In complete sincerity and seriousness, please see a therapist. We here at Slaent are not equipped to properly help you with questions like these.
Therapists are good and they are available for exactly this kind of thing! There is no shame in seeing one.
As for those social media platforms, an easy thing to do is turn on email notifications for what you care about and then never go onto the sites or apps until you get one of those notifications you signed up for.
Therapists are good and they are available for exactly this kind of thing! There is no shame in seeing one.
As for those social media platforms, an easy thing to do is turn on email notifications for what you care about and then never go onto the sites or apps until you get one of those notifications you signed up for.
as much as i post on social media and consume it, it's going to sound silly of me to say this.
but unless that shit is a business for you, its not worth nearly this much mental energy man.
are more likes/RTs/views/followers really going to make you feel better about yourself?
but unless that shit is a business for you, its not worth nearly this much mental energy man.
are more likes/RTs/views/followers really going to make you feel better about yourself?
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Not enough church-going Jesus Camp white kids in that car
By Kibner Go To PostIn complete sincerity and seriousness, please see a therapist. We here at Slaent are not equipped to properly help you with questions like these.Might try it. As for therapy, yeah, ongoing. Think I overshared anyway. Was in a weird place
Therapists are good and they are available for exactly this kind of thing! There is no shame in seeing one.
As for those social media platforms, an easy thing to do is turn on email notifications for what you care about and then never go onto the sites or apps until you get one of those notifications you signed up for.
Steber had been thinking about the shooting since last Christmas.
Steber wanted to rush a fraternity but didn't get in, but his roommate did.
He researched the Charleston, South Carolina church shooting, and planned to kill his roommate and himself.
Steber attended school in North Carolina specifically because it was easier to get guns.
im glad they caught this dude. as insular as the campus is, the town doesn't need something like this.
My grandma is in a coma like state right now. Family promised she wouldnt die alone, so taking turns being with her while she is being only half alive. Every few hours she will slightly open an eye, or like be able to squeeze your hand, but that is all. Just a week ago you could have a conversation with her, although having to repeat things a few times. But she is 87 so kind of expected.
Crazy life she has had, married at 16, had her first kid at 17, survived 4 of her 8 kids (one who was never found, died at sea, she kept his clothes up until she had to go to an old peoples home a few years ago), adopted my aunts kid due to an abusive father, survived 1 husband and 3 boyfriends (she refused to ever get married again...), shot at by germans as a kid, because she and her friends stole food from them. Quite a life. She got mean towards the end of her life here, or at least very moody, and have had tumors in her brain for some time that they were scared to do surgery on. She isnt getting any fluids or anything, only pain reducing meds, from her own request, so now we are just waiting really for her to die, which is a bit weird.
Anyway, I just went away from there, here at 1am, having been there for a few hours. On my way out, i meet an old confused woman. 'who the fuck are you?' was just the first thing she said to me
She then ordered me to leave, which I did (i mean, I was already leaving), as I was walking away, I could hear here mumble 'idiot'.
I somewhat felt like that old lady just dominated the shit out of me.
Crazy life she has had, married at 16, had her first kid at 17, survived 4 of her 8 kids (one who was never found, died at sea, she kept his clothes up until she had to go to an old peoples home a few years ago), adopted my aunts kid due to an abusive father, survived 1 husband and 3 boyfriends (she refused to ever get married again...), shot at by germans as a kid, because she and her friends stole food from them. Quite a life. She got mean towards the end of her life here, or at least very moody, and have had tumors in her brain for some time that they were scared to do surgery on. She isnt getting any fluids or anything, only pain reducing meds, from her own request, so now we are just waiting really for her to die, which is a bit weird.
Anyway, I just went away from there, here at 1am, having been there for a few hours. On my way out, i meet an old confused woman. 'who the fuck are you?' was just the first thing she said to me
She then ordered me to leave, which I did (i mean, I was already leaving), as I was walking away, I could hear here mumble 'idiot'.
I somewhat felt like that old lady just dominated the shit out of me.
She did dominate you but that's ok
Unfortunate about your grandma, she's had a full life from the sounds of it though
Unfortunate about your grandma, she's had a full life from the sounds of it though
Unemployed for the first time, feeling pretty useless. Other than applying for jobs from 9-5, what do I do?
By Roberto Larcos Go To PostUnemployed for the first time, feeling pretty useless. Other than applying for jobs from 9-5, what do I do?See if there is anyway you can get better at skills for your desired profession, help family/friends (good way to get free meals and such), pursue some passion you never had the time to before.
By Wahabipapangus Go To PostInternet porn and stay up until 5 am imo.
pls stop attacking my way of life
By Kibner Go To PostSee if there is anyway you can get better at skills for your desired profession, help family/friends (good way to get free meals and such), pursue some passion you never had the time to before.
By Wahabipapangus Go To PostInternet porn and stay up until 5 am imo.Drakememe.jpg
By Kibner Go To PostSee if there is anyway you can get better at skills for your desired profession, help family/friends (good way to get free meals and such), pursue some passion you never had the time to before.
