy to be in 2015 as 2014 was the most tumultous year of my life and if it wasn't for my daughter and girlfriend, damn, would have sucked. Have some good goals for 2015 which includes going to Europe for the first time with my girl, continuing to build my business, see the fam (haven't seen my parents in about 17 months). Also, I seriously can't believe how much I was missing out on in regards the relationship I was in with my ex wife. I've never been happier in a relationship as I am now.But you'll pop the question in less than a year?
The woman I'm with is freaking amazing in every single way. She's my best friend in the entire world, supportive even with the tumultuous ups and downs with my business, and my god does my daughter love her. If things continue I definitely am thinking of popping the question later this year. Can't believe I went from the relationship from hell to heaven so quickly. Also, from my experience, I definitely don't recommend anyone getting married until living with their SO for some time.
Life has been kicking my ass for a few months. Dad is going through chemo again. My mom found out she has cancer (which is a touchy situation. I've explained the problems I have with my mother to you guys). I started job hunting and my car's transmission went out. It's looking like I won't see my son for awhile because of the job/car situation. Depending how Tuesday goes I might be broke in a few months.
BUT!
I got a date with a girl lined up. Hopefully everything goes good because I hardly know her and my friend set me up with her. I had to make promises though.
- No trying to sleep with her on the first date.
1. She just got out of a relationship.
2. My friend really wants me to try and get to know her because he claims she's my dream girl.
3. He's really worried I will make him look bad.
- Pretend he has never mentioned anything about her personal life.
1. He's told me some pretty personal stuff because he wanted me to know what I was getting into.
- Don't spaz out.
1. This is going be hard because from what he says she's everything I would want from a woman.
Weird experience for me because this is the first time in years I am going out with someone I could see myself with. Most of the time I date chicks I know I can fuck and not get attached to. A friend recently pointed out that the women I date aren't even the type he believes to be my type. As in, they do not have the same interest nor do they actually have any of the attributes I want from a partner. He knows what I want because we have had very personal discussions with each other about this shit.
To be honest he is right.
Oh
I graduated last month.
BUT!
I got a date with a girl lined up. Hopefully everything goes good because I hardly know her and my friend set me up with her. I had to make promises though.
- No trying to sleep with her on the first date.
1. She just got out of a relationship.
2. My friend really wants me to try and get to know her because he claims she's my dream girl.
3. He's really worried I will make him look bad.
- Pretend he has never mentioned anything about her personal life.
1. He's told me some pretty personal stuff because he wanted me to know what I was getting into.
- Don't spaz out.
1. This is going be hard because from what he says she's everything I would want from a woman.
Weird experience for me because this is the first time in years I am going out with someone I could see myself with. Most of the time I date chicks I know I can fuck and not get attached to. A friend recently pointed out that the women I date aren't even the type he believes to be my type. As in, they do not have the same interest nor do they actually have any of the attributes I want from a partner. He knows what I want because we have had very personal discussions with each other about this shit.
To be honest he is right.
Oh
I graduated last month.
By giririsssBy lovingsteamHappy to be in 2015 as 2014 was the most tumultous year of my life and if it wasn't for my daughter and girlfriend, damn, would have sucked. Have some good goals for 2015 which includes going to Europe for the first time with my girl, continuing to build my business, see the fam (haven't seen my parents in about 17 months). Also, I seriously can't believe how much I was missing out on in regards the relationship I was in with my ex wife. I've never been happier in a relationship as I am now.But you'll pop the question in less than a year?
The woman I'm with is freaking amazing in every single way. She's my best friend in the entire world, supportive even with the tumultuous ups and downs with my business, and my god does my daughter love her. If things continue I definitely am thinking of popping the question later this year. Can't believe I went from the relationship from hell to heaven so quickly. Also, from my experience, I definitely don't recommend anyone getting married until living with their SO for some time.
Due to the way things happened, I'll have been living with her for a year and half. We'll have been dating for about two years, give or take. I've been in Atlanta for a year and we've pretty much spent every day together except for the first 6 months on the days when I had my daughter before the divorce was finalized.
