By DY_nasty Go To Postfuck it i'll askPlan a year or two ahead at least and go for it. Otherwise just fucking hope for the best lmao - I wing it in life 9 times out of 10 and hope it works out
how do you guys get out of ruts?
By DY_nasty Go To Postfuck it i'll askup the dose
how do you guys get out of ruts?
By Perfect Blue Go To PostPlan a year or two ahead at least and go for it. Otherwise just fucking hope for the best lmao - I wing it in life 9 times out of 10 and hope it works outplans end. meh. finish it and i don't get anything close to the satisfaction other people claim to feel. repeating the process feels more like work than work itself.
By sy tried Go To Postup the dose....u spittin ngl
By Perfect Blue Go To PostPlan a year or two ahead at least and go for it. Otherwise just fucking hope for the best lmao - I wing it in life 9 times out of 10 and hope it works out
About the only thing my wife and I have ever planned was home purchases and children.
By DY_nasty Go To Postplans end. meh. finish it and i don't get anything close to the satisfaction other people claim to feel. repeating the process feels more like work than work itself.Hell if I know then, geez
By DY_nasty Go To Postplans end. meh. finish it and i don't get anything close to the satisfaction other people claim to feel. repeating the process feels more like work than work itself.How about girl friend?
….u spittin ngl
By DY_nasty Go To Postfuck it i'll askForce myself to do something that I've been too scared or reluctant to do in the past. For me, that's usually been related to actually going out and meeting new people and doing new things. Going on a vacation somewhere. That sort of thing.
how do you guys get out of ruts?
By Fenderputty Go To PostHow about girl friend?the idea of latching on to someone while focusing on the direction of my life from the ground up feels like quitting on genuine desire to find the best purpose/route for myself.
plus I'm not really of the mind to present myself as relationship material like some kind of self aware mental health leech. and being someone's 'project' is just an exercise in resentment development waiting to happen
If there's any relationship to be had, it'd be founded in mutual goals. but to have those I'd need my own first
By Fenderputty Go To PostHow about girl friend?This is the worst possible route to go for everyone involved
By Perfect Blue Go To PostThis is the worst possible route to go for everyone involved
I personally want to see the wedding pics
you can talk to people without marrying them and having kids 😂
I got a pretty good hand in life right now. I just want to make the best of it. I can't think of a better case of depression/anxiety.
I got a pretty good hand in life right now. I just want to make the best of it. I can't think of a better case of depression/anxiety.
By DY_nasty Go To PostI can't think of a better case of depression/anxiety.
My wife went though a couple years in anti-depressants as did my mother. May also help.
Just had a really great start to my weekend.
Saw someone in front of his apartment complex from further away, being on the bottom in front of his house door.
It's pretty cold outside and he was crawling around like a toddler.
Screaming from further away and asked if he was okay, which got a "no" as an answer. Asked if he needed an ambulance was followed up by another "no".
Got inside, put my shoes on and walked over to that apartment complex. Dude wasn't hurt or anything, just drunk as fuck.
Couldn't really get up in any form and certainly not open the door and get up the stairs.
What should I do? Calling an ambulance seemed unecessary since he wasn't injured and they got more than enough to do currently.
Leaving him out there wasn't an option.
So I dragged him into the house first and opened his apartment door, but getting him up those stairs (not alot, just 6 stairs or so) wasn't that easy alone. Rang the doorbell and asked his neighbour to help me. Carried him into his appartment and he said it's fine from there on out.
A lot of beer bottles around, so it certainly wasn't the first time for him.
Not really something you want to do in the middle of a pandemic, but given that no one else saw him or reacted to it, it was necessary.
Saw someone in front of his apartment complex from further away, being on the bottom in front of his house door.
It's pretty cold outside and he was crawling around like a toddler.
Screaming from further away and asked if he was okay, which got a "no" as an answer. Asked if he needed an ambulance was followed up by another "no".
Got inside, put my shoes on and walked over to that apartment complex. Dude wasn't hurt or anything, just drunk as fuck.
Couldn't really get up in any form and certainly not open the door and get up the stairs.
What should I do? Calling an ambulance seemed unecessary since he wasn't injured and they got more than enough to do currently.
Leaving him out there wasn't an option.
So I dragged him into the house first and opened his apartment door, but getting him up those stairs (not alot, just 6 stairs or so) wasn't that easy alone. Rang the doorbell and asked his neighbour to help me. Carried him into his appartment and he said it's fine from there on out.
A lot of beer bottles around, so it certainly wasn't the first time for him.
Not really something you want to do in the middle of a pandemic, but given that no one else saw him or reacted to it, it was necessary.
By Daz Go To PostHow can anyone get that drunk?As I said, seeing all those bottles in his appartment it seemed like someone who got a problem.
Good on you, Penny. I hope you were wearing a mask.
Should tell you more than enough to get that drunk in the middle of a pandemic that you can't even move around properly anymore.
Yes. Allthough it slipped a bit :x
By DY_nasty Go To Postwhat country is this in?Germany
By sy tried Go To PostWith your bare hands?What else?
Dude wasn't dirty or anything and I washed my hands.
By sy tried Go To PostNo gloves in Germany?I don't have alot of gloves. Only those I use when I'm on my bike and it's cold and some gardening gloves. No idea where they are though.
