By Facism Go To Postdy coming for blood after that cat la dy comment.
To be fair, it's a little early to be calling DY a cat lady. He needs one or two more to hit his final form.
Completing the cat armor set gets him:
+10 - emotional stability
+10 - Happiness
+10 - Mental Health
-10 - Fuckability
-10 - Living Conditions
+100 - Forever Single
(this armor set has a passive ability to ward off baby mommas)
+10 - emotional stability
+10 - Happiness
+10 - Mental Health
-10 - Fuckability
-10 - Living Conditions
+100 - Forever Single
(this armor set has a passive ability to ward off baby mommas)
By domino Go To Postwait DY how many cats you got…Only one. She's cool af
more than 2?
More of a fuzzy turtle than a typical cat tho.
By Fenderputty Go To PostCompleting the cat armor set gets him:Dont forget +100 - attraction to other cat ladies
+10 - emotional stability
+10 - Happiness
+10 - Mental Health
-10 - Fuckability
-10 - Living Conditions
+100 - Forever Single
(this armor set has a passive ability to ward off baby mommas)
By Lupercal Go To PostSo if I have 2 cats, I'm screwed ?Unless you're a vet, in which case it swings back round to being acceptable again.
By Lupercal Go To PostSo if I have 2 cats, I'm screwed ?not all is lost.
how do you feel about divorced, middle-aged women?
By Kabro Go To Postnot all is lost.Depends on how much bagage tbh.
how do you feel about divorced, middle-aged women?
I've dated a couple this year, nothing to serious but one of them wanted me to meet all her kids on the second date so I just noped outta there.
By Lupercal Go To PostSo if I have 2 cats, I'm screwed ?
I think 1 dog offsets 2 cats.
on a bad run of flakes lately and i was telling my gym partner about it
she's like "the flake is the best way to say no"
and i'm like so you'd give a dude your number, chat, setup a date, knowing full well you're going to flake anyway?
"well when you put it like that it sounds like i'm some sort of evil villain"
seems like you had a lot of easy exit points along the road to me.
she's like "the flake is the best way to say no"
and i'm like so you'd give a dude your number, chat, setup a date, knowing full well you're going to flake anyway?
"well when you put it like that it sounds like i'm some sort of evil villain"
seems like you had a lot of easy exit points along the road to me.
just a gym partner. best assistant i ever had by a mile but i was happy she left to work somewhere else because she's way too good to just be an assistant.
By domino Go To Poston a bad run of flakes lately and i was telling my gym partner about it
she's like "the flake is the best way to say no"
and i'm like so you'd give a dude your number, chat, setup a date, knowing full well you're going to flake anyway?
"well when you put it like that it sounds like i'm some sort of evil villain"
seems like you had a lot of easy exit points along the road to me.
Internet dating has changed immensely in the past five years. I've seen it all, and this current trend is not good at all. Antisocial AF.
Needy men have made it a habit for women to ghost or flake. It's gotten to the point where many think texting to break up is a classy move, because it's better than disappearing.
No lie a bunch of women flake and ghost because they've had more than one dude not take a direct "no" and go in bargaining mode at best and hostile shit at worst.
I've seen their messages if they actually say "I'm not feeling this." It's tons of "why" and then there's the real scary shit.
Be straight up with intentions.
Thats all we are entitled, youre not even entitled to a reason youre not feeling it anymore, but feedback is always good for the future so you dont repeat the same mistakes.
Thats all we are entitled, youre not even entitled to a reason youre not feeling it anymore, but feedback is always good for the future so you dont repeat the same mistakes.
By i can get you a toe Go To PostI've seen their messages if they actually say "I'm not feeling this." It's tons of "why" and then there's the real scary shit.Alternatively, you ghost them they will find you. It's not hard to find someone you live in the same city as that you know the name of and what they look like. Especially when most people link their FB accounts to Tinder. Then they'll be even more mad/bargaining.
Dating game sucks for dudes because they're competing with hundreds of thirsty ass dudes. But the dating game sucks more for women because if they do go out with a guy, there's not a totally unreasonable chance of rape/stalking/harassment/etc.
By domino Go To Poston a bad run of flakes lately and i was telling my gym partner about it
she's like "the flake is the best way to say no"
and i'm like so you'd give a dude your number, chat, setup a date, knowing full well you're going to flake anyway?
