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Honestly if that kid doesn't get whooped in this situation he's guaranteed to turn into a "mom you fucking bitch cunt" scumwipe and eventually join Turning Point USA
Honestly if that kid doesn't get whooped in this situation he's guaranteed to turn into a "mom you fucking bitch cunt" scumwipe and eventually join Turning Point USA
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By Not Go To PostWood drawer sealant putting in work
Honestly if that kid doesn't get whooped in this situation he's guaranteed to turn into a "mom you fucking bitch cunt" scumwipe and eventually join Turning Point USA
That or he's just like fucking 3/4 years old, and thought it was the best alternative when scared of the dark at night or whatever.
I hate a lot of things about Denmark. But I'm pretty fucking happy giving kids a spanking being illegal and it being enforced harshly.
'but but but it worked for me and I didn't take damage'
I bet Ben Shapiro pissed all over the furniture as a kid and never got hit and look where we are now
By /sy Go To Postdid denmark produce wooden?
if so, spank all the kids
Yes and before it was out lawed 🤔
Czech m8
By Wahabipapangus Go To PostThat or he's just like fucking 3/4 years old, and thought it was the best alternative when scared of the dark at night or whatever.anyone who has to rationalize being violent with children with "but i turned out fine" didn't turn out fine, their reasoning skills reflect this
I hate a lot of things about Denmark. But I'm pretty fucking happy giving kids a spanking being illegal and it being enforced harshly.
'but but but it worked for me and I didn't take damage'
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By DY_nasty Go To PostI deserved and needed every asswhoopingeveryone needs an good asswhooping now then, keeps you honest.
Facts, hitting kids is you being frustrated at not being able communicate or understanding other methods of discipline. No shade to anyone who does and I have once or twice but just something my wife and I will try avoid at all costs.
By DY_nasty Go To PostI deserved and needed every asswhooping
You really didn't
By Kidjr Go To PostYou really didn'tHe needed more tbh
By DY_nasty Go To PostI deserved and needed every asswhoopingthis is true for me also
By Kidjr Go To PostYou really didn'tI really did lol
I pulled several "you ain't gonna do shit to me"s. If I didn't get my ass beat on the spot, I'd have the mindset where I could've pulled that shit on non-family members.
I'm not saying 3 year olds need to get punched in the chest. I think anyone can recognize abuse here. But if I didn't get forced to recognize authority and respect others at a young age I would be that adult who doesn't recognize the various forms of 'No' that the world sends your way without learning unnecessarily hard lessons.
By Laboured Go To PostDY definitely needs a hug.A healthy balance for me m8
Not starting work until tomorrow. and then it's two 15 hour shifts in a row.
Anyway, I do not believe in that spanking or no respect, that your parents couldnt have gotten you to accept their authority/respect others, without spanking. Although that might have been the quickest way, or the only way the older generations knew. I've worked with kids for a long time now, and seen a lot from wildly different ways of life and cultures, and all my own experience points to the countless studies being right, in that you shouldn't spank your kids. Our parents might not have known better at the time, but there is no excuse for it today. We do know better.
But this is almost a religious question to some, so I guess there isn't much point in discussing it. Again, I'm just happy that it isn't allowed here.
Anyway, I do not believe in that spanking or no respect, that your parents couldnt have gotten you to accept their authority/respect others, without spanking. Although that might have been the quickest way, or the only way the older generations knew. I've worked with kids for a long time now, and seen a lot from wildly different ways of life and cultures, and all my own experience points to the countless studies being right, in that you shouldn't spank your kids. Our parents might not have known better at the time, but there is no excuse for it today. We do know better.
But this is almost a religious question to some, so I guess there isn't much point in discussing it. Again, I'm just happy that it isn't allowed here.
like almost everything violence is the easy way out instead of constructing meaningful dialogue with your kids
i guess there's people that swear it made them a better person but for me it just made me super scared of doing anything outside of what my parents wanted for a long time and never really allowed a respectful relationship based on communication to flourish until much much later
i guess there's people that swear it made them a better person but for me it just made me super scared of doing anything outside of what my parents wanted for a long time and never really allowed a respectful relationship based on communication to flourish until much much later
I'm entirely for the merciless beating of parents of screaming or annoying kids in public spaces. Can we at least agree on that.
