Got a date with a seemingly non crazy this time.
She even asked me if I was vaccinated.
This could be the one boys, or atleast the one right now.
She even asked me if I was vaccinated.
This could be the one boys, or atleast the one right now.
By Dark PhaZe Go To PostMy girl generally doesn't want kids, and she's made it known, but I'm wondering if it's unfair if I try to actually debate/convince her of at least debating the issue. If relationships are about compromise, and I want like 2 and she wants 0, can we meet in the middle and do 1?
I'm sayin
Damn man, you gotta take the L and move on.
By Dark PhaZe Go To PostMy girl generally doesn't want kids, and she's made it known, but I'm wondering if it's unfair if I try to actually debate/convince her of at least debating the issue. If relationships are about compromise, and I want like 2 and she wants 0, can we meet in the middle and do 1?if it's very important to you, you should move on.
I'm sayin
former friend of mine strung his GF along who really wanted kids, he never told her no but it was clear to him he never wanted any. left her for a younger gal and now she's 40 and alone...
By DiPro Go To Postif it's very important to you, you should move on.
former friend of mine strung his GF along who really wanted kids, he never told her no but it was clear to him he never wanted any. left her for a younger gal and now she's 40 and alone…
My friend did that to his girlfriend of 13 yrs from freshman year of college, they ended up breaking up over it but she was fine as all hell and within a year of them breaking up she had a baby with another man. He didn't say it but I know he was hurting when he found out. I was happy for her, thought it was a dick move on his part to string her along with maybes.
By Lunatic Go To PostI see we still beating on poor Phaze a month later😂
He should have ended it in that time, we here for the update
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostMy friend did that to his girlfriend of 13 yrs from freshman year of college, they ended up breaking up over it but she was fine as all hell and within a year of them breaking up she had a baby with another man. He didn't say it but I know he was hurting when he found out. I was happy for her, thought it was a dick move on his part to string her along with maybes.we literally told him to break it off hundreds of times but he was like.. maaaybeeee...
left her the the second someone else looked at him. lmao.
best thing was when he had the nerve to complain to her when she dated a common friend after.
By Patriotism Go To Postgood luck mate, hopefully you can give her 2 shots of LuperZenica.Thanks mate, going straight for an added booster shot !
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostMy friend did that to his girlfriend of 13 yrs from freshman year of college, they ended up breaking up over it but she was fine as all hell and within a year of them breaking up she had a baby with another man. He didn't say it but I know he was hurting when he found out. I was happy for her, thought it was a dick move on his part to string her along with maybes.good for her lol
By DiPro Go To Postif it's very important to you, you should move on.
former friend of mine strung his GF along who really wanted kids, he never told her no but it was clear to him he never wanted any. left her for a younger gal and now she's 40 and alone…
life is too good rn I gotta keep it goin for a while longer maybe something will change ijs
By Dark PhaZe Go To Postlife is too good rn I gotta keep it goin for a while longer maybe something will change ijsIt is, until you wake up one day and wonder if you've wasted your best years on a relationship that was doomed to fail.
I think of something like a kid in terms of a commitment of 18 years to the person I have it with whether we stay in a romantic relationship or not, thus I want someone on the same page as me as much as possible. Fuck 18 years of volatile marriage or 18 years of bitter ex bullshit. Seen enough products of that, I often feel like the odd man out since my parents got married, had me and stayed together.
I may have missed out on KD Aubert look alike but the woman I'm talking to now looks like a 5'11" Harley Dean, needless to say I want her to bare our children.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostHe should have ended it in that time, we here for the update
It's tough because I'm the one who wants them...but I'm still not *ready* for them. Might not be for a couple more years. And with the way the world is raining bad news second to second, it's tough to feel beat up over it. Add to that the fact the family jewels can bear fruit for another couple of decades or so limits the urgency.
but we gon c
You're wasting your time and hers.... But whatever people choose a prison of their own making all the time.
By Dark PhaZe Go To PostIt's tough because I'm the one who wants them…but I'm still not *ready* for them. Might not be for a couple more years. And with the way the world is raining bad news second to second, it's tough to feel beat up over it. Add to that the fact the family jewels can bear fruit for another couple of decades or so limits the urgency.
but we gon c
You’re never really ready/prepared tho
when you know you ain't ready you damn sure ain't ready lol
imagine quitting a job when you feel like it with kids at home faze. you'd still be doing laps for Amazon rn
imagine quitting a job when you feel like it with kids at home faze. you'd still be doing laps for Amazon rn
Well…yeah…I’m talking more about the actual parenting part of having kids. There’s no manual. Everybody figures it out in their own. No matter when you have them there isn’t a “How to” guide, and you definitely don’t want to wait too long and be super dusty with a youngin running around.
Obviously you wouldn’t want to be producing kids with no job etc, so from that point of view, yeah, you can definitely have levels of preparedness.
But if she don’t want kids peridot, I don’t think it’s in anybodys interest to continue the relationship 🤷🏽♂️
Obviously you wouldn’t want to be producing kids with no job etc, so from that point of view, yeah, you can definitely have levels of preparedness.
But if she don’t want kids peridot, I don’t think it’s in anybodys interest to continue the relationship 🤷🏽♂️
By reilo Go To Post*nods*We all been through it eh. That experience has been etched into our soul.
It's even worse when she brings her best friend along and they play off each other.
But long days past.
But long days past.
By reilo Go To PostIt's even worse when she brings her best friend along and they play off each other.Man the things you learn to notice my dude.... But yea it all in the past. It's crazy that you only really start to understand how people be moving until you pass 28+ years old. Honestly I never really started to "get it" until I was 28.
