By Pennywise Go To PostJust admit that you want to date Frankie Adams.would hold hands with in public/10
By s y Go To PostAyo some girls have like negative game ๐its actually hilarious
Straight out of movie when one actually approaches. The balance is so fucked up lol
most beautiful woman i ever met in the army. her idea of spitting game was sitting down next to guys and leaning backwards. she actually wasn't even crazy she just SOUNDED crazy as fuck.
By DY_nasty Go To Postmost beautiful woman i ever met in the army. her idea of spitting game was sitting down next to guys and leaning backwards. she actually wasn't even crazy she just SOUNDED crazy as fuck.But did it work?
By s y Go To PostAyo some girls have like negative game ๐Well when you don't have to spit it to get attention
Straight out of movie when one actually approaches. The balance is so fucked up lol
By blackace Go To PostBut did it work?not in the way in she hoped. girl bad af, socially just.... if a dude doesn't approach her, she has no clue. but any dude who would be into her, is usually on some fuckboy shit because its what she dresses for lol
her best looks were friendzoning her way into a group of friends to get at who she wanted and hopefully working her way in that way. ie wasting mad time then getting invited to the wedding
By Lunatic Go To PostWell when you don't have to spit it to get attention
lol right
By DY_nasty Go To Postnot in the way in she hoped. girl bad af, socially justโฆ. if a dude doesn't approach her, she has no clue. but any dude who would be into her, is usually on some fuckboy shit because its what she dresses for lol
her best looks were friendzoning her way into a group of friends to get at who she wanted and hopefully working her way in that way. ie wasting mad time then getting invited to the wedding
lmao
By DY_nasty Go To Postif you're trying to manufacture a genetic prodigy and don't have samoa on your list you fuckin up or not serious ijs
I wasnt aware that Samoan women were taller. I know Pacific Islanders make great football and rugby players, but I'm already built like one of them. Gotta have my long armed, tall and slim lady to counteract my stocky Zion esque genetics.
a girl did that to me at work, we have never spoken to each other and she was on another team, I was on my work PC and she just stared straight at me while she was walking across my table, no words, just a slight smile on her face.
I thought she was cute too, I added her on facebook later on and she accepted. that was 2 years ago. I have still never spoken to her or msg'd her.
that's it, that's the post.
I thought she was cute too, I added her on facebook later on and she accepted. that was 2 years ago. I have still never spoken to her or msg'd her.
that's it, that's the post.
By cRrusheR Go To PostWomen deal with rejection 10x worse than men.word?
By cRrusheR Go To PostWomen deal with rejection 10x worse than men.How would you know?
By cRrusheR Go To PostWomen deal with rejection 10x worse than men.yeah idk about that.
Not all women, not all men, not taking into account "Yeah then I will kill you" situations. 10x is obviously an exaggeration, not really applying science here.
Let me moon walk out of this. *sliding backwards*
What I meant to say is that from my experience, men deal with rejection more often but rejection impacts women a bit more harshly in terms of self image, and they keep that in for a lot longer. Maybe there's a link between fear of rejection and shooting your shot. It's debatable. But if women are considered by society the prize, then you aren't much of a prize when you get rejected you know?
Either way, if you get rejected more times you deal with it better I think?
I don't, it's just what it looks like to me from what I hear when they tell me those stories of rejection.
Let me moon walk out of this. *sliding backwards*
What I meant to say is that from my experience, men deal with rejection more often but rejection impacts women a bit more harshly in terms of self image, and they keep that in for a lot longer. Maybe there's a link between fear of rejection and shooting your shot. It's debatable. But if women are considered by society the prize, then you aren't much of a prize when you get rejected you know?
Either way, if you get rejected more times you deal with it better I think?
By FortuneFaded Go To PostHow would you know?
I don't, it's just what it looks like to me from what I hear when they tell me those stories of rejection.
i think i may actually have to agree with crusher lol
men are more likely to end up on the news, sure, but its wild how so many women can just be insane and it gets called it a 'healing process'
men are more likely to end up on the news, sure, but its wild how so many women can just be insane and it gets called it a 'healing process'
By Apollo Go To PostI have 4 sisters. I have seen them do some shitIt runs in the family?
