By post-sy Go To PostSay I owe 4500 on my car and I have 5000 in savings.My general rule is to make sure your savings can always cover six months of expenses. Do whatever with the remainder.
Do I pay the whole thing off?
Got a 8 hour bonus for memorial day plus I was scheduled to come in and got paid time and a half for the hours I worked then volunteered to stay over 4 hours and got double pay for those four hours
and honestly 12 hours at this job, sweaty balls aside, feels like 8 hours at Publix.
and honestly 12 hours at this job, sweaty balls aside, feels like 8 hours at Publix.
By data Go To PostGot a 8 hour bonus for memorial day plus I was scheduled to come in and got paid time and a half for the hours I worked then volunteered to stay over 4 hours and got double pay for those four hours12 hour shifts is standard at factory jobs. Since you’re in Alabama, consider looking into Airbus and Toyota has an engine plant somewhere there if you find factory life ok.
and honestly 12 hours at this job, sweaty balls aside, feels like 8 hours at Publix.
By DY_nasty Go To Posthow do i put energy back into my body
Get younger
Lately I wake up at 3 or 4 am wide awake, then close my eyes and lay there for like an hour or two (which is like slow torture) until I finally fall back asleep. Then I wake up feeling horrible but after an hour or so I’m back to normal. Maybe I need to reduce my stress… it’s hard to turn off my mind I guess.
By DY_nasty Go To Posthow do i put energy back into my body
Stop consuming sugar
Got a haircut for the first time since last March. Stylist knew what they were doing
I feel like a million bucks. Came out of the pandemic my best self
I feel like a million bucks. Came out of the pandemic my best self
By Not Go To PostGot a haircut for the first time since last March. Stylist knew what they were doingI need to learn to cut my own hair... I keep putting it off though
I feel like a million bucks. Came out of the pandemic my best self
By Pac-12 Go To PostSo is that DY's Twitter or…Naw that tweet didn't choose violence.
got older and traveled a bit more than usual on my own at a young age I guess. found out how shitty people are before I developed the emotional capacity to process it in healthy ways idk
healthy ways are a privilege btw
healthy ways are a privilege btw
By DY_nasty Go To PostI started out so peaceful nglwhen? 😂
You and some other guys here actually remember the dumb shit I was doing even in college lol. I was a domestic violence intervention superhero, my boy got so drunk he tried to fight an entire room and my dumbass dragged him out of there then went back to my peace the next day, wrote acceptance speeches for people who spelled the word 'miracle' with a u and two ls, organized fundraisers for people who just wanted t-shirts, etc.
Shit, the reason I hate simps is because a guy in our group tried to say I fucking kidnapped him 😂 this dude worked double shifts to take this Delta out when all her sisters were openly referring to him as HugaBear and Cash Advance. We told him to meet up with us so we could go to the library. Dude saw all the wings and alcohol, realized it was intervention, and threatened to call the cops. That same weekend, this asshole has the audacity to come to our spot and explain how he made a list on "Ten Ways To Improve Our Trust" to give the girl.
And that's just the funny shit. Not the crazy stuff like ex girlfriends making up intricate plots hoping I kill someone or family stuff.
I am t i r e d
Shit, the reason I hate simps is because a guy in our group tried to say I fucking kidnapped him 😂 this dude worked double shifts to take this Delta out when all her sisters were openly referring to him as HugaBear and Cash Advance. We told him to meet up with us so we could go to the library. Dude saw all the wings and alcohol, realized it was intervention, and threatened to call the cops. That same weekend, this asshole has the audacity to come to our spot and explain how he made a list on "Ten Ways To Improve Our Trust" to give the girl.
And that's just the funny shit. Not the crazy stuff like ex girlfriends making up intricate plots hoping I kill someone or family stuff.
I am t i r e d
By Euros-batong Go To PostWow, Dy turned it around. It's a miraculle!
FTFY
By domino Go To PostHad to do something similar with my mom with the threat of not talking to her or visiting her again. She had a habit of putting me down when I didn't do the things she wanted or didn't do them the way she wanted me to. Or just whenever she was mad or disappointed in me.
telling your folks what it is >>>
It took her a few months (told her I wouldn't contact her for two weeks each time she slipped) but she did stop and our relationship has never been better. I actually want to hear from her now instead of dreading her calls. Lol
By Kibner Go To PostHad to do something similar with my mom with the threat of not talking to her or visiting her again. She had a habit of putting me down when I didn't do the things she wanted or didn't do them the way she wanted me to. Or just whenever she was mad or disappointed in me.