Any time not spent applying for stuff feels like time wasted, is the main issue. Been trying to make myself useful, but being in one place and having to watch every penny isn't a fun way to live (never had money, but beans on toast for lunch every day takes me back to undergrad days).
Anyway, I may have found something abroad. Plus points, it's a job and they will give me money, which I can exchange for goods and services, such as peanuts. Down side is it's temporary and in an expensive city. I'll take it if the offer becomes more solid, but not looking forward to being back in this position in a few short months.
Im not sure if I've fully outlined my struggle with BPD and OCD but this month has been way more taxing than I hoped. Finally relented to my self-destructive behaviours (cutting, ruining personal relationships) again.
I've been having a good year so far! I just relapsed. I will do better. I will become a better person. I just need to address this face-on. Sorry for the mini-diatribe.
I wish the best onto everyone, cause I know how difficult living can be.
I've been having a good year so far! I just relapsed. I will do better. I will become a better person. I just need to address this face-on. Sorry for the mini-diatribe.
I wish the best onto everyone, cause I know how difficult living can be.
Life has had an upward trend.
Got a nice raise today from work and Im dating the girl of my dreams.
Got a nice raise today from work and Im dating the girl of my dreams.
By Roberto Larcos Go To PostUnemployed for the first time, feeling pretty useless. Other than applying for jobs from 9-5, what do I do?Develop a new skill
have you gotten to the point where 9/11 doesn't really register anymore?
i was thinking about that this morning about how i remember so much of that day. and i thought it was a bit weird that this was the first time in years (other than visiting the museum in 2017) i'd ever really thought about it.
i was thinking about that this morning about how i remember so much of that day. and i thought it was a bit weird that this was the first time in years (other than visiting the museum in 2017) i'd ever really thought about it.
By domino Go To Posthave you gotten to the point where 9/11 doesn't really register anymore?
i was thinking about that this morning about how i remember so much of that day. and i thought it was a bit weird that this was the first time in years (other than visiting the museum in 2017) i'd ever really thought about it.
I just think about how many people the US has killed as a result of 9/11.
We don't think so much about events or tragedies that we're distanced from, be it temporally, geographically or culturally. I don't think on 9/11 daily for the same reason that I don't think on the Yugoslav Wars daily – human nature.
By Wahabipapangus Go To Posti think about denmarks wars with sweden every dayAhh the great CS:GO wars of 2013
I mean, we've been living with the consequences of 9/11 for most of our lives. It's very hard to actually think of it as a singular, self contained event and not the beginning of two decades of American policies both domestic and foreign.
I roadtripped the USA last September and i was asked where i was during 9/11 when i was in Albuquerque.
By HasphatsAnts Go To PostI mean, we've been living with the consequences of 9/11 for most of our lives. It's very hard to actually think of it as a singular, self contained event and not the beginning of two decades of American policies both domestic and foreign.
I was going to say something similar. It's 2019 and we're still feeling the direct effects of it and they're not dissipating any time soon.
Still seeing two 767's flown into two buildings and then watching the towers fall is something I will probably never forget. Shit like that was unheard of.
Yeah actually seeing thousands just die before your very young eyes probably gave plenty of us collective ptsd. Kind of fucked a bunch of adults just let us view the news like that in classrooms or at home. It's really fucked up if you think on it. It's one thing to see caskets or read about war or the bombings of even hiroshima or nagasaki. Or even see delayed shit. We got to watch in real time people massacred. Just ugh.
the sheer numbers of it never registered to me until i went to the museum and see so much content on it.
sounds crass to say but i remember being mostly concerned as a 10 year old if I could still go get The Blueprint after school that day.
sounds crass to say but i remember being mostly concerned as a 10 year old if I could still go get The Blueprint after school that day.
You just rarely have the perspective of what occurred at some various young ages but you can absolutely have the trauma and it just manifests itself in different ways. In the past they thought that if a child suffered abuse young enough it'd just be forgotten, they're finding out more and more this isn't the case, it will show up it's just a matter of severity or what kind of behaviors.
By Lunatic Go To PostAhh the great CS:GO wars of 2013
that is no war, that is just one side of øresund surrendering
pick any of them m8, every time the water froze enough to walk on from sweden to denmark, those inbreds would be running over trying to fight us
I still remember that morning pretty damn vividly. Complete with months and months of flying US flags in pick ups and people hyped about false reasons for war. I got caught up in all that at the time. One of the reason I find it hard to hold against people.
By i can get you a toe Go To PostYeah actually seeing thousands just die before your very young eyes probably gave plenty of us collective ptsd.
i remember us all watching it at an after school club thing, while we were playing monopoly. when they started jumping out of the building, we stopped playing and just watched what the fuck was going on. got home, told my mom when she got home from work 'yeah sure honey'.
By Laboured Go To PostFriends, chem-trails are the real problem.I reckon it's the (((people))) behind the ice wall.
By Daz Go To PostOh boy.You recognise yourself in this Bold?
I probably do with 3/4 of those examples but wouldn't necessary label myself as this. As with most things, it probably comes in periods.
A couple of those hit way too close to home, overthinking small inconsequential things, Being very social and then retreating.