By Shanks D Zoro Go To PostGuess the married poster.lmao
Quarantine has allowed me to screen women a lot more effectively, it's so much easier to spot an "ain't bout shit" woman right now. Been talking with a woman that I really like a lot, she checks off a lot of boxes, she's intelligent, sweet, funny, no kids, no kids, pretty, no kids and easy going. Hopefully we can keep it going, I look forward to talking to her pretty much everyday now.
Also, birthday girl from a few months ago that told me never to speak to her again has hit me up on IG and wants to meet up soon. This woman lives with her mom and complains about her incessantly, maybe she's hoping I have covid to off her mom? I'm not going either way, she's crazy. Two exes hit me up to see if I was still alive, that was nice, but I'm not sure if they were happy or sad about it.
Also, birthday girl from a few months ago that told me never to speak to her again has hit me up on IG and wants to meet up soon. This woman lives with her mom and complains about her incessantly, maybe she's hoping I have covid to off her mom? I'm not going either way, she's crazy. Two exes hit me up to see if I was still alive, that was nice, but I'm not sure if they were happy or sad about it.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostQuarantine has allowed me to screen women a lot more effectively, it's so much easier to spot an "ain't bout shit" woman right now. Been talking with a woman that I really like a lot, she checks off a lot of boxes, she's intelligent, sweet, funny, no kids, no kids, pretty, no kids and easy going. Hopefully we can keep it going, I look forward to talking to her pretty much everyday now.ngl I hope my ex gets it (but survives)
Also, birthday girl from a few months ago that told me never to speak to her again has hit me up on IG and wants to meet up soon. This woman lives with her mom and complains about her incessantly, maybe she's hoping I have covid to off her mom? I'm not going either way, she's crazy. Two exes hit me up to see if I was still alive, that was nice, but I'm not sure if they were happy or sad about it.
why are you blue-balling yourself though I'm quarantining myself from women's bullshit right now
My girlfriend and I (yes the same one I met last Summer) still together, it's been a volatile relationship but the trend seems to be smoothing out. We're communicating better and we're both doing couples counseling which seems to help understand each other better. I can also tell our walls have lowered a bit.
We definitely rushed into it and that's why it got rocky a lot of times but we're definitely in a rhythm and hitting our strides now.
So yeah so far so good.
We definitely rushed into it and that's why it got rocky a lot of times but we're definitely in a rhythm and hitting our strides now.
So yeah so far so good.
By DY_nasty Go To PostIt's real desperation hours.But not the one you're hoping for? 🤔
Had two ppl hit me up this week.
By DY_nasty Go To Postdoing the math in my headShit would I don't know. That's why we're getting counseling.😂
yal barely reached seriously dating. not adding up
This relationship has exposed some of my flaws too. And its good that were both doing self reflecting on our own shit too and really helping with our different commucating styles.
By Yurt Nomura Go To Postngl I hope my ex gets it (but survives)
why are you blue-balling yourself though I'm quarantining myself from women's bullshit right now
She lives in NJ in a city almost as infected as mine, and we've already had sex in the past. I'm good, rather get to know a stable woman instead even if it's just text and facetime for now.
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I am concerned that you may be deep in a trap. You don't get relationship counseling for dating. Especially not when they're the ones with the emotional baggage up front and you're the one with the most to lose.
I'm not gonna press on you or anything but I'm just going off what I know and if I said nothing I'd be a jackass
By Kabro Go To PostShit would I don't know. That's why we're getting counseling.😂Bro
This relationship has exposed some of my flaws too. And its good that were both doing self reflecting on our own shit too and really helping with our different commucating styles.
I am concerned that you may be deep in a trap. You don't get relationship counseling for dating. Especially not when they're the ones with the emotional baggage up front and you're the one with the most to lose.
I'm not gonna press on you or anything but I'm just going off what I know and if I said nothing I'd be a jackass
Naw man it's all good. I get the sentiment and I appreciate it. I have some deep seeded issues too. Thats why I haven't committed until now.
By Kabro Go To PostNaw man it's all good. I get the sentiment and I appreciate it. I have some deep seeded issues too. Thats why I haven't committed until now.That's fair but it ain't got shit to do with her 😂
Yeah. Crazy right.
Tldr version: from 0 to 100mph the day we met. But as we communicated better, things are good.
Tbh I haven't been in this healthy of a relationship before. We talked about marriage within 3 months but now that we're more stable were taking it a lot slower.
Tldr version: from 0 to 100mph the day we met. But as we communicated better, things are good.
Tbh I haven't been in this healthy of a relationship before. We talked about marriage within 3 months but now that we're more stable were taking it a lot slower.
sounds like you're caught up in crazy girl jutsu and she's convinced you that her problems are yours. she came into things knocking you off balance with marriage talk and emotional baggage. put you on the clock early. but somehow you got commitment problems... breh what you had were standards and confidence in how you handled life solo. she had to get on your wave not the other way around.