By DY_nasty Go To Postgermany it makes sense i guess. good on youAye. He had quite a lot of Paderborner beer bottles around, which is a classic between homeless dudes and alcoholics, because it's cheap as fuck.
By DY_nasty Go To Postfuck it i'll ask
how do you guys get out of ruts?
Get into deeper ruts tbh
I don't know what's a rut exactly but the answer to everything for me is taking a long vacation somewhere to recharge my batteries lol
Anyone ever just start contemplating death and subsequent eternal lack of consciousness and get a an overwhelming sense of dread right before you were about to go to sleep? Hopefully just me.
By diehard Go To PostAnyone ever just start contemplating death and subsequent eternal lack of consciousness and get a an overwhelming sense of dread right before you were about to go to sleep? Hopefully just me.I don't.
Before I go to sleep in usually thinking about why I should have went to bed 4 hours earlier.
By diehard Go To PostAnyone ever just start contemplating death and subsequent eternal lack of consciousness and get a an overwhelming sense of dread right before you were about to go to sleep? Hopefully just me.It's funny, I clearly remember doing this when like 9 or 10... I closed my eyes and said to myself "it will be like this when I die, forever" and was so shook I couldn't sleep.
I got other things that keep me shook these days so I can avoid thinking about death for now
By diehard Go To PostAnyone ever just start contemplating death and subsequent eternal lack of consciousness and get a an overwhelming sense of dread right before you were about to go to sleep? Hopefully just me.
every once in a while before, more frequently now
fucked me up whenever it happens, thinking about what nothingness would actually be like
By diehard Go To PostAnyone ever just start contemplating death and subsequent eternal lack of consciousness and get a an overwhelming sense of dread right before you were about to go to sleep? Hopefully just me.Nope. Because when you are dead you won't know you are dead so it's pointless to contemplate it.
By sy tried Go To PostBefore I go to sleep in usually thinking about why I should have went to bed 4 hours earlier.I'll add while making it worse reading on my phone till I hopefully pass out.
I was raised religious so the concept of spending eternity fully conscious with no way of opting out scared the shit out of me as soon as I could comprehend it. End of existence sucks, but it'd be better than that. What we have now is precious and meaningful because it's transitory
Plus if I'm not super tired when I go to bed I put on a podcast until I drift off. Seems to make my nights a little less existential
Plus if I'm not super tired when I go to bed I put on a podcast until I drift off. Seems to make my nights a little less existential
By diehard Go To PostAnyone ever just start contemplating death and subsequent eternal lack of consciousness and get a an overwhelming sense of dread right before you were about to go to sleep? Hopefully just me.
Yep or I get this over whelming sense of awareness. Like this is me, my life. I can move my hands with my brain, I'm in control of my decisions. Freaks me out.
By domino Go To PostDo we have any snowboarders on here?Yep loved boarding. Been Blue Mountain, Craigleith Ski Club, Cypress Mountain, Whistler/Blackcomb, and Mount Washington. These are all in Canada and my skill level was enough to do double black diamonds with ease. The Art of Flight is one of my favourite snowboarding films and films in general. Definitely take a lesson if you've never done it before. It's expensive to get into but there is very little that is better than smoking a joint at the top of the mountain and then riding down.
Im starting back tomorrow for the first time in about 7 or 8 years. Just trying to get my bearings back and hopefully hit one of the big destination parks in March
Sounds like helmets are waaaay more common now than when I was in college. I was never any good at tricks or anything but it was one of the few perks of going to a mountain school. Cheap park access and it counted toward my degree when I took it as a class
I’m excited to really dive into it now that I can actually afford it
Sounds like helmets are waaaay more common now than when I was in college. I was never any good at tricks or anything but it was one of the few perks of going to a mountain school. Cheap park access and it counted toward my degree when I took it as a class
I’m excited to really dive into it now that I can actually afford it
By domino Go To PostIm starting back tomorrow for the first time in about 7 or 8 years. Just trying to get my bearings back and hopefully hit one of the big destination parks in March
Sounds like helmets are waaaay more common now than when I was in college. I was never any good at tricks or anything but it was one of the few perks of going to a mountain school. Cheap park access and it counted toward my degree when I took it as a class
I’m excited to really dive into it now that I can actually afford it
Yea helmets weren't a thing when I started back in 2007. I got a concussion my first day so it good that it's now a thing. I never was into the tricks as well. I just loved the calm as you go down a mountain. The sense of solitude as your cruise down is crazy.
Yea you need to spend at least a stack to get some good gear.
Yeah the gear prices had me vexed. If I hadn’t gotten my board for damn near free from my friend I wouldn’t be doing this 😂
i used to be able to snowboard to school. fun times but i never went again as a grown up.
maybe i should try it again.
maybe i should try it again.
By domino Go To PostYeah the gear prices had me vexed. If I hadn’t gotten my board for damn near free from my friend I wouldn’t be doing this 😂Yea man it is not a cheap recreation. But getting a board that matches your height makes a big difference, What is your stance? Also how is the flex on your board?
all i know about snowboarding is if you pizza when you should french fry, you're gonna have a bad time
By data Go To Postall i know about snowboarding is if you pizza when you should french fry, you're gonna have a bad timeYea like Not said it's not called that in boarding.
Always wanted to try snowboarding - only know how to ski. My pops was hardcore into it and got my brother and I into skiing.