By Fenderputty Go To PostHow does someone earn your trust if you’re not putting some level faith in them so they can earn it? Baby steps trust your way to a 7 year promise to get engaged to me day ring pathPeople are generally open books. You gotta go out of your way to avoid what they're telling you about themselves. Simply having your shit together is rare. Dating down past a certain level is stupid and toxic too. And far too many people are out here looking for relationships as solutions to personal problems. "I need someone to complete me" "I'm the only single person left in my circle of friends" etc
When someone drops a large sum of money on a purchase in a /our money/ relationship of any sort, there's no way that it simply came out of nowhere either.
By Fenderputty Go To Postwhy are you with them in the first place 😂
Assuming it's real (lol but we all know of some bums), you just know he sits on his ass all day playing the CoD Halo and she still doin' all the domestic shit too.
By DY_nasty Go To Postwhy are you with them in the first place 😂
Like this is some difficult question? If you haven’t figured out by date three that some major boxes for ling term interest have been checked, you’re doing it wrong. How topical are your dates? Lol
By NinjaFridge Go To PostBe nice to an animal and you've got a friend for life. Be nice to a person, who the fuck knows
By Perfect Blue Go To Post???? struggling to see the issue here.It's not bad faith dating. If I go out with a girl for three weeks and know she ain't about shit based on how she talks to others, there's no need to worry about putting her name on the lease. It'll never happen.
He clearly means not getting into things with the worst possible outlook. Dating in bad faith
Why discuss split accounts with someone who doesn't even work?
Why plan out past 90 days with someone who's never shown an ounce of ambition for professional development?
The trust you guys are focusing on doesn't even exist when simple shit isn't even established. Ain't any baby steps involved in it.
because loooooove conquers all DY
and loooooove is work
man no wonder people end up paying goo gobs of alimony and messy divorces for shit that they ultimately knew as soon as they met them
and loooooove is work
man no wonder people end up paying goo gobs of alimony and messy divorces for shit that they ultimately knew as soon as they met them
By Fenderputty Go To PostLike this is some difficult question? If you haven’t figured out by date three that some major boxes for ling term interest have been checked, you’re doing it wrong. How topical are your dates? LolYou the one that jumped all the way out there with it first 😂 yal happily married folk are the worst
By domino Go To Postbecause loooooove conquers all DYI got trust issues tho
and loooooove is work
man no wonder people end up paying goo gobs of alimony and messy divorces for shit that they ultimately knew as soon as they met them
By DY_nasty Go To PostIt's not bad faith dating. If I go out with a girl for three weeks and know she ain't about shit based on how she talks to others, there's no need to worry about putting her name on the lease. It'll never happen.
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Two things:
A. I’m not sure what this has to do with finances by one year. Like at all. Mostly because ...
B. Why the fuck you still dating someone at three weeks if you’ve figured this out by then.
By domino Go To Postbecause loooooove conquers all DY
and loooooove is work
man no wonder people end up paying goo gobs of alimony and messy divorces for shit that they ultimately knew as soon as they met them
This is horseshit.
LOVE is like the least important thing in a ling term relationship. Fuckin’ love ... dear god. Y’all watched too many Disney princess movies
By DY_nasty Go To PostBecause the ass is fat
I respect this. But it’s your time you’re wasting.
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou the one saying trust people out the gate wtf
This is a gross oversimplification and you know it.
By Fenderputty Go To PostTwo things:A -> paying attention informs you so that a year in you're not wondering why they got money for toys but not their half of the rent.
A. I’m not sure what this has to do with finances by one year. Like at all. Mostly because …
B. Why the fuck you still dating someone at three weeks if you’ve figured this out by then.
By Pac-12 Go To PostMarriage? More like merger, am I right.jesus man what has Wells Fargo done to your brain
By Fenderputty Go To PostThis is horseshit.
LOVE is like the least important thing in a ling term relationship. Fuckin’ love … dear god. Y’all watched too many Disney princess movies
yeah media/marketing fucked us up
By DY_nasty Go To PostBecause the ass is fat
ultimately this is my downfall lol
By reilo Go To Postjesus man what has Wells Fargo done to your brain
😂
That was me being Fender after that "love is the least important thing" thing.
ooooooooooooooooooh i get it. fender took that "just a year" thing differently lol
everything about their year together was bullshit
everything about their year together was bullshit
By Pac-12 Go To PostMarriage? More like merger, am I right.they don't want to hear this
By /sy Go To Postonly getting married if it's a comeup
Taking half her shit, I respect the hustle.
By DY_nasty Go To Postooooooooooooooooooh i get it. fender took that "just a year" thing differently lol
The biggest reasons for divorce are infidelity, money and communication. Not “I fell out of love”. Most people love the other person just fine while they’re fuckin around or losing the house gambling.
By Pac-12 Go To PostTaking half her shit, I respect the hustle.
In his case a come up is someone who can use a spatula
Imagine being married and discussing relationships with a guy who lives with a cat.
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Dropping 4000 on ANYTHING whew
A Halo costume
While you cohabitate
The most I've ever spent in one sitting from my own account was almost 2k for a cintiq for work
A Halo costume
While you cohabitate
The most I've ever spent in one sitting from my own account was almost 2k for a cintiq for work
By Dipro Go To Postnever bought a car?Yeah, but that was $3250 from our shared savings
2005 honda hybrid with 160k miles. 180k now. Gets the job done
Not for nothing, everything on r/AITA is fake
Other than a house mortgage, remodel type thing or car down payment, I’m not too far from Not.
I can’t think of anything actually. My TV, reciever and speakers if you combine their costs I suppose ...
I can’t think of anything actually. My TV, reciever and speakers if you combine their costs I suppose ...
My french horn I bought after saving up for like three years was $4,500 and it is only an entry-level gig horn.
By Pac-12 Go To Post
Holy fuck lmao
By reilo Go To Postjesus man what has Wells Fargo done to your brainThey might not remember, but I do
Yall recommend any sites for clothing? Looking for some things in between t-shirts and dress clothes. Sweaters, button-ups(short and long sleeve) etc. I've bought stuff online before but I find, especially with button-ups, that the fit's are all over the place. I've gotten a couple things from Uniqlo that I like but most their stuff is fairly basic.
By data Go To PostYall recommend any sites for clothing? Looking for some things in between t-shirts and dress clothes. Sweaters, button-ups(short and long sleeve) etc. I've bought stuff online before but I find, especially with button-ups, that the fit's are all over the place. I've gotten a couple things from Uniqlo that I like but most their stuff is fairly basic.Mr. Porter.
By Yurtlicious Go To Posta joint accountI been keeping quiet knowing what industry you in. Most don't know how much you be killing it.
please I'd like to lie about not having money its my basic right
