I'm in and out like the fire squad.
Also, Domino, showering that long isn't really good for your skin. Especially if it's semi warmish
Also, Domino, showering that long isn't really good for your skin. Especially if it's semi warmish
By Shanks D Zoro Go To Post5 minutes is my normal shower time. 10 minutes if I have just finished a run. 15 minutes if I am drunk. 2 minutes if it is winter.wash your ass
By Daz Go To PostThe only times you should be in the shower longer than 20 minutes is if youre not alone in there.Always got my hand to accompany me..
By blackace Go To Postwash your ass
Shampoo, body wash, and an arse wash are all easily done in 2 minutes. I ain’t staying in there longer when it is -10 outside and the water feels just as cold. And that is with me enjoying cold showers.
My assistant thats been on furloughed unofficially handed in her notice.
I dont blame her, but I'm still bummed.
I dont blame her, but I'm still bummed.
I hate online video lessons/lectures. It's so much easier to get distracted when you're a tab away from YouTube/anything else.
With a book, I can close everything else besides Adobe reader. I could rip the videos but the file success are way too large
With a book, I can close everything else besides Adobe reader. I could rip the videos but the file success are way too large
Let me ask yall something as a former hermit who's trying to be somewhat normal, particularly to you 30+ year olds
how many real honest relationships do you have? including your s/o but also like how many friends you got that you see or talk to at least once a week?
how many real honest relationships do you have? including your s/o but also like how many friends you got that you see or talk to at least once a week?
Outside of my family I'd say I have three real friends, but even then I don't talk to any of them super regularly since they all live out of state. Two of my friends I've known since Middle School/High School and the other I've almost seven years ago at a previous job. I'm a pretty big introvert though so I don't know how it is for extroverts.
If you're worried about the number of good relationships you have though, don't. Be lucky you have a handful. I didn't realize until my late 20s that no one on this Earth has maybe more than a handful of true friends/good relationships. 99% of the people you meet aren't worth the time of day. The rest is just appearance imo.
If you're worried about the number of good relationships you have though, don't. Be lucky you have a handful. I didn't realize until my late 20s that no one on this Earth has maybe more than a handful of true friends/good relationships. 99% of the people you meet aren't worth the time of day. The rest is just appearance imo.
By data Go To PostLet me ask yall something as a former hermit who's trying to be somewhat normal, particularly to you 30+ year oldsI have great familial relationships with relatives on both of my parents sides as well as with my parents. I recognise this isn't the norm. Because the island i'm on is small I have a great group of close friends. But I can only really say I have 6 close friends that I see and visit multiple times a month. I see at least 4 of them once a week.
how many real honest relationships do you have? including your s/o but also like how many friends you got that you see or talk to at least once a week?
By data Go To PostLet me ask yall something as a former hermit who's trying to be somewhat normal, particularly to you 30+ year oldstoo many, and I mean this in the worst possible way lol. Just keep between 3 and 5 that's enough
how many real honest relationships do you have? including your s/o but also like how many friends you got that you see or talk to at least once a week?
By data Go To PostLet me ask yall something as a former hermit who's trying to be somewhat normal, particularly to you 30+ year olds
how many real honest relationships do you have? including your s/o but also like how many friends you got that you see or talk to at least once a week?
You think I got time for friends once a week? Why is that a criteria?
Anyway you I got like three dudes I talk to outside of family. We’re all going different directions. l got a feeling “friends” won’t be a huge thing for me until kids are in school and doing sports and shit. Meet other parents. My neighbors are old.
That being said, my 30th bday had lots of friends. Casual and 4-5 good ones. A decade later ...
2-3 good friends and u str8. don't even need to be an every day thing, just every few weeks.
not on some lifelong shit either. god. i would have nothing to talk about with some of the best friends i had 5-10 years ago.
not on some lifelong shit either. god. i would have nothing to talk about with some of the best friends i had 5-10 years ago.
By FortuneFaded Go To PostI’ll start the low end with 0.
I'll match.
By DY_nasty Go To Posti would have nothing to talk about with some of the best friends i had 5-10 years ago.
This is why I stopped talking to a good 50% of my friends 😂
Maybe more honestly. Only one or two ended in bad ways, and even then it was more of a decision that some BS wasn’t worth it and not some giant fuck off.