By guanciale Go To PostIt runs in the family?lol fuck
I do think there's something to be said about men not speaking up when they're on the being harassed/stalked/receive violence side of a relationship because gender stereotypes and all that.
That doesn't mean men aren't way too quick on the trigger with their own words (eg blanket calling women crazy)/physicality but the other side happens too. How much though is questionable.
That doesn't mean men aren't way too quick on the trigger with their own words (eg blanket calling women crazy)/physicality but the other side happens too. How much though is questionable.
I'd say people in general are shit at handling rejection in general, add in ego and romantic feelings and it gets even more yikes. Don't even think this one needs gendering much. Look at how people handle being rejected for not wearing a face cloth.
you tell a woman who's never been shotdown before that the convo is dull and that you need some time to yourself and watch your security system and close friends get tested
i think a lot of guys get grouped into the pinnacle chad, average dude who should settle, and literal undesirable garbage labels anyways and there's plenty of entry into that kind of discussion no matter your entry point or perspective on it. women who get used to being chased nonstop being told the exact opposite of what they're used to hearing? they'll be 30+ years into life and firing off synapses in their brain that've never seen use before trying to process why the universe has allowed such transgression to occur. and too often they'll be surrounded with an assortment of nonsense to make her believe she's right to think such a way too lol
had women weaponize their simps against me, stalk me, fake their deaths, fuck my teammates to get my attention, stalk my family members, instigate fights, fake pregnancies, etc. the most fucked up part about all of it is that putting them on blast for it was almost always the worst option
but that's just me lmao
i think a lot of guys get grouped into the pinnacle chad, average dude who should settle, and literal undesirable garbage labels anyways and there's plenty of entry into that kind of discussion no matter your entry point or perspective on it. women who get used to being chased nonstop being told the exact opposite of what they're used to hearing? they'll be 30+ years into life and firing off synapses in their brain that've never seen use before trying to process why the universe has allowed such transgression to occur. and too often they'll be surrounded with an assortment of nonsense to make her believe she's right to think such a way too lol
had women weaponize their simps against me, stalk me, fake their deaths, fuck my teammates to get my attention, stalk my family members, instigate fights, fake pregnancies, etc. the most fucked up part about all of it is that putting them on blast for it was almost always the worst option
but that's just me lmao
โand too often they'll be surrounded with an assortment of nonsense to make her believe she's right to think such a way too lolโ
Women and accountability have never met each other
Women and accountability have never met each other
Not trying to minimize what happened to you @dy but you managed to be a man that's undergone the quintessential woman's experience of life, dunno one that hasn't had a stalker at some point in time. It's just a bit different in the efforts made at alienation and harassment since it's weaponizing things socially rather than weaponizing physical threat directly. In a way yours is uniquely awful because it seeks to destroy your whole social circle with lies and slander. Also since people think women are relatively harmless you're likely to have even those close to you stupidly give out info to some stalker bitch provided she acts cordial.
not saying all ofc. just that it really is a popular state of mind that gets further reinforced with equally toxic echo chambers of varying size and purpose
but fr. it's easier and legit safer to convince a woman that she dumped you and on her own timeline than it is to simply punch out when you no longer want to invest in a relationship
but fr. it's easier and legit safer to convince a woman that she dumped you and on her own timeline than it is to simply punch out when you no longer want to invest in a relationship
By DY_nasty Go To Posthad women weaponize their simps against me, stalk me, fake their deaths, fuck my teammates to get my attention, stalk my family members, instigate fights, fake pregnancies, etc. the most fucked up part about all of it is that putting them on blast for it was almost always the worst option
but that's just me lmao
Where do you find your dating prospects at mane holy shot lmao
Worst I ever got was girl saying I beat her and trying to fuck my friends. Negated the second point by a) not caring and b) telling friends if she comes looking for dick, go for it. We aren't together. Had some great conversations with a few of them after she tapped them up lol. Ended up being passed about like a spliff instead of the big power play she thought she was making.
