By domino Go To Postdo yall take people back or once they're gone, they're gone?only time it makes sense is if both people change quite a bit, independent of each other imo
curious what yall think because as much real talk as i give my friends, all they give me and each other is pats on the back. not really the sounding board i need. my old coworker's good for some real talk since me and her still hang out often.
also i'm moving "im not used to being treated well" up to #1 on my power ranking of red flags. thats semi related to my question. like 2nd cousins
that happening and people running into each other again with new lenses on life *and* still having an attraction for another? that's pretty rare
tbh its usually something folks do when they're spinning wheels in their life
By domino Go To Postdo yall take people back or once they're gone, they're gone?Only for a hook up here and there. Serious relationship resuming after she breaks it off? Never
By domino Go To Postdo yall take people back or once they're gone, they're gone?Depends on the circumstances.
curious what yall think because as much real talk as i give my friends, all they give me and each other is pats on the back. not really the sounding board i need. my old coworker's good for some real talk since me and her still hang out often.
also i'm moving "im not used to being treated well" up to #1 on my power ranking of red flags. thats semi related to my question. like 2nd cousins
Cheating is always gonna be the case of, no chance ever again. There are plenty of other things where I might reconsider things, but it really depends on the situation.
Would depend entirely on the reasons for the breakup and if there was enough personal growth to enable a healthy relationship to resume.
Probably one in a million chance of that being the case, though.
Probably one in a million chance of that being the case, though.
reason why i asked is it stemmed from a convo where the consensus was a hard "you only get one chance w/ me" other than hookups, from the men/women in it
i thought that was harsh myself. what if they moved for a new job opportunity for example. but folks were just not hearing it.
i thought that was harsh myself. what if they moved for a new job opportunity for example. but folks were just not hearing it.
By domino Go To Postdo yall take people back or once they're gone, they're gone?
curious what yall think because as much real talk as i give my friends, all they give me and each other is pats on the back. not really the sounding board i need. my old coworker's good for some real talk since me and her still hang out often.
also i'm moving "im not used to being treated well" up to #1 on my power ranking of red flags. thats semi related to my question. like 2nd cousins
I had shitty friends, once I dropped them that was that, they'd try and hit me up but they were dead to me as far as I'm concerned. Now, it's really just family and acquaintances.
Women? Same thing if we were in a real relationship, they don't exist to me once it's over no matter how it ended. A woman I just fuck with? She can always come back to table.
But then again I probably got something wrong with me with how easily I can move on from people.
By blackace Go To PostThere is no hard rule about it… Just really depends.
I feel like this is a safe (and correct) answer for most things!
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostI had shitty friends, once I dropped them that was that, they'd try and hit me up but they were dead to me as far as I'm concerned. Now, it's really just family and acquaintances.Nah you good. Once you learn that your time should be treated as a privilege for others you'll learn how to unlock the best parts of you.
Women? Same thing if we were in a real relationship, they don't exist to me once it's over no matter how it ended. A woman I just fuck with? She can always come back to table.
But then again I probably got something wrong with me with how easily I can move on from people.
Moving on is a skill. And so is sticking around. Which path you favor has to be appreciated on a case by case basis and with a clear understanding of your own tendencies. I know I believe too much that my way with words can impact others. I've found that when people mistreat you, discussing is of little use. You can't argue your way out of someone else's betrayal. The correct way of action is acting accordingly to your interests. So, should you give people second chances? I always have, and I probably always will. But for you to forgive, you need to be a challenge to them. Beyond that, psychology studies show that past two significant betrayals, that's it, any pairing is done.
That's a great way of putting it, you do have a way with words.
That said, I think anyone (barring the extreme) deserves a second chance. I have given friends a second chance and one of them gave me one after I done acted a fool.
But some things can't be forgiven or forgotten so your take may vary.
That said, I think anyone (barring the extreme) deserves a second chance. I have given friends a second chance and one of them gave me one after I done acted a fool.
But some things can't be forgiven or forgotten so your take may vary.
I can't imagine thinking I am so special that no matter what that person has going on in their life, I need to be the most important thing.
Some things are beyond forgiveness and you're better off ghosting and cutting your losses. If they give a shit about being better they'll do it with the next batch of friends or relations they have. I've had some betrayals and knowing I don't have the trust and all the baggage, why even do that to either of us.