By data Go To PostLet me ask yall something as a former hermit who's trying to be somewhat normal, particularly to you 30+ year oldsBetween 2-5 close friends is probably ideal
how many real honest relationships do you have? including your s/o but also like how many friends you got that you see or talk to at least once a week?
I think I have 5-6 close friends I talk/see weekly. Then a few good/normal friends which I see monthly.
I used to have a lot of friends like 15-20 people i hang out multiple times a month but nowadays it's down to 2 good friend.
i got 6 or 7 i'd call close friends but i just see them when i see them since we all live all over. chat a lot on PSN though.
prob 20-25 friends I see every week (pre-Rona at least) through various activities. poker night, gym, pickup leagues, drinks, etc
in my mind it doesnt feel like enough in either category but i've always felt like i didnt have enough friends
prob 20-25 friends I see every week (pre-Rona at least) through various activities. poker night, gym, pickup leagues, drinks, etc
in my mind it doesnt feel like enough in either category but i've always felt like i didnt have enough friends
Been with my gf for a few years now so her close friends have turned into my close friends lol and vice-versa. So we have a close group of about 10 people or so.
Friends and gud friends different
I've been making damn sure to identify the difference since college. Unless I actually go through something significant with people, I'm kinda just.... Thanks for the company?
I've been making damn sure to identify the difference since college. Unless I actually go through something significant with people, I'm kinda just.... Thanks for the company?
I have four good friends, even though I haven't really had a long conversation with one of them for several years now.
Have 1 close friend since I was 12 whom I talk to or message every other day, would hang out every weekend until COVID hit. Had a few others but they weren't worth it, didn't bother keeping in touch with them.
Got some online friends I've known since childhood I'd consider better friends than many people I've met offline, met 1 of them in Tokyo and he was a great, reliable dude and I consider him a close friend.
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Got some online friends I've known since childhood I'd consider better friends than many people I've met offline, met 1 of them in Tokyo and he was a great, reliable dude and I consider him a close friend.
By Pac-12 Go To PostOnly when I'm around people.
this
By Pac-12 Go To PostOnly when I'm around people.preach
By Pac-12 Go To PostOnly when I'm around people.
don't you ever feel like wanting to talk to someone, though?
By bud Go To Postdon't you ever feel like wanting to talk to someone, though?He's talking to people on here.
i don't see how that's the same as shooting the shit with a friend you actually know and can share private things with.
If you got a partner you consider your best friend there's that.
Also in the camp of few friends and we don't necessarily talk a fuckton but hit each other up sometimes. There's just so much going on in people's lives especially now it's hard to keep up. Post 30 a lot of people just cocoon in their couple zone and have kids and then they have even less time and you have even less in common with them if you're not also knee deep in kid eruptions.
Also in the camp of few friends and we don't necessarily talk a fuckton but hit each other up sometimes. There's just so much going on in people's lives especially now it's hard to keep up. Post 30 a lot of people just cocoon in their couple zone and have kids and then they have even less time and you have even less in common with them if you're not also knee deep in kid eruptions.
By bud Go To Postdon't you ever feel like wanting to talk to someone, though?
Like, no. Or, rather, when I do, I talk to you guys about whatever bullshit is going on in the world. But I couldn't give a shit about people's day-to-day. Leave me out of that shit.
By Perfect Blue Go To PostHe's talking to people on here.
that
By i can get you a toe Go To PostIf you got a partner you consider your best friend there's that.Yes. Some days I consider myself the luckiest dude in the world
By DY_nasty Go To Postfriends are hard to come by. better to have none than pretend shitty ones are good ones
that is definitely true.
By Pac-12 Go To PostLike, no. Or, rather, when I do, I talk to you guys about whatever bullshit is going on in the world. But I couldn't give a shit about people's day-to-day. Leave me out of that shit.
The North Carolinian aura on this post is pungent. Ethereal even.
By bud Go To Posti don't see how that's the same as shooting the shit with a friend you actually know and can share private things with.It depends on the person. I have a pretty active social life but it's not difficult to see why some would prefer a more introverted existence. Real life is stressful af enough as it is without trying to maintain an outward image to impress strangers or potential business contacts.
By Pac-12 Go To PostLike, no. Or, rather, when I do, I talk to you guys about whatever bullshit is going on in the world. But I couldn't give a shit about people's day-to-day. Leave me out of that shit.
fair enough.
By reilo Go To PostY'all got trust issuesYou think I don't know this?
By reilo Go To PostY'all got trust issuesI acknowledge this