By FortuneFaded Go To PostDidn't really have friends / social situations as a child either.
You wouldn't think that if we met in person either. I mean, we wouldn't be friends but you still wouldn't think that.
Why you got to hurt me like this. j/k no offence taken.
How you social cues seem incredibly on point for someone who isnt that sociable (not that I dont believe dont you mind... you do wanna do into machine learning after all hahaha)
She did tell me it made her real uncomfortable but that it was huge of me to apologize because most people don't. She said not to beat myself up over it but I'm kind of like 'no I really need to over this. not just for you but in general.'
The biggest hurdle I have is to get over the married woman completely and not let it creep back up. I think that will solve 90% of my insecurities and dumbassery.
I don't have to go looking for a partner as much anymore. I'm sorting myself out and I've gotten a lot better at reading cues. It'll come when it's time to come, but I'm not going to mope until it does.
The biggest hurdle I have is to get over the married woman completely and not let it creep back up. I think that will solve 90% of my insecurities and dumbassery.
I don't have to go looking for a partner as much anymore. I'm sorting myself out and I've gotten a lot better at reading cues. It'll come when it's time to come, but I'm not going to mope until it does.
Stop me KidJr, going out on dates with 'Chelsea/Fulham' girls costing me 17 quid per cocktail. Clearly this will just hurt my wallet and not getting me anywhere.
By Curling-batong Go To PostStop me KidJr, going out on dates with 'Chelsea/Fulham' girls costing me 17 quid per cocktail. Clearly this will just hurt my wallet and not getting me anywhere.Well, how badly do you want to get laid?
Never go to a club/bar as a first date though.
By Lupercal Go To PostWell, how badly do you want to get laid?What if he wants a girl to love him for who he is and not for his money?
By Curling-batong Go To PostStop me KidJr, going out on dates with 'Chelsea/Fulham' girls costing me 17 quid per cocktail. Clearly this will just hurt my wallet and not getting me anywhere.
And I bet those porn star martini's don't even get them pissed 🤣🤣🤣
But batong pls, there are too many decent options in London for this to be an issue.
http://www.inamo-restaurant.com
Chicks digg this place and its not extortionate.
Fight club and swingers are also good shouts.
By Kidjr Go To PostFight club and swingers are also good shouts.m8, you don't talk about fight club and taking a girl to a swingers party is a bold move, even for batong.
By FortuneFaded Go To Postm8, you don't talk about fight club and taking a girl to a swingers party is a bold move, even for batong.
See see all this quick witted stuff would have you swimming in friends and acquaintances!
By Kidjr Go To PostAnd I bet those porn star martini's don't even get them pissed 🤣🤣🤣I know of these places, but the problem being that i have let them choose the place. However, inamo is probably better, get some food instead of drinks or get back to women who appreciate the art of a coffee instead.
But batong pls, there are too many decent options in London for this to be an issue.
http://www.inamo-restaurant.com
Chicks digg this place and its not extortionate.
Fight club and swingers are also good shouts.
By Kidjr Go To PostSee see all this quick witted stuff would have you swimming in friends and acquaintances!To be honest, at this stage in my life, I've already made peace with the fact that I'll never have friends/social life. I would like a relationship though, however unlikely, but I am also aware that it is basically a ticking clock.
By FortuneFaded Go To PostTo be honest, at this stage in my life, I've already made peace with the fact that I'll never have friends/social life. I would like a relationship though, however unlikely, but I am also aware that it is basically a ticking clock.What kind of half-arsed attitude is that. Get yourself out there FF (friends/women). Get yourself integrated in the society. Get yourself a gun like everyone else.
I had apologized to everyone and pretty much cut ties with the married woman that I was being disingenuous friends with until we both get in a better place or possibly never which was the only constant I cared about.
In the morning I woke up and drove to work and thought about driving into the lake on the side of the road. That's how fucked up it made me. I knew I was doing the right thing when it felt that painful. Now I know I can be better.
In the morning I woke up and drove to work and thought about driving into the lake on the side of the road. That's how fucked up it made me. I knew I was doing the right thing when it felt that painful. Now I know I can be better.
By FortuneFaded Go To PostTo be honest, at this stage in my life, I've already made peace with the fact that I'll never have friends/social life. I would like a relationship though, however unlikely, but I am also aware that it is basically a ticking clock.Dude you're funny as hell. Keep being that and you'll strike gold once in a while.
By FortuneFaded Go To PostTo be honest, at this stage in my life, I've already made peace with the fact that I'll never have friends/social life. I would like a relationship though, however unlikely, but I am also aware that it is basically a ticking clock.You’re my friend.
