By Kabro Go To PostMe and girlfriend (sameone) are taking a road trip to visit her parents over Christmas week in Minnesota.Be nice, help them around the house. Ask her what her dad likes so you can Google and have something for small talk.
This is the first time she's bringing someone to meet her parents. Same for me, IIRC. Apparently they're very excited to meet me. Someone help me prepare as I'm feeling a bit anxious spending a week up there..plus the frigid cold. Fucking hell.
I think that's good enough?
Never failed at meeting parents, just remember your ps and qs. Strong handshakes, look dad in the eye but dont try dominate. Dont say too much initially and observe if they are more conservative or a liberal house hold. Dependig on which mirror match accordingly, if the dad is the head of the house hold subtly play up to that shit, check before you go out or if your getting him a beer bring him one too Icing on the cake, bring a little something for the parents... women are often similar to their mothers so feel free to use your judgement and I'm sure you're skilled enough to extract if her dad would appreciate a small bottle of whisky, rum or cigars. While your there with your girl take sometime out to get to know them individually, keep questions light stay away from religion or politics etc. Another little thing dads like is asking for advice....
But yeah follow.the above loosely and you'll be a fucking rock star.
My first gf mum caught us fucking when and got angry at her daughter for not putting a tie on the door and was upset I'd be embarrassed. That's the level of likeability you want lol
But yeah follow.the above loosely and you'll be a fucking rock star.
My first gf mum caught us fucking when and got angry at her daughter for not putting a tie on the door and was upset I'd be embarrassed. That's the level of likeability you want lol
By Kidjr Go To PostNever failed at meeting parents, just remember your ps and qs. Strong handshakes, look dad in the eye but dont try dominate. Dont say too much initially and observe if they are more conservative or a liberal house hold. Dependig on which mirror match accordingly, if the dad is the head of the house hold subtly play up to that shit, check before you go out or if your getting him a beer bring him one too Icing on the cake, bring a little something for the parents… women are often similar to their mothers so feel free to use your judgement and I'm sure you're skilled enough to extract if her dad would appreciate a small bottle of whisky, rum or cigars. While your there with your girl take sometime out to get to know them individually, keep questions light stay away from religion or politics etc. Another little thing dads like is asking for advice….lol, sounds like you are preparing for a boxing fight, KidJr.
But yeah follow.the above loosely and you'll be a fucking rock star.
My first gf mum caught us fucking when and got angry at her daughter for not putting a tie on the door and was upset I'd be embarrassed. That's the level of likeability you want lol
By batong Go To Postlol, sounds like you are preparing for a boxing fight, KidJr.Pack and parcel when trying to impress your better half's parents. I did the same.
By Kidjr Go To PostMy first gf mum caught us fucking when and got angry at her daughter for not putting a tie on the door and was upset I'd be embarrassed. That's the level of likeability you want lol
Did you ever fuck the mum? Sounds like she wanted your dick more than her daughter did.
By FortuneFaded Go To PostDid you ever fuck the mum? Sounds like she wanted your dick more than her daughter did.Or the Japanese special, getting an oyakodon.
By Flutter Go To PostOr the Japanese special, getting an oyakodon.is that safe to google?
By batong Go To Postis that safe to google?Yeah, just look at the translation of the name of the meal and you get the gist of it.
Lmao KidJr.
Just be yourself. You're old enough to get a feeling for the upcoming situations anyway.
Whenever it's about talking, activity and how to handle people.
Just be yourself. You're old enough to get a feeling for the upcoming situations anyway.
Whenever it's about talking, activity and how to handle people.
By Kidjr Go To PostNever failed at meeting parents, just remember your ps and qs. Strong handshakes, look dad in the eye but dont try dominate. Dont say too much initially and observe if they are more conservative or a liberal house hold. Dependig on which mirror match accordingly, if the dad is the head of the house hold subtly play up to that shit, check before you go out or if your getting him a beer bring him one too Icing on the cake, bring a little something for the parents… women are often similar to their mothers so feel free to use your judgement and I'm sure you're skilled enough to extract if her dad would appreciate a small bottle of whisky, rum or cigars. While your there with your girl take sometime out to get to know them individually, keep questions light stay away from religion or politics etc. Another little thing dads like is asking for advice….Duly noted. I like getting the dad whiskey and cigar. That hasn't crossed my mind. Also Need to ask my GF what her mom would like as well.
But yeah follow.the above loosely and you'll be a fucking rock star.
My first gf mum caught us fucking when and got angry at her daughter for not putting a tie on the door and was upset I'd be embarrassed. That's the level of likeability you want lol
And why did I instantly think of a Hallmark movie when I read your post. 😂
so what do you do when you're the one w/ the difficult parents
cause my mom is snarky, disagreeable and confrontational for sport
main reason i don't introduce her to anybody
my pops is cool though
cause my mom is snarky, disagreeable and confrontational for sport
main reason i don't introduce her to anybody
my pops is cool though
By domino Go To Postso what do you do when you're the one w/ the difficult parentsJust warn your partner about your Mum. I'd hate for a surprise like that to be sprung on me.
cause my mom is snarky, disagreeable and confrontational for sport
main reason i don't introduce her to anybody
my pops is cool though
Friend's been bugging me to go to a speed dating thing.
The age range is 20-32 though.
Am I going to be the old man at the club at this?
The age range is 20-32 though.
