By reilo Go To PostShowing up at the DMV at 6am is truly some boomer shit
Bro I work construction I slept in that day
when i got my learner permit in like 2017 that shit was horrible and turned me off from driving. i got there at like 8am and didnt leave until 6. i honestly think the dmv is why people treat store/restaurant closing times the way they do. That room was packed with people waiting hours, and at 4:58 there are still people coming in to beat the 5pm closing time.
been fortunate enough to never have to physically go into one besides getting a real ID during covid but that shit was easy. i'll sell my car if i ever have to back into a dmv for some stupid shit that can be done online
been fortunate enough to never have to physically go into one besides getting a real ID during covid but that shit was easy. i'll sell my car if i ever have to back into a dmv for some stupid shit that can be done online
By Fenderputty Go To PostBro I work construction I slept in that day"I didn't choose the boomer lifestyle, the boomer lifestyle chose me"
coworkers out here all telling the lore of their relationships and how they got engaged/married meanwhile I’m out here in the trenches 😭
somebody shoot me
somebody shoot me
By domino Go To Postcoworkers out here all telling the lore of their relationships and how they got engaged/married meanwhile I’m out here in the trenches 😭i hate it here ngl
somebody shoot me
its not even a loneliness thing its just like a 'damn this too much work' thing
I had to go to the probate court today, that shit is just as bad as the DMV, probably even worse. They got all these old ass microfiche machines all over the place and you gotta pay .25 just to use them and the internet to do God knows what kind of research on your own. Like how fucking cheap can you be? But low key I see their hustle, they make you do all the work cause they don't have any computers or microfiche on their side of the desk. Luckily, I had all the paperwork cause we went there in June and got shot down, so everything was in order now.
I still had to wait like an hour while they checked, then when I was ready to pay I had to have exact change which he sprung on me at the last second, thankfully I did but it's like a quicktime event and he damn near sounded upset that I didn't have to walk through the hood to go break a $100 at the nearest cornstore which was right next to the projects. Then ontop of this fuckery, he said they don't give receipts, so I had to fork over $420 and all I got out of it was him putting a post note on the paper with my name on it to file it
I still had to wait like an hour while they checked, then when I was ready to pay I had to have exact change which he sprung on me at the last second, thankfully I did but it's like a quicktime event and he damn near sounded upset that I didn't have to walk through the hood to go break a $100 at the nearest cornstore which was right next to the projects. Then ontop of this fuckery, he said they don't give receipts, so I had to fork over $420 and all I got out of it was him putting a post note on the paper with my name on it to file it
By reilo Go To PostWhat'd you do though
Probate is to process wills, my grandmother died in february. They make you jump through hoops in NY when there's a will and more than $30k is involved.
Thanks, she had dementia for 8+ years so we knew it was coming, still ass to see someone you love fade away like that. Dante?
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostDante?
By FortuneFaded Go To Post
Ahhh, I was about to say I know a lot of Dante, Donte and Dontays, so I was half expecting reilo to know somebody I knew.
By s y Go To Postno more benadryl as a sleep aid. my nose has been bleeding for 2 weeks.
By Rob Go To PostWhy did it take you two weeks to stop?sleep is important
Dont listen to me I was about to put dy on antidepressants but allergy meds dry out your nose just get some nasal spray
Went to my GP the other week about my sleep issues. He gave me a nasal steroid spray and I've just poked myself with it and made myself bleed. Dog straight over lapping it up.
By s y Go To Postsleep is importantTrue, but nose bleeds for two weeks isn’t a good sign
Even with the prescribed sleep aids, you are only supposed to use them like three times a week, not every night.
My Mexican family is going in on me right now Bruhs. They call me Pocho. Then made fun of me because I have the whitest kid in the family
A guy, who I hate but remain decent to for the sake of other friends, included me in a sweeping statement once that mentioned me as a groomsman. I thought nothing of it until I was added to a group chat a few weeks ago.
Never received an invitation and was just confused as hell, just didn’t feel real. So i never had an opportunity to decline the invite.
I have been stuck wondering what to do. Lie and say I can’t go, do it for my friends, or tell the truth.
I leaned towards the lie because this guy is ex military and a psycho and telling him the truth would cause problems. I also don’t want to go when I feel so strongly against him. I do not want to be paraded up there to look like one of his closest friends.
Other friends who are groomsmen have gotten on me now that I need to make a decision one way or the other before it is too late(wedding is in three weeks and I only know that because a friend mentioned it, don’t not the time or place, never even received an invite just assumed I would be free to go whenever)
Dude was planning his bachelor party for Sunday and then changed it to Saturday today. Told him I have a birthday party with dinner reservations and a club that were booked a month ago.
He was not happy.
Now I have decided to man up and tell him that I can’t let three incidents he did in the past while out slide and can’t be involved. I am scared the fuck of this guy because I don’t think I can be around him in the future given the problems he has caused in the past. This means avoiding an area in Seoul that he lives in and hangs out in all the bars there. And also not being able to hang out with my friends if they invite him.
I really don’t like confrontation. But I just can’t let this sham continue. Even if it means causing problems with a guy who I think will retaliate if he sees me in person again.
Not looking forward to this phone call tomorrow.
Never received an invitation and was just confused as hell, just didn’t feel real. So i never had an opportunity to decline the invite.
I have been stuck wondering what to do. Lie and say I can’t go, do it for my friends, or tell the truth.
I leaned towards the lie because this guy is ex military and a psycho and telling him the truth would cause problems. I also don’t want to go when I feel so strongly against him. I do not want to be paraded up there to look like one of his closest friends.
