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By domino Go To Postman i stop at the QuikTrip around the corner from my gym/apt to get a Ghost before most workouts and why is the cashier bad as fuck and forward.I love Latinas but fuck me my last two were a nightmare
latina w/ fake red hair lord im about to do some real dumb shit help me
Do it
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Went on a first and second date with a woman over the weekend, but she didn't thank for me the drinks on the first date or the food on the second, nor did she offer to pay for any portion of the drinks/meals. This is actually the first time this has happened to me, usually people at least feign gratitude, and only once or twice not had a woman offer to buy me a drink in return lol. I'm kind of turned off by the whole thing, but I did enjoy spending time with her. I'm thinking I'll offer to lead a 1-on-1 cooking class where we make homemade pasta at her place and see how that goes before calling it quits.
It's most likely not a money issue, for her anyways. She makes at least twice what I do. What do y'all think? Am I being dramatic?
It's most likely not a money issue, for her anyways. She makes at least twice what I do. What do y'all think? Am I being dramatic?
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it ain't tricking if you got it
but seriously it might just be a culture/communication thing. or just straight up ask if she'll buy the next round or something to get her attention - then see how things play out lol
but seriously it might just be a culture/communication thing. or just straight up ask if she'll buy the next round or something to get her attention - then see how things play out lol
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No thanks at all means she's already expecting to get it.
Try the homecooking thing and see what happens.
Try the homecooking thing and see what happens.
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Asking her to buy some ingredients/sides/wine is part of my reasoning for the home cooking class date. Her reaction to the request and how she acts post-date will be very telling.
She's also 37 and her Bumble profile says she wants kids, so that might overrule everything else LOL
She's also 37 and her Bumble profile says she wants kids, so that might overrule everything else LOL
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By balddemon Go To PostAsking her to buy some ingredients/sides/wine is part of my reasoning for the home cooking class date. Her reaction to the request and how she acts post-date will be very telling.....my guy you know that should've been stated up front smh
She's also 37 and her Bumble profile says she wants kids, so that might overrule everything else LOL
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I really did forget about that until I went to reply lolol. If she's being honest about her desire for children, yeah, gotta bail. I want kids, but not for at least a couple years. We haven't had that talk yet though. I suppose over yummy pasta (and with several glasses of wine) is as good a time as any to get serious.
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Lots of women can put that off but she's already 37, there really isn't a "couple of years" at this point for most. Women having them in their 40s is more common but it will absolutely require more tests and prenatal check ups both for the fetus's health and her own. Kid talk is pretty much a must like date one when people are over 30 and especially over 35 imo but folks just don't want to do it.
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Oh fair is fair. If you want kids you gotta say so real quick especially if you're on a tighter biological clock. But just in terms of vibes and dating tbh I don't/wouldn't have time for people who don't go halfsies or reciprocate on the next one.
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Totally agree on all counts. The other thing is that I've been crushing on her for like a year, but we only see each other a few days in a row every like 3-4 months lol. Def need to scratch the itch or I won't get over it for a bit, but the lack of reciprocity on the first two dates doesn't bode well for the bedroom in my experience.
Anyways, good talk y'all. Glad to know I'm not being a weirdo about this stuff.
Anyways, good talk y'all. Glad to know I'm not being a weirdo about this stuff.
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By data Go To PostWhat is with all the slaenters talking to women they only see once a month
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Lol I guess I wasn't clear. We live in the same apartment building and have had several mini-convos in the elevator over the past year. It's just weird cuz we would see each other for like 3-4 days in a row, usually a couple times a day, but only every 4 months or so. I've had a lil crush on her but chickened out or forgot to ask her out the last few times I saw her. And then one day I opened Bumble and she was the first profile. Insta-match and here we are.
I did date someone for a few months where we only saw each other once a week and she lived about an hour away. That was pretty lame. Never doing that again, at least not while I live downtown.
I did date someone for a few months where we only saw each other once a week and she lived about an hour away. That was pretty lame. Never doing that again, at least not while I live downtown.
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By balddemon Go To PostI know I know. I just wanna sleep with someone I find attractive while I'm sober. Is that too much to ask?No. And never stop swinging for the fences, champ
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You deserve it bro.
But I would start checking out some new places in case this blows up huge.
Also yeah if you both want kids, she's probably ready for those kids now (because she's already 37)
But I would start checking out some new places in case this blows up huge.
Also yeah if you both want kids, she's probably ready for those kids now (because she's already 37)
absolute head loss
the boys cheesing in his ears too I know he wanted to walk off the set to collect himself lol
the boys cheesing in his ears too I know he wanted to walk off the set to collect himself lol
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aww, I saw the video of them being all happy and shit together on set with amazing chemistry and thought they were actually together. that's rough, man.
as for me, I'm not gonna pursue that woman any farther. if she reaches out, great, but I don't have time for those kinda games. my hair stylist gave me the number of one of her clients a few weeks ago, so I'll hit her up. if that doesn't work out, I'm done for a while. dating has a bad ROI for me right now, for many reasons. good luck out there bros.
as for me, I'm not gonna pursue that woman any farther. if she reaches out, great, but I don't have time for those kinda games. my hair stylist gave me the number of one of her clients a few weeks ago, so I'll hit her up. if that doesn't work out, I'm done for a while. dating has a bad ROI for me right now, for many reasons. good luck out there bros.
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Dunno, I wouldnt want a woman to pay for anything until the maybe 10th date. Could be a culture thing.
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By Patriotism Go To PostWhat culture would that be?findom
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By Patriotism Go To PostWhat culture would that be?Simp game
nah 2nd date she gotta come off w/ some scratch
eagerly
if we dating lets date. if you want a trick it's plenty of other mfs out here that will gladly send money down a hole
eagerly
if we dating lets date. if you want a trick it's plenty of other mfs out here that will gladly send money down a hole
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By domino Go To Postnah 2nd date she gotta come off w/ some scratchIf you all wanna do is get laid but need to drop $500-1000 a night out there's easier ways to go about that 😂
eagerly
if we dating lets date. if you want a trick it's plenty of other mfs out here that will gladly send money down a hole
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We race to the bill its a game
I got you next time etc. I dont mind paying really, food and shit is not much and you get mad points. Pay half, all whatever.
I got you next time etc. I dont mind paying really, food and shit is not much and you get mad points. Pay half, all whatever.
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By Kidjr Go To PostDunno, I wouldnt want a woman to pay for anything until the maybe 10th date. Could be a culture thing.You setting us back 100 years here Kid.
Although a Brazilian women argued with me on a first date that if I didnt pay the bill I wasn't interested in her.
she wasn't wrong - in this case at least
my thing was always that if I asked her for a first date i'll pay but if she wants to do another we split from here on out.
women i dated mostly offered to split anyway. 🤷♂️
women i dated mostly offered to split anyway. 🤷♂️
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By Adam Go To PostI always pay for the woman nowadays…
Joint finances
👆🏾😅
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No way you guys are asking your dates to split the bill. I mean sometimes she gets you yeah but you should definitely be getting her more than she gets you. I don't many females where that isn't a mood killer, it's not even about the money, I just think it shows courtship.
I was about to say she wasn't wrong.
By Batong Go To PostYou setting us back 100 years here Kid.
Although a Brazilian women argued with me on a first date that if I didnt pay the bill I wasn't interested in her.
she wasn't wrong - in this case at least
I was about to say she wasn't wrong.