Get your kid to shut the hell up.
Get your kid to shut the hell up.
By Xpike Go To Postlike almost everything violence is the easy way out instead of constructing meaningful dialogue with your kids"Fuck you, dad - I'm selling these stolen jerseys and these goons are my fwiends"
i guess there's people that swear it made them a better person but for me it just made me super scared of doing anything outside of what my parents wanted for a long time and never really allowed a respectful relationship based on communication to flourish until much much later
There was no dialogue for that situation lol. And being at school most of the day means the environment raised me more than my parents did for years.
Imo, if your choice is between letting the cops deal with your kids and beating ass - you need to beat that ass. Way too many parents suck either way though. The harm from being a shitty parent who doesn't beat their kids versus those that do is obvious however.... Still, not stopping your kids from doing dumb shit or pretending not to see it just to remove the confrontation as a whole is far too common imo. Its negligence. The world isn't gonna be patient with your baby. Shit, someone might get a medal for fucking your kid up.
By data Go To PostBetter solutioni can agree with that
no more kids. the earth is dying anyways.
By DY_nasty Go To PostImo, if your choice is between letting the cops deal with your kids and beating ass - you need to beat that ass. .
This is the line in the sand that I will use.
By Pac-12 Go To PostI'm entirely for the merciless beating of parents of screaming or annoying kids in public spaces. Can we at least agree on that.
Get your kid to shut the hell up.
My wife gets embarrassed if our boy tantrums in public. I give no fucks. Fight me.
My parents used to beat the shit out of my older brother and I and it didn’t benefit us at all. When they had my younger brother I made sure they never hit him, he is on track to be the most successful person in my family, more than anyone could have hoped to be.
Learn how to communicate. Violence is the easy way out but extremely detrimental. You think you’re okay. But you’re not. You just seem “normal” because most people grew up in the same fucked up way.
This isn’t just an anomaly. Even throughout school the kids who didn’t get beat were better off. Now before anyone replies back saying what about those spoiled little shits that don’t get beat, the problem isn’t that they aren’t getting beaten, it’s their parents don’t do shit. They just let them get away with everything because they either don’t care or don’t know how to communicate properly.
Learn how to communicate. Violence is the easy way out but extremely detrimental. You think you’re okay. But you’re not. You just seem “normal” because most people grew up in the same fucked up way.
This isn’t just an anomaly. Even throughout school the kids who didn’t get beat were better off. Now before anyone replies back saying what about those spoiled little shits that don’t get beat, the problem isn’t that they aren’t getting beaten, it’s their parents don’t do shit. They just let them get away with everything because they either don’t care or don’t know how to communicate properly.
By aka Espi Go To PostMy parents used to beat the shit out of my older brother and I and it didn’t benefit us at all. When they had my younger brother I made sure they never hit him, he is on track to be the most successful person in my family, more than anyone could have hoped to be.naw i just know a lot of people that i grew up with that needed one good slap at a pivotal point in their lives who got shot instead
Learn how to communicate. Violence is the easy way out but extremely detrimental. You think you’re okay. But you’re not. You just seem “normal” because most people grew up in the same fucked up way.
"yal didn't give my baby a chance"
a good relationship isnt just letting your kid do whatever either
theres other ways of punishing children
if you were abused its more likely you think its okay too because you internalize it too, gotta break that cycle of abuse
theres other ways of punishing children
if you were abused its more likely you think its okay too because you internalize it too, gotta break that cycle of abuse
By Xpike Go To Posta good relationship isnt just letting your kid do whatever eitherI think you guys are thinking that I'm advocating assbeating for not taking out the trash or talking back.
theres other ways of punishing children
if you were abused its more likely you think its okay too because you internalize it too, gotta break that cycle of abuse
Also, most parents are shit anyways so them whooping asses making things worse is obviously a given. If there's a time when you're faced with potentially letting your kids loose on the world or the world letting loose on them, which is FAR more common than people want to acknowledge.... then handle that. It shouldn't ever be something done for validation, gratification, or as a short cut. We agree.
