Going from that phase of 'friends' to more with someone you've known since your childhood sucks. It's like playing with dynamite.
I think I'll stick to girls I've never met before.
I think I'll stick to girls I've never met before.
By Smokey Go To PostVire?Hey y’all, haven’t forgotten about you.
I haven’t posted much in here because there isn’t much drama to speak of. Thankfully, my life is honestly and truly the best it’s ever been on a personal level. There was an incredibly difficult period where her father passed away early last month and she could not return home to the funeral because of me. (Not being able to return back afterwords). But she has handled the ensuing days better than I could have imagined.
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and soul searching and I’m tired of the stress and fear that has gone along with her green card. Every day waking up, holding my breath and waiting for “the letter” to come in the mail. While the green card is one issue, I know for a fact I want to spend my life with this woman. I have decided I’m going to ask her to marry me on Christmas Eve. She has given me every indication she would say yes and frequently talks about our future and love for each other. We have already lived together for close to a year and I don’t think much changes after the fact of marriage in daily life. Maybe I can be corrected here.
I’m excited?
Me and this girl and a friend from work all hang out
We start to seperate
girl: we should stay out more
me: nah im tired
guy: i'm down to hang out more
girl: nah i should probably go home
get home. received text from girl 'hey you still want to do something'
We start to seperate
girl: we should stay out more
me: nah im tired
guy: i'm down to hang out more
girl: nah i should probably go home
get home. received text from girl 'hey you still want to do something'
By Professor Beef Go To PostOnline dating is great until they ghost you after 2 messages
Or they turn into possessive, paranoid stalkers after you meet them once. I swear, Tinder is what all the crazy girls get on in the UK because I've never met a girl though it that didn't turn out to have some deep mental problems. Either that or I just attract crazy.
By HottestVapes Go To PostOr they turn into possessive, paranoid stalkers after you meet them once. I swear, Tinder is what all the crazy girls get on in the UK because I've never met a girl though it that didn't turn out to have some deep mental problems. Either that or I just attract crazy.Or you're the crazy.
By reilo Go To PostCould we not with the broad strokes?Just for clarity. I'm only saying the 5 or so women I've met through Tinder have had issues. Not every one on Tinder.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostOr you're the crazy.Possible, but I wasn't the one throwing accusations of cheating around out of the blue due to bad past relationships. Legitimately met 3 girls that did that. 2 more stalked my Twitter, FB, and Instagram for weeks after meeting once.
Gave up on Tinder afterwards.
going to sit on a rock and stare at the skyline on a nature trail in the middle of the night with a married woman
you know, normal friend stuff
you know, normal friend stuff
yeah some things were said to who is probably my best friend who is in an unhappy marriage who told me she told one of our mutual friends she wants to fuck me
this is a week after her saying when we were just friends that she really only missed women and not men
this is a week after her saying when we were just friends that she really only missed women and not men
By data Go To PostGoing from that phase of 'friends' to more with someone you've known since your childhood sucks. It's like playing with dynamite.Or it could be the best thing ever, roll the dice man.
I think I'll stick to girls I've never met before.
Life's to short.
By Smokey Go To PostThe tat has unleashed dataThat shit might as well have been my henshin device
Going out tomorrow with a friend who told me recently that she is small and tight (yes, she was referring to "that*) yet she is pushing me towards a friend of hers.
Our usual group is the 2 of us and a couple but the couple is off on vacation for the next 4 weeks so it's going to be just us 2 for a while.
Life is quite confusing sometimes, she treats me as a friend but she also made a mad face when I returned to our group table after a girl I knew went after me to buy me a drink.
Our usual group is the 2 of us and a couple but the couple is off on vacation for the next 4 weeks so it's going to be just us 2 for a while.
Life is quite confusing sometimes, she treats me as a friend but she also made a mad face when I returned to our group table after a girl I knew went after me to buy me a drink.
When you get older you realize some people don't even want to screw or have relationships with others, they're just kind of territorial assbags.
That's a bit how I am feeling about this but the whole thing is a bit strange. She brought a date to one of our group night outs but ended up talking more to me than him and we have a playful relationship so we have some inside jokes that leave that rest of the group in the dark.
Last week we were on a friend's birthday dinner and I had my sleeves rolled up when when she out of nowhere starts caressing my arms and says that she likes a man with hairy arms.
There's that and the times she tried to describe me in detail how her sex life was, that made me a bit confused as I find her attractive and our personalities go well together.
I was the one who pushed for her to get me together with her friend as she doesn't seem interested sometimes but she either seems glad about the possibility of me and her friend hooking up or she is completely dismissive of the situation.
Earlier today I talked with her about we going to the other side of the island as she told me yesterday that her friend was pushing her to go there this weekend and she never mentioned her friend.
I am used to having female friends and I know that they can be a bit possessive, I also know how she has very little male friends right now (at least ones who don't immediately hit on her) and she is also glad to have someone to go out dancing all night but some of her behaviours are a bit strange.
It's probably nothing but I felt the need to vent here.
Last week we were on a friend's birthday dinner and I had my sleeves rolled up when when she out of nowhere starts caressing my arms and says that she likes a man with hairy arms.
There's that and the times she tried to describe me in detail how her sex life was, that made me a bit confused as I find her attractive and our personalities go well together.