Am I going to be the old man at the club at this?
Just go man, it's quite fun and don't take it too serious (and im sure no one will think about your age - unless you are 50 that is).
By batong Go To PostJust go man, it's quite fun and don't take it too serious (and im sure no one will think about your age - unless you are 50 that is).I'm a young looking 32 :D
By data Go To PostTreating myself right. No more single moms 2020.Lol
By data Go To PostTreating myself right. No more single moms 2020.help
By data Go To PostTreating myself right. No more single moms 2020.
Think I told the story ages ago what put me off, the time the single mum put a had gun put to the back of my head? Crazy times.
By Fenderputty Go To PostSound advice, but I didn't notice a how to on "if your GF's father is an alcoholic jack ass".
Fuck, being married I appreciate I struck lucky and depending on the relationship they have with them, have a real hard look at the family. Even if you dont like them and think you can avoid them, unless its logistically impossible you'll statt see alot more if them when you have kids.
Just something i would seriously consider when looking at a life long partner.
By DY_nasty Go To Postyou didn't wtfIt was more of a promise that if it happened we would have the baby and then it happened.
Don't think anyone is ever ready to have that first child
By blackace Go To PostSingle people really think people plan their first kid 😂
We planned. Wanted 5 years to ourselves. Wanted a house etc etc.
By blackace Go To PostIt was more of a promise that if it happened we would have the baby and then it happened.
Don't think anyone is ever ready to have that first child
We were not ready
By Fenderputty Go To PostWe planned. Wanted 5 years to ourselves. Wanted a house etc etc.I kinda figured you did. We bought our house after the kid. Had a better idea of the space we needed and how to operate with a child in tow by that time.
We were not ready
By blackace Go To PostIt was more of a promise that if it happened we would have the baby and then it happened.bruh I simply cannot think like this
Don't think anyone is ever ready to have that first child
I know people who've planned 5 or more years out
By Fenderputty Go To PostWe planned. Wanted 5 years to ourselves. Wanted a house etc etc.More ready than you would've been though
We were not ready
By DY_nasty Go To Postbruh I simply cannot think like thisagain most people don't.
I know people who've planned 5 or more years out
More ready than you would've been though
Almost scared to ask my dad about my brother shit or even me lol
By DY_nasty Go To PostMost people are fucking stupid🤷🏾♂️ So is life. Really can't plan that shit out like you think you can.
By the way, if you do want kids, the longer you wait to get married etc, means less time for planning unless you want to be the oldest dad at the basketball gym
By DY_nasty Go To Post"just be lucky"Just hope Kado's pullout game is as strong as yours*
kado, this is how they were trying to do you breh
* not counting the kids abandoned
By Fenderputty Go To PostBy the way, if you do want kids, the longer you wait to get married etc, means less time for planning unless you want to be the oldest dad at the basketball gymI didn't have mine until I was 40... That means I got to at least be able to throw hands in my 60s
By Fenderputty Go To PostBy the way, if you do want kids, the longer you wait to get married etc, means less time for planning unless you want to be the oldest dad at the basketball gymif i'm not settled by 40 then I'll just chalk it up to the game and happily volunteer/foster my time away.
but life can fuck. it can fuck really, really good. i can barely deal with that just handling myself so the idea of "lolz kids now imagine that" actually makes my skin crawl. there are some people who actually think they're doing okay for themselves and their kids - when they have genuinely fucked up their life and their kids lives and don't even know/acknowledge it.
I never want to be that person. I can count on one hand the amount of actually great relationships I've seen out of my friends as I've traveled. If it ain't great, I don't want it.
By blackace Go To PostSingle people really think people plan their first kid 😂
i had a mate who planned his first.
By taking off the condom in the middle of sex.
By DY_nasty Go To PostMost people are fucking stupidI still have such a hard timewith this concept
Unless you get horny raw dogging your SO without birth control, most pregnancies seem somewhat planned
See above post lol
See above post lol
By DY_nasty Go To Postpsy was right. yal elite afRich public school teachers!
just nutting without a care in the world cuz u rich
By blackace Go To PostRich public school teachers!you. no
you're just the worst kind of lucky
far more dangerous and influential
By DY_nasty Go To Postyou. noPlease of all the horrible shit I have been through in life? I just kept head above water and didn't let it rot me on the inside.
you're just the worst kind of lucky
far more dangerous and influential
By blackace Go To PostJust hope Kado's pullout game is as strong as yours*Batting .000 at the plate lads.
* not counting the kids abandoned
By blackace Go To PostPlease of all the horrible shit I have been through in life? I just kept head above water and didn't let it rot me on the inside.personal attack aside, you not giving yourself enough credit.
"i'm just a teacher"
how many mixtapes you get asked to play in class
By DY_nasty Go To Postpersonal attack aside, you not giving yourself enough credit.I wish my side hustles were getting money like they should. I am a teacher therefore I have a part-time job. It is written
"i'm just a teacher"
how many mixtapes you get asked to play in class
By DY_nasty Go To Postpsy was right. yal elite af
just nutting without a care in the world cuz u rich
I kinda lucked out. My wife had been on the pill since she was like 12 for hormones and then swapped to IUD about a year into our relationship. Bonus for both of us, IUD pushed of her cycles from 28 days to like three mo this apart.
Freaked us at first though. Until we got used to it, we thought she was constantly late