By i can get you a toe Go To PostNot trying to minimize what happened to you @dy but you managed to be a man that's undergone the quintessential woman's experience of life, dunno one that hasn't had a stalker at some point in time. It's just a bit different in the efforts made at alienation and harassment since it's weaponizing things socially rather than weaponizing physical threat directly. In a way yours is uniquely awful because it seeks to destroy your whole social circle with lies and slander. Also since people think women are relatively harmless you're likely to have even those close to you stupidly give out info to some stalker bitch provided she acts cordial.You know what fucked me up the most? One girl (that would eventually tell her fresh out of county jail uncle to check me) told me that the worst thing I ever did to her was make her feel special. That she never felt good about herself as an individual until I came around. And she hated me for it because whenever we went out, I tried to make my other friends and even her friends feel the same way - so obviously feeling good about yourself wasn't some unique feeling that only she could get.
Definitive succubus mentality. And that shit gets celebrated lol. "Your man should make no one happier than he makes YOU" is some real shit you'll hear casually and head nodded to.
By Fenderputty Go To PostWhere do you find your dating prospects at mane holy shot lmaoMost of those women had great jobs or went on to, were all stars in their field, or are now married with picture perfect facebook profiles to match. Same girl that thought she was gonna send me on an emotional rollercoaster by fucking three of my teammates in one night invited me to her wedding years later. Dude thought he was getting some nice country girl who was focused on growing her business as interior designer.
I kept saying I'd rather date strippers and razors edge EMT types because at least they're straight up about what you're about to get into.
I think people just have trouble dealing with rejection. Women flip out, men flip out. People think somebody owes them something for their time ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou know what fucked me up the most? One girl (that would eventually tell her fresh out of county jail uncle to check me) told me that the worst thing I ever did to her was make her feel special. That she never felt good about herself as an individual until I came around. And she hated me for it because whenever we went out, I tried to make my other friends and even her friends feel the same way - so obviously feeling good about yourself wasn't some unique feeling that only she could get.Some people are definitely black holes. I've even had a friend in the past act all mad or pouty if we ran into another friend of mine. At the time I was like "maybe they just don't like my other friend's vibe." Once I wasn't around them anymore it clicked. Same person saw relationships as transactional too but I had more to give, so they resented me for being in my debt, cause that's how they saw things. Anyway glad they're not in my life anymore.
Definitive succubus mentality. And that shit gets celebrated lol. "Your man should make no one happier than he makes YOU" is some real shit you'll hear casually and head nodded to.
By blackace Go To PostI think people just have trouble dealing with rejection. Women flip out, men flip out. People think somebody owes them something for their time ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธHere come the happily married love at first sight folk ๐ tell us how dating was back in the 90s
By Patriotism Go To PostWorst I ever got was girl saying I beat her and trying to fuck my friends. Negated the second point by a) not caring and b) telling friends if she comes looking for dick, go for it. We aren't together. Had some great conversations with a few of them after she tapped them up lol. Ended up being passed about like a spliff instead of the big power play she thought she was making.Thankfully I never had to deal with that. I think at least in most places I've been, that type of thing would get treated as a murder by cop.
And yeah... way too much TV. The "I'll just fuck your friends then!" move ended with her waking up to me and the boys playing 2k and high fives all around.
By DY_nasty Go To PostHere come the happily married love at first sight folk ๐ tell us how dating was back in the 90sI literally see crazy every weekend of my life for the last 15 years and counting.
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I have only been married for 5 years, so it's not like I married my high school sweetheart.
But it is easier to think that it's the women who are crazy tho
lol. this the shit im talking about
if you don't ask for anything from people but just watch from the sidelines while punching a clock then yeah I'm sure it looks like a boring, completely fair and balanced field with equal blame to go around. just people watching at work is not at all the same as a lawyer filling up your voicemails with her morning masturbation playlist, telling her to chill, and having her threaten a random ex as a response.
