It's more like I got some perspective on tragedy, someone really fucked the pooch and I just don't have the patience for people who are toxic, especially if I did fuck all to provoke that kind of shit. Also people who go straight for the insults that try to hurt you the most are people to get away from as soon as you can. There's disagreeing with someone or hurting them on accident and then there's being a malicious piece of shit. Some things can't be walked back and some arguments show you who someone really is.
it's crazy how you can consider a woman a friend, while being open about your dating life and even seeking out their advice (turned out to be pretty useful), and they'll convince themselves (and try to convince all your coworkers to no avail) that it's all part of some overly complex master plan to get in their pants. she'll start to make a show of treating you like absolute shit. and somehow in her mind you're supposed to be the bad guy in all of this.
i thought clearing the air w/ her would get it off my mind and let me focus on my birthday but all it's done is just create more shit for me to worry about. i feel like i have to second guess everything i do around her now. i don't even know how her brain could reach that conclusion.
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i thought clearing the air w/ her would get it off my mind and let me focus on my birthday but all it's done is just create more shit for me to worry about. i feel like i have to second guess everything i do around her now. i don't even know how her brain could reach that conclusion.
By Random Ass Username Go To Posthttps://www.resetera.com/threads/stop-defending-cheating-it-makes-you-look-like-an-inconsiderate-clown.116474/
Threads like this remind me some people really don't know how the world works outside of whatever bubble they're in where they get to pick and choose who they're married to and sexual exclusivity is always the morally superior choice.
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By domino Go To Postit's crazy how you can consider a woman a friend, while being open about your dating life and even seeking out their advice (turned out to be pretty useful), and they'll convince themselves (and try to convince all your coworkers to no avail) that it's all part of some overly complex master plan to get in their pants. she'll start to make a show of treating you like absolute shit. and somehow in her mind you're supposed to be the bad guy in all of this.So.... She trying to convince coworkers that you're into her?
i thought clearing the air w/ her would get it off my mind and let me focus on my birthday but all it's done is just create more shit for me to worry about. i feel like i have to second guess everything i do around her now. i don't even know how her brain could reach that conclusion.
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By reilo Go To PostBreh you'd be better off blocking all of Alabama and every state that touches your state lines.
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By Bold 2 in One Go To PostSo…. She trying to convince coworkers that you're into her?
yeah but apparently i'm mean/spiteful to her (i'm not), i only talk about other women to try to make her jealous (i don't), and she felt uncomfortable being around me (nobody knows why).
i left that conversation with far more questions about wtf is going on than i had going in.
edit: moreso she's trying to convince people im a vindictive scheming POS. i'm the last person that'd ever do shit like that.
As a retired vet from the game, from the outside in, I think data and Domino definitely enjoy the fukkery that comes around.
i enjoy a certain amount of fuckery. can't lie there.
but not when it's fuckery i didn't even court. and definitely not from someone i consider a friend trying to trash my name. im lucky nobody believed any of this mess.
but not when it's fuckery i didn't even court. and definitely not from someone i consider a friend trying to trash my name. im lucky nobody believed any of this mess.
By domino Go To Posti enjoy a certain amount of fuckery. can't lie there.
but not when it's fuckery i didn't even court. and definitely not from someone i consider a friend trying to trash my name. im lucky nobody believed any of this mess.
wait till you get the cunt that tells people you beat her because her new fellah can't lay the pipe as well you did.
By Smokey Go To PostAs a retired vet from the game, from the outside in, I think data and Domino definitely enjoy the fukkery that comes around.Life must be boring as fuck tbh
"Clear the air" brehs
think the worst thing I heard about me is that I can be distant
little did they know I was just playing Dark Souls
little did they know I was just playing Dark Souls
Domino - not even shooting hard. But out of everyone who's posted here you kinda can't read situations for shit from the stories you've told. Like pretty fucking consistently.
All my shit is karma tho. Best girl I met was back in college. I fucking crushed her several times over years simply thinking I could do better - then thinking she could better. There were times I hadn't spoken to her for a whole year and a random bf of hers would hit me up trying to understand how I had her so wrapped up. lol idk that's rough homie yal will get through it
I deserve this. 100%
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostDY, you did someone dirty?
say it aint so
My faith is shaken
By Ciaran Ashina Go To Postsay it ain't so..I haven't perfected the art of lying to myself to hide shit lol. I was the worst kind of dog. The one that makes you think you're special.
All my shit is karma tho. Best girl I met was back in college. I fucking crushed her several times over years simply thinking I could do better - then thinking she could better. There were times I hadn't spoken to her for a whole year and a random bf of hers would hit me up trying to understand how I had her so wrapped up. lol idk that's rough homie yal will get through it
I deserve this. 100%
By DY_nasty Go To PostDomino - not even shooting hard. But out of everyone who's posted here you kinda can't read situations for shit from the stories you've told. Like pretty fucking consistently.
an actual text i sent recently to one of my friends when they asked why i was so down: "trying to understand people and situations and failing miserably. the usual"
so yeah i know...