"well when you put it like that it sounds like i'm some sort of evil villain"
seems like you had a lot of easy exit points along the road to me.
nah she's on some bullshit
ghost before it ever gets to a number, let alone setting up a date
i'd look at her sideways for seeing nothing wrong with it
By batong Go To PostI'm lacking the seal the deal mentalityTell them you are recommended by 8 out of 10 dentists
Someone help me
By batong Go To PostI'm lacking the seal the deal mentalityIt's legit difficult.
Someone help me
I used to have a trick to make things physical when I felt the date went well and I didn't know how to go from discussing to touching. I don't do it anymore, that was years ago, now it's become an anecdote I tell. It's definitely something you do in your twenties, not past 30.
So I tell the girl, let's play a game. I'll tell you ten things about me, and you guess if it's true or false. Your job is to get a better score than 5 out of 10.
At that point you can say whatever. I have a piercing, true or false. I used to do theater, true or false. Etc. And you can spend some time talking about each anecdote if they're true of course.
Now, get to number 9. Look around, smile a bit, pretend to be embarassed yet own it eventually and say "number 9... I like you quite a bit, true or false". She says true and owns it, good for her, be confident too. She says false, insist and say yeah you're pretty great.
"Number 10, i want to kiss you". & go for it if she doesn't already.
Dates can be so boring anyway, might as well have fun with it.
Now that I'm 34, tbh, you've just learnt to go for it. Self-consciousness just disappears with age.
By Gaby Go To PostIt's legit difficult.
I used to have a trick to make things physical when I felt the date went well and I didn't know how to go from discussing to touching. I don't do it anymore, that was years ago, now it's become an anecdote I tell. It's definitely something you do in your twenties, not past 30.
So I tell the girl, let's play a game. I'll tell you ten things about me, and you guess if it's true or false. Your job is to get a better score than 5 out of 10.
At that point you can say whatever. I have a piercing, true or false. I used to do theater, true or false. Etc. And you can spend some time talking about each anecdote if they're true of course.
Now, get to number 9. Look around, smile a bit, pretend to be embarassed yet own it eventually and say "number 9… I like you quite a bit, true or false". She says true and owns it, good for her, be confident too. She says false, insist and say yeah you're pretty great.
"Number 10, i want to kiss you". & go for it if she doesn't already.
Dates can be so boring anyway, might as well have fun with it.
Now that I'm 34, tbh, you've just learnt to go for it. Self-consciousness just disappears with age.
Wondered where this was heading but this is quite cute.
By batong Go To PostI'm lacking the seal the deal mentalityare you talking about getting physical? (touching, kissing or sex?)
Someone help me
if just for touching\kissing, try this next time.
If she looks at you for longer period of time and more than just a passing glance and better yet if she looks at your lips.
thats your queue to move in a little closer and see what happens.
By batong Go To PostI'm lacking the seal the deal mentality
Someone help me
Kind of hard to say what to do without knowing if you been on dates, if she invites you up, or if she texts you out the blue at 11pm talking about how bored she is.
All I can say is be confident, and if you've been on a couple dates and aren't in the friendzone then you should be getting some signs. If you're just a friend and you're getting a firm handshake when you go for hugs, pack it up and move on to the next woman.
i don't like answering these kinds of questions because its hard as hell to understand what type of situation someone is in without seeing it lol
"we're deeply in love, we're just yet to connect - you know?"
naw i dont know. shit really aint a scooby doo mystery most of the time either....
"we're deeply in love, we're just yet to connect - you know?"
naw i dont know. shit really aint a scooby doo mystery most of the time either....
In all honesty, i wrote the above slightly intoxicated and what I meant is that it's the other way around for me, don't lack the confidence but can't fucking decide if they are worth it.
If that's how I feel, I've probably answered my own god damn question haha
If that's how I feel, I've probably answered my own god damn question haha
Crushing on this girl at the gym (crossfit, so quite social). I've made a dozen friends already, I'm the least shy person you'll meet, but I'm still a fresh face. I think she's getting closer to some other guy, who has been around a while. I feel like there's a lot of reasons why I shouldn't go for it, yet again, I think I'm too old to overthink.
'men get married hoping women don't change and women marry with hope men do change" - Luther
Chicks are wild yo
Chicks are wild yo
girl i've been dating (aforementioned) posted a youtube vlog mentioning how she wants to be married by the end of 2020.
like wtf. she knows I subscribe to her channel, she's the one that did it for me and ticked on notification so i get an email.