I say some actual shit that bothers me and its "welp, you're not perfect either"isms. Obviously. I learned the lesson of trying to make everyone happy lmao won't do that again
if you don't ask for anything from people but just watch from the sidelines while punching a clock then yeah I'm sure it looks like a boring, completely fair and balanced field with equal blame to go around. just people watching at work is not at all the same as a lawyer filling up your voicemails with her morning masturbation playlist, telling her to chill, and having her threaten a random ex as a response.
I say some actual shit that bothers me and its "welp, you're not perfect either"isms. Obviously. I learned the lesson of trying to make everyone happy lmao won't do that again
You don't have to make everybody or anybody happy... I never said that. But men go nuts over women they never met and just followed on facebook. Get a heart like and think they dating.
Shit I have been having to pick my lil Japanese homie off the floor because he going through it now. He wants answers like those will help๐
A lot of people are just broken, there is no nice way to put it
Shit I have been having to pick my lil Japanese homie off the floor because he going through it now. He wants answers like those will help๐
A lot of people are just broken, there is no nice way to put it
By guanciale Go To PostIt runs in the family?
I'm considered the good child
I went to a nature trail today, walked a couple miles with my weight vest on, but before doing that I saw some woman in the parking lot looking like she was having car trouble. I went over to help and when I saw her face she looked like K.D. Aubert, green eyed and everything. She was worried about one of the radiator pipes expanding and what not, had to explain to her how a radiator works while looking over the engine / pipes for leaks. Spent a few mins talking, she was asking me questions about myself but when I was done I said her car was all good and have a nice day, she was thanking me but had a real confused look on her face. The way she looked I think she was expecting me to holla or ask for her number, it was a "that's all?" face.
I honestly would have felt like a scumbag trying to get at her, I just seen someone and tried to help, didn't realize how attractive she was till I got up close. But now that I'm done with my workout I feel like this is an L, a big L. I feel like the universe threw the oop and I dropped it. Im just gonna assume she had 7 kids by 6 men to make myself hold this L better.
I honestly would have felt like a scumbag trying to get at her, I just seen someone and tried to help, didn't realize how attractive she was till I got up close. But now that I'm done with my workout I feel like this is an L, a big L. I feel like the universe threw the oop and I dropped it. Im just gonna assume she had 7 kids by 6 men to make myself hold this L better.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostI went to a nature trail today, walked a couple miles with my weight vest on, but before doing that I saw some woman in the parking lot looking like she was having car trouble. I went over to help and when I saw her face she looked like K.D. Aubert, green eyed and everything. She was worried about one of the radiator pipes expanding and what not, had to explain to her how a radiator works while looking over the engine / pipes for leaks. Spent a few mins talking, she was asking me questions about myself but when I was done I said her car was all good and have a nice day, she was thanking me but had a real confused look on her face. The way she looked I think she was expecting me to holla or ask for her number, it was a "that's all?" face.you'll be aite data i'm sure she'll find a seat on someone else's face
I honestly would have felt like a scumbag trying to get at her, I just seen someone and tried to help, didn't realize how attractive she was till I got up close. But now that I'm done with my workout I feel like this is an L, a big L. I feel like the universe threw the oop and I dropped it. Im just gonna assume she had 7 kids by 6 men to make myself hold this L better.
By DY_nasty Go To Postyou'll be aite data i'm sure she'll find a seat on someone else's face
You can't win em all, but the self inflicted L is not something I'm familiar with.
By reilo Go To Postdamn, bricks got ok data'd lmao
How is poor data catching strays from my L? Incredible
By FortuneFaded Go To PostCanโt you just accept you did a good deed and move on?
No.
Google KD Aubert.
It's alright ๐ happens to best of us
bet she had bad knees and poor cardiovascular endurance anyways
bet she had bad knees and poor cardiovascular endurance anyways
By Patriotism Go To PostProbably smoked, too.That was just the car