I wouldn't say anything if I didn't care homie
I wouldn't say anything if I didn't care homie
No. She's owned up to her own issues too. She's apologized for her behavior. And she's adjusting as much as I have. it hasn't been an off switch, but at this point our communication is far healthier.
I post here seeking insight and perspective.
I really do appreciate when someone takes the time to respond to personal matters.
I post here seeking insight and perspective.
I really do appreciate when someone takes the time to respond to personal matters.
I highly suggest you seek your own therapy individually, too. She especially. You two need a neutral perspective and you need a safe space to come to your own conclusions.
The only two reasons I can assume a relationship counselor would even take yal on for dating over such a period of time is because financially its spooky for everybody these days. The other reason is that their integrity is questionable.
She's the one with something to lose in all this. You're just lonely and getting old has you shook lol
She's the one with something to lose in all this. You're just lonely and getting old has you shook lol
By i can get you a toe Go To PostWhat does she bring to the relationship? What do y'all even fight about?trivial shit.
By DY_nasty Go To PostShe's the one with something to lose in all this. You're just lonely and getting old has you shook lolno lies detected! but to be fair i've casually talked to other women that have shown interest.
By reilo Go To PostI highly suggest you seek your own therapy individually, too. She especially. You two need a neutral perspective and you need a safe space to come to your own conclusions.ive done therapy work my self already, she's done only 1 therapy sessions individually. I probably need more tbh.
By DY_nasty Go To Post
i love this man
Living with partner or married slaent, in light of jada smiths comments about discovering she doesn't know will or something to that affect is there anything you've discovered about partner during quarantine?
That's a couple that has spent more time apart than together isn't it.
If that's how your relationship works, no judgement but you're also just gonna have trouble being around each other for long periods of time and yeah you'll be like "who even is this person."
No I don't have these problems.
If that's how your relationship works, no judgement but you're also just gonna have trouble being around each other for long periods of time and yeah you'll be like "who even is this person."
No I don't have these problems.
I don't know if she would say the same about me, but nah, nothing new. Just more confirmation that she is who she has always been around me.
By i can get you a toe Go To PostThat's a couple that has spent more time apart than together isn't it.Aren't Jada and Will openly in an open relationship?
If that's how your relationship works, no judgement but you're also just gonna have trouble being around each other for long periods of time and yeah you'll be like "who even is this person."
No I don't have these problems.
By reilo Go To PostAren't Jada and Will openly in an open relationship?i heard a different version of open
By reilo Go To PostAren't Jada and Will openly in an open relationship?If they do swing, which what I've been told, then it's even more complicated. End up like "oh so this is what you're into now."
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I mean it's not shocking to me that they don't know each other well, especially as a celebrity Hollywood acting couple. Even their crappy movies means they are apart months at a time. If they are "open" like that then being strangers might be a feature, not a bug.
I think I’m over my ex
It could be the numbers I’m hitting right now but her loss... god if this shelter-in-place wasn’t going on I would hitting Jordan like numbers in bars and any social setting
It could be the numbers I’m hitting right now but her loss... god if this shelter-in-place wasn’t going on I would hitting Jordan like numbers in bars and any social setting
By Apollo Go To PostI think I’m over my ex
It could be the numbers I’m hitting right now but her loss… god if this shelter-in-place wasn’t going on I would hitting Jordan like numbers in bars and any social setting
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yeah I guess one of the perks of quarantine is being forced to face whatever we have bottled up inside x10 lmao
Pregnancy scare with the birthday girl after I said I wouldn't see her, I'm a weak man, broke quarantine a few times to have her come over. She got her period recently which takes me off the hook and has me relieved on one hand, but on the other hand part of me was a little let down cause she's extremely attractive and very tall which is a nice recipe to have a slip up with since everyone would just be like "Ooooooo I get it" once they see her. Nevermind the fact my father has told me too many times to count now that he wants another grandson but with our last name to keep it going, and a grand-daughter before he dies.
I'm not seeing her again.....cause there's someone else I'm talking to that I like, but can't actively see her since she takes care of her father and won't risk hanging out with me :(
I'm not seeing her again.....cause there's someone else I'm talking to that I like, but can't actively see her since she takes care of her father and won't risk hanging out with me :(
By /sy Go To Postsad thing is I have mutual friends with that dude
yikes all around
By /sy Go To Postbelongs to the streets
yikes all around
By blackace Go To Postsad thing is I have mutual friends with that dudeAre you the guy down the hall?
I think I held out pretty well,
"Let me upload how hurt I am and play it off"
By /sy Go To Post
yikes all around
"Let me upload how hurt I am and play it off"
By FortuneFaded Go To PostAre you the guy down the hall?Naw... nothing like that partner
By Kabro Go To PostWhy she behaving like a 12yr old?man... the drama is high here.
By blackace Go To Postsad thing is I have mutual friends with that dude
His friends let him get that haircut?