I haven't talked to her about this yet as I'm still trying to process this.
we have discussed long term plans but in a casual manner.
We're a long ways away from even talking about marriage seriously.
we still have a lot of shit to sort out. who the fuck drops that kind of shit publicly knowing I'd watch it?
like wtf. she knows I subscribe to her channel, she's the one that did it for me and ticked on notification so i get an email.
I haven't talked to her about this yet as I'm still trying to process this.
we have discussed long term plans but in a casual manner.
We're a long ways away from even talking about marriage seriously.
we still have a lot of shit to sort out. who the fuck drops that kind of shit publicly knowing I'd watch it?
By Kabro Go To Postgirl i've been dating (aforementioned) posted a youtube vlog mentioning how she wants to be married by the end of 2020.
like wtf. she knows I subscribe to her channel, she's the one that did it for me and ticked on notification so i get an email.
I haven't talked to her about this yet as I'm still trying to process this.
we have discussed long term plans but in a casual manner.
We're a long ways away from even talking about marriage seriously.
we still have a lot of shit to sort out. who the fuck drops that kind of shit publicly knowing I'd watch it?
Do all girls want you to be daddy? Should I just go abstinent now because I think that shit's gross?
By data Go To PostDo all girls want you to be daddy? Should I just go abstinent now because I think that shit's gross?
No not all at all.
By Kabro Go To Postgirl i've been dating (aforementioned) posted a youtube vlog mentioning how she wants to be married by the end of 2020.
like wtf. she knows I subscribe to her channel, she's the one that did it for me and ticked on notification so i get an email.
I haven't talked to her about this yet as I'm still trying to process this.
we have discussed long term plans but in a casual manner.
We're a long ways away from even talking about marriage seriously.
we still have a lot of shit to sort out. who the fuck drops that kind of shit publicly knowing I'd watch it?
How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
By FortuneFaded Go To PostLink to the youtube?
Lmao
By Kidjr Go To PostHow old are you if you don't mind me asking?39.
She's 32.
But to be fair to this whole thing. I knew the moment I met her that she's wife material.
Also I want to get married, Ive shied away for a long time because of my own commitment issue. It wasn't til recently that I have the need to get married but id like to do right, no rushing into anything. Have a solid communicative foundation, etc.
By FortuneFaded Go To PostLink to the youtube?I keep my personal life fairly private.
I spill the beans on the mod chat, dick picks and all.
By Kidjr Go To PostNo not all at all.Thank God. It turns me off even quicker than them wanting to have kids.
By domino Go To Postwhat kind of vlogs does she doLife and faith mostly. She's breaking into film so topic has been mostly about that.
makeup, fitness, comedy, etc?
By Kabro Go To Post39.
She's 32.
But to be fair to this whole thing. I knew the moment I met her that she's wife material.
Also I want to get married, Ive shied away for a long time because of my own commitment issue. It wasn't til recently that I have the need to get married but id like to do right, no rushing into anything. Have a solid communicative foundation, etc.
I keep my personal life fairly private.
I spill the beans on the mod chat, dick picks and all.
Yeah that's a good plan re foundation etc. Just on the said female one thing I realised is as you older/more experienced you're able to recognise things you do and don't want from a relationship/person. So wouldn't be toooooooo put off by her recognising those signs early.... Ofc chicks be wild so rather than say it out right shell indirectly tell you to guage your reaction as a litmus test to see if she's way off.
When I tell you man, I'm astounded by how differently men and women communicate. I be looking at my wife like how we are even the same species.
Yal gonna get enough of this talking about how great it is to be in love and togetherness then being shocked when you see the check come across the table
By Kabro Go To Post39.
She's 32.
But to be fair to this whole thing. I knew the moment I met her that she's wife material.
Also I want to get married, Ive shied away for a long time because of my own commitment issue. It wasn't til recently that I have the need to get married but id like to do right, no rushing into anything. Have a solid communicative foundation, etc.
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She's 32, she wants kids man. If she's wife material and she's clearly signaling that you're husband material, I don't see the issue. It's not like you're 21. If you're dating a women who's marriage material in her 30's, the assumption should be she's serious.
I don't know ... I just don't get your reaction other than it seems like more resistance to commitment.
By i can get you a toe Go To Post> she's wife material
> "I wanna be married soon"
> i can't brehs
🤷
This.