It took her a few months (told her I wouldn't contact her for two weeks each time she slipped) but she did stop and our relationship has never been better. I actually want to hear from her now instead of dreading her calls. Lol
Mashallah Kibner sometimes the tough love is the way to go. Good stuff.
i'm soo glad my relationship with my parents and sibling is great. i attribute it mainly to the fact that none uf us like conflicts.
By post-DiPro Go To Posti'm soo glad my relationship with my parents and sibling is great. i attribute it mainly to the fact that none uf us like conflicts.
Yeah I'm pretty much the same with my close family.
I have sorted rather big parts of my family out. Especially om my moms side. Can't say I miss them much.
Also havent talked to my brother in like half a year now, which means I dont visit my mom where he lives very often, which does suck, but we still see each other reguarly. Brother is extremely egocentric, and even when he doesnt mean to, comes off as a complete dickhead. Lives like a pig, only ever had a stable job when he was like 18 for a year... and a Jordan Peterson lover.... Also never paying back money annoyed me, but not as much as the attitude about it. Dont need that in my life.
Scottish part of my family (moms side) i only talk to very few of. Most of them still see the uncle who beats his wife, and I am not talking about a little roughing when arguing here. Really beat the living shit out of her a few times, to the point where my Grandma when she was still alive, reported him and got him in prison. Aunt looking like she was barely alive after the beating, of course still came up with food to him every fucking day though, while he was in prison cause he didnt like the prison food lmao. One of the daughters of those idiots, also grew up with my grandma, as he also beat her when she was a kid.
Dads side of the family I dont talk to all that much, but no hard feelings or anything, just not that close to them and he isnt either. They lived far away from each other most of their lives.
Also havent talked to my brother in like half a year now, which means I dont visit my mom where he lives very often, which does suck, but we still see each other reguarly. Brother is extremely egocentric, and even when he doesnt mean to, comes off as a complete dickhead. Lives like a pig, only ever had a stable job when he was like 18 for a year... and a Jordan Peterson lover.... Also never paying back money annoyed me, but not as much as the attitude about it. Dont need that in my life.
Scottish part of my family (moms side) i only talk to very few of. Most of them still see the uncle who beats his wife, and I am not talking about a little roughing when arguing here. Really beat the living shit out of her a few times, to the point where my Grandma when she was still alive, reported him and got him in prison. Aunt looking like she was barely alive after the beating, of course still came up with food to him every fucking day though, while he was in prison cause he didnt like the prison food lmao. One of the daughters of those idiots, also grew up with my grandma, as he also beat her when she was a kid.
Dads side of the family I dont talk to all that much, but no hard feelings or anything, just not that close to them and he isnt either. They lived far away from each other most of their lives.
my sibling and i are so close with our grandparents, aunts and uncles that all of them pretty much decided that we would inherit all their stuff and our cousins only get the required minimum. let's just say this is going to be real fun in a decade or two.
Didn't speak to my parents for over a decade but since I had a son and got married its much better, the period of seperation kinda helped in some ways as there too tepid to ever step out of line again so our relationship is frictionless these days.
100 degrees coming up this week. Ready to chill by the pool and soak up the sun, then go for a brisk walk while the sun beams down on me providing essential Vitamin D for long-term health. 😎
By Fenderputty Go To PostGonna be 80 in so cal 😂😛Why would anyone want to be in Palm Springs during the Sunmer? It must be equivalent to drinking cheap vodka at a house party because everyone else is doing it and fun?
By Fenderputty Go To PostGonna be 80 in so cal 😂😛stay out of the valley breh
By Blue Go To PostWhy would anyone want to be in Palm Springs during the Sunmer? It must be equivalent to drinking cheap vodka at a house party because everyone else is doing it and fun?
PS is fine 105 and below. Dry heat and pools with a drink. My wife and I did our 10 year anniversary there at the Waldorf since rates are cheaper in summer. We had our own pool 20’ from our room and it was really nice. Don’t care how dry it is, anything above 105 is miserable
I’m general I agree tho. PS in the spring and fall if you golf is great. I do not golf
we should be able to control the weather by now - all the hundreds of billions in military spending.
By sy-punk Go To Post61% humidity right now you don't know what pain isMeh 74% here step it up