I was the one who pushed for her to get me together with her friend as she doesn't seem interested sometimes but she either seems glad about the possibility of me and her friend hooking up or she is completely dismissive of the situation.
Earlier today I talked with her about we going to the other side of the island as she told me yesterday that her friend was pushing her to go there this weekend and she never mentioned her friend.
I am used to having female friends and I know that they can be a bit possessive, I also know how she has very little male friends right now (at least ones who don't immediately hit on her) and she is also glad to have someone to go out dancing all night but some of her behaviours are a bit strange.
It's probably nothing but I felt the need to vent here.
Haven't had my heart ripped out in a while. Especially over some lazy manchild just because he essentially 'got dibs'.
Don't feel great.
Don't feel great.
"My husband is ruining my life"
*gets close with*
"I can't do that to my husband"
2 days later
"my husband is ruining my life can i see you"
one of yall stop me
*gets close with*
"I can't do that to my husband"
2 days later
"my husband is ruining my life can i see you"
one of yall stop me
By data Go To Post"My husband is ruining my life"Not sure that's dibs.
*gets close with*
"I can't do that to my husband"
2 days later
"my husband is ruining my life can i see you"
one of yall stop me
But ... she's just emotionally abusing you. And you're letting it happen.
Move the fuck on. She chose to stay. Chose him. Let her deal with the consequences of that choice. You go live your life.
By data Go To Post"My husband is ruining my life"
*gets close with*
"I can't do that to my husband"
2 days later
"my husband is ruining my life can i see you"
one of yall stop me
Or go back a few pages and read vire's story for inspiration and stick with it
By data Go To PostI'm a former fatty. I'm bad at dealing with attention and moving on stillprops for the true fucking honesty
data stayed humble omg
but look at reilo
I'm learning that I would have fucked up less if i just fucked her
oh well life finds a way. i'm already talking to another girl so we gooood
oh well life finds a way. i'm already talking to another girl so we gooood
By DY_nasty Go To Postprops for the true fucking honestyI was never a fatty so IDK what you're talking about
data stayed humble omg
but look at reilo
I just hate myself
By data Go To Postcan someone tell me what the fuck an adventure is and why ever girl on tinder wants to go on themThey want to live out their inner Dora:
You could be their Boots.
Smokey, no smoking!
By data Go To Postcan someone tell me what the fuck an adventure is and why ever girl on tinder wants to go on themIt means they aren't down with Netflix and chill
By data Go To Postcan someone tell me what the fuck an adventure is and why ever girl on tinder wants to go on themIt means she wants you to spend money on her.
Honestly, there are so many dumb cliche's on dating sites. You sort of have to ignore them and try to see what's in between.
So this is my second month at work.
I got into something with a co-worker already, on friday in after-office beer.
This will end badly won't it
I got into something with a co-worker already, on friday in after-office beer.
This will end badly won't it
By Elchele Go To PostSo this is my second month at work.depends on what the something is, elsk
I got into something with a co-worker already, on friday in after-office beer.
This will end badly won't it
By Elchele Go To PostSo this is my second month at work.i hope shes not married
I got into something with a co-worker already, on friday in after-office beer.
This will end badly won't it
By reilo Go To PostI was never a fatty so IDK what you're talking about
I just hate myself
You're like 6'6, stop it.
By blackace Go To PostIt means they aren't down with Netflix and chill
This could go in life too but I figure I'd post here. Man I sometimes forget just how ignorant I can be. I live in the internet age and think I know everything but you really don't know until you're with someone who's been preyed on. I was talking to her the other day and she was telling me how even though she trusts me but in a sense she ALWAYS thinks about the fact that I could easily overpower her. That one of our mutual friends, or nearly any guys, she can't be one on one with because they COULD do something.
I just never even thought of it that way. Like I always thought girls were on their guard for guys acting weird but I never realized they were that way around guys just because they could physically do something. It made sense and I didn't take it as an insult. I just never even thought about it that way.
I just never even thought of it that way. Like I always thought girls were on their guard for guys acting weird but I never realized they were that way around guys just because they could physically do something. It made sense and I didn't take it as an insult. I just never even thought about it that way.
By DY_nasty Go To Post
This fake right
Started talking to a girl I knew from high school... and she's coming down to see me. She told me also how her ex didn't like to have sex all the time and she wants to have it constantly
Me rn
Me rn
I've been away from the "game" from far too long.
Started talking to a friend of a friend this week. Trivial talk and she takes a long while too respond, I gave her plenty of chances were she could have stopped replying but she always has something to say even if it is at weird timings like in the middle of a dinner, when she got home at 2 in the morning or at 8 in the morning (I think I woke up with a message from her almost every day this week).
That's why I hate talking through the internet, I am pretty good at reading people IRL but I don't know if she is talking because she is friendly, if she is shy or something else.
The friend we have in common says she is always complaining that she is invisible to boys.
I really need to find out more about it.
Started talking to a friend of a friend this week. Trivial talk and she takes a long while too respond, I gave her plenty of chances were she could have stopped replying but she always has something to say even if it is at weird timings like in the middle of a dinner, when she got home at 2 in the morning or at 8 in the morning (I think I woke up with a message from her almost every day this week).
That's why I hate talking through the internet, I am pretty good at reading people IRL but I don't know if she is talking because she is friendly, if she is shy or something else.
The friend we have in common says she is always complaining that she is invisible to boys.
I really need to find out more about it.