You force shit homie. And people are likely so used to seeing you do it to others that they'll read at shit that isn't there when you try to be genuine.
Also you probably try really hard to fit into some people's expectations and fuckin suck at it. Like truly so terrible that they don't even know how to tell you to stop. That's a thing. You might be trainwreck guy. You should check for that.
Ask "have I ever come across fake af?" to a few ppl. Happened to me when I was at a holiday party actually. Told a friend it was nice to see someone really embrace their role as a father. Someone listening in decided I was the biggest asshole ever. Shit be like that sometimes.
Also you probably try really hard to fit into some people's expectations and fuckin suck at it. Like truly so terrible that they don't even know how to tell you to stop. That's a thing. You might be trainwreck guy. You should check for that.
Ask "have I ever come across fake af?" to a few ppl. Happened to me when I was at a holiday party actually. Told a friend it was nice to see someone really embrace their role as a father. Someone listening in decided I was the biggest asshole ever. Shit be like that sometimes.
By data Go To PostFor the record, I've been clean of fuckery for over a month.Antibiotics worked then.
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou force shit homie. And people are likely so used to seeing you do it to others that they'll read at shit that isn't there when you try to be genuine.
Also you probably try really hard to fit into some people's expectations and fuckin suck at it. Like truly so terrible that they don't even know how to tell you to stop. That's a thing. You might be trainwreck guy. You should check for that.
Ask "have I ever come across fake af?" to a few ppl. Happened to me when I was at a holiday party actually. Told a friend it was nice to see someone really embrace their role as a father. Someone listening in decided I was the biggest asshole ever. Shit be like that sometimes.
That isn't entirely wrong tbh. Up to 23 (28 now) yeah I'd agree with most of that.
I've gotten so much more comfortable in my own skin the last few years but I'm still piecing it together. Nobody would ever say I was/am fake though. Maybe off-putting at times when I get in my moods but I try to catch myself in those times.
I think the biggest thing I struggle with now is the idea that not everyone is going to love you. That's beyond just dating. You can be your best self and 99/100 people will fuck with you but that one person will still find fault with it some way. Like this current situation. I'm probably dwelling on it too much anyway instead of focusing on the good things I have going but that's just how I am.
that's a defense mechanism you left unchecked m8
people aren't a test to pass. do your best to yourself, then go from there. either you click or you dont really.
By blackace Go To Postat 28 you should be ready to say fuck that 1 person that don't like and 95 of the 99 that doshit, if a quarter of the people you meet in life genuinely fuck with you then you're blessed as fuck lol
people aren't a test to pass. do your best to yourself, then go from there. either you click or you dont really.
Hell I'm at a point where there's very few people I even think about on a dislike level. I just don't even waste the head space. It's all indifference. If someone doesn't like me? Sucks for them.
Damn at the tough love and yeah I'm being a bit tongue in cheek an 8 is good I just strive for more, part of my competitive narure. I gave her a 8.5 tbh, I've ascended as a human being on so many levels not because dependent on her just because my motivations for my goals in life go far deeper than any of my prior reasons.
By Kidjr Go To PostI've ascended as a human being on so many levels.That would be the bio on my tinder account
By blackace Go To PostThis is how cults startscreaming
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostBro, teach me how to ascend.
I am ready for the next plane of existence.
Step 1: Learn to hold your breath for 3 minutes.
By Kidjr Go To PostDamn at the tough love and yeah I'm being a bit tongue in cheek an 8 is good I just strive for more, part of my competitive narure. I gave her a 8.5 tbh, I've ascended as a human being on so many levels not because dependent on her just because my motivations for my goals in life go far deeper than any of my prior reasons.Even further than during your time on coke?
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostBro, teach me how to ascend.
I am ready for the next plane of existence.
While I'm sure it doesnt have to be a woman, and helps if the motivation is a crutch but if you find reason for doing something and that reason is greater than self. Not to sound all weird and zen, but I can see a direct correlation in doing better at work, decisions are more thoughts out, healthier (still more work to do) etc.
By Pennywise Go To PostEven further than during your time on coke?
Just about hahah
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostBro, teach me how to ascend.Waterboarding yourself clearly.
I am ready for the next plane of existence.
By DY_nasty Go To Posthttps://www.wmar2news.com/matterformallory/local-professor-says-he-lost-50-000-after-being-deceived-by-a-russian-mail-order-bride
damn homie
Vire?
Too bad he left us for Era like his wife will...
Nvm
By FortuneFaded Go To PostYou would think that for someone who studies combinatorics, he would be able to connect the dots.I cried at the quote "It was a good scam"
By DY_nasty Go To Posthttps://www.wmar2news.com/matterformallory/local-professor-says-he-lost-50-000-after-being-deceived-by-a-russian-mail-order-bride
damn homie
"Believe it or not, even though we signed a separation agreement that morning with a lawyer, I'm still married," said Farley. "I do feel really stupid, I have to admit, but I don't beat myself up because it was a good scam."
I respect it