By Shanks D Zoro Go To PostI have never wanted to hear a story more in my life.You'll have to watch the sequel for that.
So the girl is already talking about plans of another vacation trip for next year.
That got me a bit rattled and I am starting to feel bad.
She has trouble letting people in, she clearly feels lonely as the fact that she made a big deal of me going to the music festival and on vacation to Croatia because she doesn't have company shows.
I am starting to realize that she thinks of me as the shield to protect her from her loneliness, almost all of her vacation time this year is going to be spent with me but I can't be that.
I can't have my life on hold for something that has no chance of working, we live 1000km apart and she works on weekends so it's not like I can travel to see her on weekends every month or something.
Part of me feels extremely guilty because I know that I made her feel comfortable with me and I don't want to hurt her.
Someone new appeared on my life and right now it's nothing but it isn't a door I want to close.
Man, I get myself into some situations.
That got me a bit rattled and I am starting to feel bad.
She has trouble letting people in, she clearly feels lonely as the fact that she made a big deal of me going to the music festival and on vacation to Croatia because she doesn't have company shows.
I am starting to realize that she thinks of me as the shield to protect her from her loneliness, almost all of her vacation time this year is going to be spent with me but I can't be that.
I can't have my life on hold for something that has no chance of working, we live 1000km apart and she works on weekends so it's not like I can travel to see her on weekends every month or something.
Part of me feels extremely guilty because I know that I made her feel comfortable with me and I don't want to hurt her.
Someone new appeared on my life and right now it's nothing but it isn't a door I want to close.
Man, I get myself into some situations.
By LFMartins86 Go To PostSo the girl is already talking about plans of another vacation trip for next year.
That got me a bit rattled and I am starting to feel bad.
She has trouble letting people in, she clearly feels lonely as the fact that she made a big deal of me going to the music festival and on vacation to Croatia because she doesn't have company shows.
I am starting to realize that she thinks of me as the shield to protect her from her loneliness, almost all of her vacation time this year is going to be spent with me but I can't be that.
I can't have my life on hold for something that has no chance of working, we live 1000km apart and she works on weekends so it's not like I can travel to see her on weekends every month or something.
Part of me feels extremely guilty because I know that I made her feel comfortable with me and I don't want to hurt her.
Someone new appeared on my life and right now it's nothing but it isn't a door I want to close.
Man, I get myself into some situations.
I think because you seem such nice person it's not your nature to be selfish in situation like this. But you absolutely need to be, sorry to sound so transactional but as soon as you realise that your not happy with the current exchange you should maybe tell her...
Or
* future voice * change your energy a little so she picks up on it leaving her confused but she'll get the message.
Dont do the latter be a man but dont feel bad about it. You are not her emotional guardian
By Kidjr Go To PostI think because you seem such nice person it's not your nature to be selfish in situation like this. But you absolutely need to be, sorry to sound so transactional but as soon as you realise that your not happy with the current exchange you should maybe tell her…
He's unhappy about the structure of a relationship he's completely responsible for. Why push for vacations or interest from a girl that's 1000km a part and then complain about hurting the girl because it will never work due to the 1000km distance.
If that's the case he should have been up front about it not being anything from the get go.
Sorry, I know you said you felt guilty …
By Apollo Go To PostHey I’m single
By Apollo Go To PostYou’re white. So no chanceJust like Biden, I'm honorary black m8.
By Apollo Go To PostHey I’m singledamn. you good bro?
By DY_nasty Go To Postdamn. you good bro?
Yeh kinda. We decided to just be friends
By toku Go To Postfuck manThat’s a bit extreme but okay
Update :
Told her not to come due to the coronavirus and she agreed it was the sensible choice.
Starting to think this is destined not to happen.
Told her not to come due to the coronavirus and she agreed it was the sensible choice.
Starting to think this is destined not to happen.
I dont know what it is with taken women at work coming at me
Single women? Nothing. Married or engaged? Blatant unabashed flirting at me
Single women? Nothing. Married or engaged? Blatant unabashed flirting at me
By data Go To PostI dont know what it is with taken women at work coming at meYou crave junk food when you are on a strict diet.
Single women? Nothing. Married or engaged? Blatant unabashed flirting at me
By FortuneFaded Go To PostYou crave junk food when you are on a strict diet.damn
By FortuneFaded Go To PostYou crave junk food when you are on a strict diet.fatality
By DY_nasty Go To Post
:(
By domino Go To Post*Coronavirus laugh*
in other news not a lot to complain about in 2020 re:Dating. things are going well for once.
Fuck me lol
By DY_nasty Go To Post
posting in this thread for the first time just to say my character has developed enough
can my storyline just reach its conclusion please
By Apollo Go To PostThe world is falling apart and I’m just crying about not being able to sleep next to my wifeWhy do you think they invented gloves and vaseline?
By Apollo Go To PostThe world is falling apart and I’m just crying about not being able to sleep next to my wife
By Apollo Go To PostI honestly didn’t want to post about this because I didn’t want DY to knowShows you have courage to show that your human.
By DY_nasty Go To Postsuddenly attacked againpls understand
mods
By Apollo Go To PostHaven’t had a good night of sleep in weeksHave you tried Melanin pills or supp to help sleep?
By Lupercal Go To PostHave you tried Melanin pills or supp to help sleep?
Yeah. I still stay up half the night or wake up at 3:30
edit: oh wait you aren't having trouble sleeping, it's just that you aren't sleeping enough. My bad lmao
By Yurt :3 Go To Postedit: oh wait you aren't having trouble sleeping, it's just that you aren't sleeping enough. My bad lmao
It’s not good sleep. I toss and turn all night
By Apollo Go To PostIt’s not good sleep. I toss and turn all nightI do that when my mind is in overdrive mode (for whatever reason), what works for me is to try and drown out my inner thoughts with a podcast or even a sitcom/movie lol. I don't even have to watch it I just fire up something fast-paced like Hot Fuzz or Arrested Development
I wouldn't recommend weed for non-smokers as its habit forming ;_; but indica works for me. One joint and I'm out for 8 hours