I wasn't abused at all lol. But I definitely appreciate my family recognizing that I was too smart for my own good on several occasions and literally slapping sense into me. My example -> You're not gonna sit down and talk it out with a kid who found a way to make more money than you and hates you for it. I had to get brought to a point where I could listen. But it was a common scenario in my neighborhood back then because, obviously, you spend more time in schools and around general degeneracy than you do with your parents. Now, again, I'm not saying that every kid is going to be in that position nor would the parents but the one size fits all "just communicate better" is hardly fair either because life, generally, is more complicated than that. My position is that if you got a child about to go off the deep end (which may happen for any reason), be ready to beat their ass if you care.
There are parents out here who can't handle toddlers and tap out on raising functioning adults before their kids turn 10.
Like when you see those pathetic parents in the mall "timmy pls stop yelling at mommy and throwing things ;_;" - that's just as toxic for the world as beating the fuck out of kids for trifling shit and patting yourself on the back. More than one way to raise a demon.
By DY_nasty Go To Postwe'll see reilo's restraint when reilo jr is a knicks fan
Reilo's kid gonna roll up to school in a cyber truck with laker flags on the windows.
It's a good point that teaching a nonwhite kid to communicate isn't going to do much when the cops roll up
I'm not going to hit my kids if I have them. I'm not attacking anyone, especially in my family. No force ever outside of restraint or self-defense. But the fact that I don't have to really honestly weigh doing so is more white privilege
Better to just not HAVE kids tbh
I'm not going to hit my kids if I have them. I'm not attacking anyone, especially in my family. No force ever outside of restraint or self-defense. But the fact that I don't have to really honestly weigh doing so is more white privilege
Better to just not HAVE kids tbh
You're saying you don't understand that the cops are going to treat a white kid and a nonwhite kid who tries to justify their actions via communication differently
They put Dylann Roof in a bulletproof vest and bought him McDonalds
They put Dylann Roof in a bulletproof vest and bought him McDonalds
By Not Go To PostYou're saying you don't understand that the cops are going to treat a white kid and a nonwhite kid who tries to justify their actions via communication differentlyNo.
They put Dylann Roof in a bulletproof vest and bought him McDonalds
By Not Go To PostBut the fact that I don't have to really honestly weigh doing so is more white privilegeThat's the part where I struggled.
I mean I don't have to weigh them getting shot on the street or not. Their immediate survival isn't a factor. Whether your kid gets fucked up by familial abuse in the long run or killed for no reason while they're under your supervision is something that, I would imagine, isn't a factor in most white parents' childrearing strategies
Is "privilege" too loaded a buzzword? I can use a synonym
Is "privilege" too loaded a buzzword? I can use a synonym
By Not Go To PostI mean I don't have to weigh them getting shot on the street or not. Their immediate survival isn't a factor. Whether your kid gets fucked up by familial abuse in the long run or killed for no reason while they're under your supervision is something that, I would imagine, isn't a factor in most white parents' childrearing strategiesThat's... Really not the road I was headed towards lol
Is "privilege" too loaded a buzzword? I can use a synonym
Think Dy is just talking about how some kids don't respond to the typical shit like taking your privileges and toys away. I don't have the answer for that but I'll just say that the vast majority of people who hit their kids in any way don't particularly need to and I will always be bothered by the idea that hitting an adult (even if they're acting a fuck) carries more weight and charges than a vulnerable child.
I read between the lines and I get get what Not is saying. He isn't going to beat his kids, he wants dy to do it for him. This is a real business opportunity dy, a big money maker.