I started seeing a woman 10 years older than me with a nice house , and she owns 4 businesses locally. She also seems genuinely interested in talking to me
So how long before I get Punk'd
So how long before I get Punk'd
when you ask these kinds of questions in such a situation, you've already been seen through
just keep up your end of the deal lol
By domino Go To PostJust enjoy it while you got ityep
just keep up your end of the deal lol
By domino Go To Posti swear its when i'm just doing me and minding my business, that the bullshit presents itself.Yes
By domino Go To Posti swear its when i'm just doing me and minding my business, that the bullshit presents itself.Real shit lol. Something always has to come around to fuck shit up when you’re having a good day/week/month.
By DY_nasty Go To Postnah fuck that what did you do dominoco-sign
By DY_nasty Go To Postnah fuck that what did you do domino
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on a stack of bibles i havent done anything but exist in this and mind my business
meanwhile ol boy i let carpool a couple days while his ride was busted is calling me up trying to run trains on hoodrats or some other stupid shit, and then mad that i have less than zero interest in it. idk why he even thought i'd be into it because he's always giving me shit for liking "stuck up bitches that think they're better than us" just because i don't only like black women. but i'm realizing he's The Coli in human form lol
then this older lady thats been here a couple months is obsessed with my sex life and i pay her absolute dust because she'll tell everybody your business. and she's one of those folks that met her husband at work in the past so she's all for hooking up with your coworkers. she thinks she dances around the fact that she was the mistress originally but from how she talks about his alimony payments (the numbers almost made my eyes fall out of my head. never cheat on your wife brehs whew) its very obvious. unfortunately she's in charge of our pitch assignments and word got back to me after the last one that she's using it in part to pair me with different women in the office because "it's kind of like a date". then try to pump them for gossip on either what my game is like or if i actually opened up to them about my life. its just all work though
meanwhile ol boy i let carpool a couple days while his ride was busted is calling me up trying to run trains on hoodrats or some other stupid shit, and then mad that i have less than zero interest in it. idk why he even thought i'd be into it because he's always giving me shit for liking "stuck up bitches that think they're better than us" just because i don't only like black women. but i'm realizing he's The Coli in human form lol
then this older lady thats been here a couple months is obsessed with my sex life and i pay her absolute dust because she'll tell everybody your business. and she's one of those folks that met her husband at work in the past so she's all for hooking up with your coworkers. she thinks she dances around the fact that she was the mistress originally but from how she talks about his alimony payments (the numbers almost made my eyes fall out of my head. never cheat on your wife brehs whew) its very obvious. unfortunately she's in charge of our pitch assignments and word got back to me after the last one that she's using it in part to pair me with different women in the office because "it's kind of like a date". then try to pump them for gossip on either what my game is like or if i actually opened up to them about my life. its just all work though
Minding your own business and actively protecting yourself ain't the same thing. You still openly inviting it.
By Yurtlicious Go To Postdomino go work somewhere else lolijs
i can establish them all day it doesnt matter if folks dont respect them
man im trying but most of what i keep finding is drastic paycuts. more than im willing to take. either that or some shit in Arkansaa/Alabama/Mississippi where they're begging folks to move down there.
By Yurtlicious Go To Postdomino go work somewhere else lol
and establish your boundaries maybe
man im trying but most of what i keep finding is drastic paycuts. more than im willing to take. either that or some shit in Arkansaa/Alabama/Mississippi where they're begging folks to move down there.
By domino Go To Posti can establish them all day it doesnt matter if folks dont respect themSouth Arkansas is really north Texas, which is probably the least bad of the group.
man im trying but most of what i keep finding is drastic paycuts. more than im willing to take. either that or some shit in Arkansaa/Alabama/Mississippi where they're begging folks to move down there.
By domino Go To Posti can establish them all day it doesnt matter if folks dont respect them.I dunno man that's not at all what any of this sounds like. You sound like a huge pushover who won't tell people they're crossing lines.
By DY_nasty Go To Post"Part of me is still a virgin"
Finally managed to arrange a date in these dating unfriendly times.
What's the go to greeting way these days? Can't give her 2 kisses on the cheek from the jump I assume.
What's the go to greeting way these days? Can't give her 2 kisses on the cheek from the jump I assume.
By batong_doicare Go To PostElbow and then going for second base
There is no inbetween, life is too short.
That's to baller for me.
By DY_nasty Go To Post"Part of me is still a virgin"
gotta be some of the dumbest shit i've heard this year
ayo whaaaat?
that’d break my programming
By DY_nasty Go To Post"Part of me is still a virgin"
gotta be some of the dumbest shit i've heard this year
That might just be one of the least attractive things I've ever read / heard.