Edit: I’m never dating again
I've been talking to a girl at work that's normal, well-adjusted, hard working and not married or an alcoholic
basically i'm completely out of my element
basically i'm completely out of my element
We talked a bunch at work today. She told me how she hasn't dated in 2 years and feels good about it. She's a cute girl with a gdlk ass so I figure she hears this shit all the time. That she doesn't like to date. I asked her to get lunch with me when she gets back from going out of state and she said she would. She specified platonic which is fine. I'm not trying to play some 3 dimensional chess anymore. It is what it is. At the very least, I'm getting a lot better at just asking girls.
Never ever date in the work place. Not worth it.
If by some cosmic fluke it works out, one of you will have to leave the company.
If by some cosmic fluke it works out, one of you will have to leave the company.
Listen I'm dense and yall know I don't know my power
girl i mentioned before who said she hadn't dated in 2 years and liked it came up to me at work today and randomly told me she decided to wear makeup today since she usually never does. i was like you look nice butl ike that's a thing, right? like i'm not saying she wants to jump my shit but the fact that she came up and randomly told me that she's got makeup on seems like i'm more in than i realize
girl i mentioned before who said she hadn't dated in 2 years and liked it came up to me at work today and randomly told me she decided to wear makeup today since she usually never does. i was like you look nice butl ike that's a thing, right? like i'm not saying she wants to jump my shit but the fact that she came up and randomly told me that she's got makeup on seems like i'm more in than i realize
Nah she just wants you to know how she likes her face made so when y'all have a sleepover you get it right.
We hung out and talked but figured out pretty early on we weren't currently interested in anything beyond friendship. I'm stuck on someone and she's not trying to date at all nowadays. But apparently one of the other dudes at work was telling her that I would be 'weird' with her despite the fact that he knows nothing about who i've dated but he considered me that much of a threat for a woman who's not even interested in him despite him following her around like a puppy
I met my first genuine fuccboi
I met my first genuine fuccboi
Guys, I did it. I'm officially married now. April 29th we wed on the beach of Fort Lauderdale and had the following reception at a beachside restaurant called Casablanca . It was very beautiful, intimate ceremony with just 16 people. I couldn't be prouder to call her my wife.
Everything fell exactly into place the way it needed to for us to be together... lot's of people in this community rightfully thought it never could work, that I'd be killed by the Russian mafia, or have my heart crushed in two, but I can tell you that I am living the dream ya'll and I wish the very best for everyone's love life out there.
Some pictures to celebrate the occasion.
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Everything fell exactly into place the way it needed to for us to be together... lot's of people in this community rightfully thought it never could work, that I'd be killed by the Russian mafia, or have my heart crushed in two, but I can tell you that I am living the dream ya'll and I wish the very best for everyone's love life out there.
Some pictures to celebrate the occasion.
https://ibb.co/dBPgB7
https://ibb.co/n4Dir7
https://ibb.co/m2ZdPS
https://ibb.co/eh354S
Grats m8
Heat slaent doesn't need you back btw
Yeah I thought he was ugly too lmao
Heat slaent doesn't need you back btw
By Apollo Go To PostWtf Vire you’re handsome as fuck
Yeah I thought he was ugly too lmao
By s y 2.0 Go To PostGrats m8Ahaha I miss y’all. I just have been so busy, it’s hard keeping up, but I did go to AAA for a few games :)
Heat slaent doesn't need you back btw
Yeah I thought he was ugly too lmao
I definitely have been popping in the threads here from time to time even if I didn’t post.
the list of events better than the slaent meet up grows
By Apollo Go To PostWtf Vire you’re handsome as fuckthis whole time i thought he was chubby reilo or something smh
By DY_nasty Go To Postthe list of events better than the slaent meet up growsI'm pretty sure i've taken shits more exciting.
this whole time i thought he was chubby reilo or something smh
By Apollo Go To PostWtf Vire you’re handsome as fuck
By s y 2.0 Go To PostYeah I thought he was ugly too lmao
By DY_nasty Go To Postthis whole time i thought he was chubby reilo or something smh
Bruh...😂😂😂😂😂
Congrats to the both of you. Glad it worked out.
By DY_nasty Go To Postthis whole time i thought he was chubby reilo or something smhthis mfer
I’m smiling so hard, I love how everyone’s reaction was this fucking nerd must have been super ugly like reilo!
It’s makes me feel good I guess? SLAENT delivers with the backhanded compliments.
It’s makes me feel good I guess? SLAENT delivers with the backhanded compliments.
*talks around reilo*
By vire Go To PostI’m smiling so hard, I love how everyone’s reaction was this fucking nerd must have been super ugly like reilo!its really more you like always came off like a guy who had no choice other than to scumbag it and cry in the car for ages lol
It’s makes me feel good I guess? SLAENT delivers with the backhanded compliments.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostCongrats bro. lol damn @ reilo catching strays.fucking slander
By reilo Go To PostWho the fuck are you calling what now😂 I actually don’t even know what you look like. 💋
By DY_nasty Go To Postthis whole time i thought he was chubby reilo or something smh
I thought reilo was chubby reilo.