But long days past.
By reilo Go To Post😂
By Dark PhaZe Go To PostIt's tough because I'm the one who wants them…but I'm still not *ready* for them. Might not be for a couple more years. And with the way the world is raining bad news second to second, it's tough to feel beat up over it. Add to that the fact the family jewels can bear fruit for another couple of decades or so limits the urgency.
but we gon c
I feel you but if she doesn't want kids now she probably not changing her mind. You may not be ready for kids now but she's not ready for kids ever. I don't see how it works unless you gonna trap her 🤣
By Batong-TT Go To PostPro tip: No one is ever ready for kids.
my mate was so ready he sabotaged his condoms to get his GF pregnant.
By Patriotism Go To Postmy mate was so ready he sabotaged his condoms to get his GF pregnant.She wasn’t ready for that
that story being so common is just.... well yeah
my gf in college put me on game early fortunately. told me to leave all condoms out in the open in an empty shoebox or something. keep the condoms I actually planned to use hidden in my pillow case. then after slamming ass just double back and check how many in the shoebox had been tampered with
dirty game out here
my gf in college put me on game early fortunately. told me to leave all condoms out in the open in an empty shoebox or something. keep the condoms I actually planned to use hidden in my pillow case. then after slamming ass just double back and check how many in the shoebox had been tampered with
dirty game out here
By DY_nasty Go To Postthat story being so common is just…. well yeah
my gf in college put me on game early fortunately. told me to leave all condoms out in the open in an empty shoebox or something. keep the condoms I actually planned to use hidden in my pillow case. then after slamming ass just double back and check how many in the shoebox had been tampered with
dirty game out here
Was it all of them?
By Patriotism Go To PostWas it all of them?not all but enough. after that semester was over though, most of the condoms weren't even mine.
that girl really looked out for me fr. charlotte was the first major city i ever lived in and there's a lot of things i just wasn't aware of
By DY_nasty Go To Postyou tell a woman who's never been shotdown before that the convo is dull and that you need some time to yourself and watch your security system and close friends get tested
i think a lot of guys get grouped into the pinnacle chad, average dude who should settle, and literal undesirable garbage labels anyways and there's plenty of entry into that kind of discussion no matter your entry point or perspective on it. women who get used to being chased nonstop being told the exact opposite of what they're used to hearing? they'll be 30+ years into life and firing off synapses in their brain that've never seen use before trying to process why the universe has allowed such transgression to occur. and too often they'll be surrounded with an assortment of nonsense to make her believe she's right to think such a way too lol
had women weaponize their simps against me, stalk me, fake their deaths, fuck my teammates to get my attention, stalk my family members, instigate fights, fake pregnancies, etc. the most fucked up part about all of it is that putting them on blast for it was almost always the worst option
but that's just me lmao
What?
lol this girl was convinced she was gonna break my heart by fucking my teammate. saw her leave the club with him and before he even got in the car he shot me a text asking what the deal was. i told him to have fun because she was single.
strolled into his room the next morning. dude dapped me up and we started playing top spin 3 while she was still ass nekkid and stanking. she woke up to welcome to jamrock blasting, xbox live profanities, and a long line to get into the shower.
i will never forget how absolutely bewildered she was at how she played herself.
another woman i was dating... she felt i wasn't enthusiastic enough or something so she faked a car accident. crying "im stuck" voicemail and everything.
strolled into his room the next morning. dude dapped me up and we started playing top spin 3 while she was still ass nekkid and stanking. she woke up to welcome to jamrock blasting, xbox live profanities, and a long line to get into the shower.
i will never forget how absolutely bewildered she was at how she played herself.
another woman i was dating... she felt i wasn't enthusiastic enough or something so she faked a car accident. crying "im stuck" voicemail and everything.
I was with the first story. I can understand how she thought that might work at least
Car accident one is something else tho
Car accident one is something else tho
So I just caught up with the thread.
I tend to avoid choatic energy - because I am drawn to it and its caused me nothing but pain and stress. I made some horrible choices in my twenties when it came to women but I always threw in the towel and bailed before it reached season finale type of escalation. Faking your death is insane behavior, and not the youtube thumbnail kind of insane - I mean sectioned under the mental health act insane.
I tend to avoid choatic energy - because I am drawn to it and its caused me nothing but pain and stress. I made some horrible choices in my twenties when it came to women but I always threw in the towel and bailed before it reached season finale type of escalation. Faking your death is insane behavior, and not the youtube thumbnail kind of insane - I mean sectioned under the mental health act insane.
By DY_nasty Go To Postlol this girl was convinced she was gonna break my heart by fucking my teammate. saw her leave the club with him and before he even got in the car he shot me a text asking what the deal was. i told him to have fun because she was single.💀
strolled into his room the next morning. dude dapped me up and we started playing top spin 3 while she was still ass nekkid and stanking. she woke up to welcome to jamrock blasting, xbox live profanities, and a long line to get into the shower.
i will never forget how absolutely bewildered she was at how she played herself.
another woman i was dating… she felt i wasn't enthusiastic enough or something so she faked a car accident. crying "im stuck" voicemail and everything.
My younger brother has a story similar to the ex trying to fuck a mate, except he picked him up for football and his mate told her to show herself out when she woke up lol
By Daz Go To PostWhy do some women do that?
WTF?
Because some women can't handle rejection or you moving on without becoming a shell of yourself and it activates the crazy protocol.
By Dark PhaZe Go To PostIs "looking for a country boy" the loudest dog whistle out there?
What does this mean? I grew up right outside the Bronx and never heard that