Other friends who are groomsmen have gotten on me now that I need to make a decision one way or the other before it is too late(wedding is in three weeks and I only know that because a friend mentioned it, don’t not the time or place, never even received an invite just assumed I would be free to go whenever)
Dude was planning his bachelor party for Sunday and then changed it to Saturday today. Told him I have a birthday party with dinner reservations and a club that were booked a month ago.
He was not happy.
Now I have decided to man up and tell him that I can’t let three incidents he did in the past while out slide and can’t be involved. I am scared the fuck of this guy because I don’t think I can be around him in the future given the problems he has caused in the past. This means avoiding an area in Seoul that he lives in and hangs out in all the bars there. And also not being able to hang out with my friends if they invite him.
I really don’t like confrontation. But I just can’t let this sham continue. Even if it means causing problems with a guy who I think will retaliate if he sees me in person again.
Not looking forward to this phone call tomorrow.
You're thinking way too hard about not fucking with people lol
"I don't want to do it"
No explanation necessary 😂 that's it
"I don't want to do it"
No explanation necessary 😂 that's it
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou're thinking way too hard about not fucking with people lol
"I don't want to do it"
No explanation necessary 😂 that's it
I genuinely should have come to you at first haha.
I enjoy saying no now without explaining myself
Just say you tried your best but you're busy? I wouldn't lose sleep over someone I don't care about or want nothing to do with in the future
Just say you tried your best but you're busy? I wouldn't lose sleep over someone I don't care about or want nothing to do with in the future
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou're thinking way too hard about not fucking with people lolFor most normal people.
"I don't want to do it"
No explanation necessary 😂 that's it
As I’m sure you’re aware, not everyone is normal
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou're thinking way too hard about not fucking with people lol
"I don't want to do it"
No explanation necessary 😂 that's it
This would have been fine when he first asked. Would come off super douchey if that's all he said now. Think you have give him some of the truth maybe not all if they guy is a maniac.
Telling people the reasons you don't like them is always gonna make any dialogue a long, no-win one ijs
Can't go + your best lie. Tell em take it or leave it. Shorter talk the better.
Can't go + your best lie. Tell em take it or leave it. Shorter talk the better.
Didn't even get the invitation, was just assumed to be one. Must be the nicest person in South Korea.
Let me simplify it for everyone; it's just because he is a well meaning individual and also fairly well off that they want to use him as an ATM.
By Lunatic Go To PostLet me simplify it for everything. it's just because he is pleasant and fairly well off that they want to use him as an ATM.Sounds like you have personal experience.
By Lunatic Go To PostLet me simplify it for everyone; it's just because he is a well meaning individual and also fairly well off that they want to use him as an ATM.They just want fancy umbrellas
Was not expecting to be called an ATM haha.
I only have one friend who has ever asked me for money we he has been in need to pay bills and always get the money back on his next payday.
And I certainly ain’t treating my friends to shit haha.
Also, I ain’t fairly well off
I only have one friend who has ever asked me for money we he has been in need to pay bills and always get the money back on his next payday.
And I certainly ain’t treating my friends to shit haha.
Also, I ain’t fairly well off
Why are you out here making it sound like dude is gonna come kill your pets if you don't go? If he's that fucked up your whole group has issues.
By Lupercal Go To PostShanksy baby, let me hold 28527 KRW.Shanks handing out money? I could us 25000 yen
By i can get you a toe Go To PostWhy are you out here making it sound like dude is gonna come kill your pets if you don't go? If he's that fucked up your whole group has issues.
You are right.
By Shanks D Zoro Go To PostA guy, who I hate but remain decent to for the sake of other friends, included me in a sweeping statement once that mentioned me as a groomsman. I thought nothing of it until I was added to a group chat a few weeks ago.No invite and you still don't know the time and the place? That's weird as shit for me.
Never received an invitation and was just confused as hell, just didn’t feel real. So i never had an opportunity to decline the invite.
I have been stuck wondering what to do. Lie and say I can’t go, do it for my friends, or tell the truth.
I leaned towards the lie because this guy is ex military and a psycho and telling him the truth would cause problems. I also don’t want to go when I feel so strongly against him. I do not want to be paraded up there to look like one of his closest friends.
Other friends who are groomsmen have gotten on me now that I need to make a decision one way or the other before it is too late(wedding is in three weeks and I only know that because a friend mentioned it, don’t not the time or place, never even received an invite just assumed I would be free to go whenever)
Dude was planning his bachelor party for Sunday and then changed it to Saturday today. Told him I have a birthday party with dinner reservations and a club that were booked a month ago.
He was not happy.
Now I have decided to man up and tell him that I can’t let three incidents he did in the past while out slide and can’t be involved. I am scared the fuck of this guy because I don’t think I can be around him in the future given the problems he has caused in the past. This means avoiding an area in Seoul that he lives in and hangs out in all the bars there. And also not being able to hang out with my friends if they invite him.
I really don’t like confrontation. But I just can’t let this sham continue. Even if it means causing problems with a guy who I think will retaliate if he sees me in person again.
Not looking forward to this phone call tomorrow.
Told him today. Decided not to go down the scorch road path. He was understanding.
I think they were definitely expecting money, heard they had a money man.
Is an American-British wedding.
He is half American half Korea.
By blackace Go To PostIf it's a Korean style wedding that's just free money for him
I think they were definitely expecting money, heard they had a money man.
Is an American-British wedding.
He is half American half Korea.