By YamabroLife has been kicking my ass for a few months. Dad is going through chemo again. My mom found out she has cancer (which is a touchy situation. I've explained the problems I have with my mother to you guys). I started job hunting and my car's transmission went out. It's looking like I won't see my son for awhile because of the job/car situation. Depending how Tuesday goes I might be broke in a few months.geez man. that's more than a handful...
BUT!
I got a date with a girl lined up. Hopefully everything goes good because I hardly know her and my friend set me up with her. I had to make promises though.
- No trying to sleep with her on the first date.
1. She just got out of a relationship.
2. My friend really wants me to try and get to know her because he claims she's my dream girl.
3. He's really worried I will make him look bad.
- Pretend he has never mentioned anything about her personal life.
1. He's told me some pretty personal stuff because he wanted me to know what I was getting into.
- Don't spaz out.
1. This is going be hard because from what he says she's everything I would want from a woman.
Weird experience for me because this is the first time in years I am going out with someone I could see myself with. Most of the time I date chicks I know I can fuck and not get attached to. A friend recently pointed out that the women I date aren't even the type he believes to be my type. As in, they do not have the same interest nor do they actually have any of the attributes I want from a partner. He knows what I want because we have had very personal discussions with each other about this shit.
To be honest he is right.
Oh
I graduated last month.
at least you graduated though. i can't even start school until summer
By dy_nastyBy YamabroLife has been kicking my ass for a few months. Dad is going through chemo again. My mom found out she has cancer (which is a touchy situation. I've explained the problems I have with my mother to you guys). I started job hunting and my car's transmission went out. It's looking like I won't see my son for awhile because of the job/car situation. Depending how Tuesday goes I might be broke in a few months.geez man. that's more than a handful…
BUT!
I got a date with a girl lined up. Hopefully everything goes good because I hardly know her and my friend set me up with her. I had to make promises though.
- No trying to sleep with her on the first date.
1. She just got out of a relationship.
2. My friend really wants me to try and get to know her because he claims she's my dream girl.
3. He's really worried I will make him look bad.
- Pretend he has never mentioned anything about her personal life.
1. He's told me some pretty personal stuff because he wanted me to know what I was getting into.
- Don't spaz out.
1. This is going be hard because from what he says she's everything I would want from a woman.
Weird experience for me because this is the first time in years I am going out with someone I could see myself with. Most of the time I date chicks I know I can fuck and not get attached to. A friend recently pointed out that the women I date aren't even the type he believes to be my type. As in, they do not have the same interest nor do they actually have any of the attributes I want from a partner. He knows what I want because we have had very personal discussions with each other about this shit.
To be honest he is right.
Oh
I graduated last month.
at least you graduated though. i can't even start school until summer
Surprisingly I am not worried about the life shit going on. I'll adjust and conquer.
MY job isn't hard per se, I just don't like it very much.
Got me switching my major; luckily I only have to survive another 10 months or so then I can leave.
Got me switching my major; luckily I only have to survive another 10 months or so then I can leave.
So I've never really shared my life with y'all before (well, I talked to Dy and Adam a bit playing Halo 4 once. I remember, I remember all.), but tomorrow, I go back to school. Well, I graduated college back in May with a Bachelor's in journalism that I didn't really want. I realized like halfway through my junior year that I didn't like journalism and that all the kids on the school paper were unbearable. I told my advisor, but she told me to just keep going because I could make it work. And she was a god damn liar, but c'est la vie.
I spent the last eight months working jobs I didn't like, just generally being miserable, so about two months ago, I started to feel like I should go back to college and maybe get a degree I didn't find worthless. So after some real soul searching, I met with an advisor, told her my plans, she signed off, and here I am.
(The day after I registered, I quit the job I was working, real smooth like, by just calling up and telling them I wasn't coming in that day or ever again. I don't regret it for a second.)
Once more unto the breach. So, uh, wish me luck, I guess?
I spent the last eight months working jobs I didn't like, just generally being miserable, so about two months ago, I started to feel like I should go back to college and maybe get a degree I didn't find worthless. So after some real soul searching, I met with an advisor, told her my plans, she signed off, and here I am.
(The day after I registered, I quit the job I was working, real smooth like, by just calling up and telling them I wasn't coming in that day or ever again. I don't regret it for a second.)
Once more unto the breach. So, uh, wish me luck, I guess?