By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostI'm really just here to see if the married guys complain.
Marriage is hard m8. Coming up on 5 years in June.
But worth it in the end. Just get the hoeness out the way first.
A real relationship is overall being content, ironing out your ego but also standing your ground on some shit when necessary. It's not even dramatic. There's just some crap if you can't abide you better just be honest and not harbor resentment. Under the surface resentment is what kills even the longest of relationships. Don't air shit, don't be mad then. And if you do air shit and it continues, bail out instead of yelling your head off in front of the kids.
By Smokey Go To PostMarriage is hard m8. Coming up on 5 years in June.
But worth it in the end. Just get the hoeness out the way first.
Congrats my guy.
My parents been married longer than me and my sister been alive, but my grandparents also separated late in life so I'm torn on the shit. I ain't never been into the hoe shit.....but I also am emotionally unavailable to women I deal with now and they know that yet still try, bless their hearts.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostCongrats my guy.
My parents been married longer than me and my sister been alive, but my grandparents also separated late in life so I'm torn on the shit. I ain't never been into the hoe shit…..but I also am emotionally unavailable to women I deal with now and they know that yet still try, bless their hearts.
I get it.
Its just like any other relationship. Ups and downs. It's just you can't be like well then fuck you and block her number, run off, etc when shit gets tough. Well I mean you can but you know.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostCongrats my guy.Unless you're really young your grandparents lived through eras in which folks got married extremely young and where you couldn't get a divorce especially if you were a woman without some major requirements.
My parents been married longer than me and my sister been alive, but my grandparents also separated late in life so I'm torn on the shit. I ain't never been into the hoe shit…..but I also am emotionally unavailable to women I deal with now and they know that yet still try, bless their hearts.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostAll I'm saying is I respect people who scumbagging it and just owning it then trying to cop some sympathy about it. Sides they're two different lifestyles. You wouldn't even know you found the one if you're busy flittering from one bed to the next. Or managing a couple different people at once. You're not really invested in it, how will you even know if it's going to work or not work.
98% of the time you're not leaving "the one" at the side of the door simply because you were thirsty for more ass. There *was* something that prevented you from being entirely 100% pursuant in taking that relationship as far as it could go. And just later through rose tinted glasses you looked back at that girl like, "man, I really had a great thing!" Like, it was aite, but she wasn't the one. She was just a really good one.
Imo, you don't "start acting right" in order to not let an otherwise perfect fit walk away. The one solidifies in your mind that you don't want to risk losing that person. She motivates you to be committed. Her value in your life suddenly suppresses your interest in pursuing other women.
Btw i'm not really talking about blatant cheating. The fuckboy prefers to keep things undefined and bails once he gets the ultimatum about monogamy.
By Smokey Go To PostGoing hard after Dy, wowThat stray I'm saying wtf I changed 😂
By Dark PhaZe Go To Post98% of the time you're not leaving "the one" at the side of the door simply because you were thirsty for more ass. There *was* something that prevented you from being entirely 100% pursuant in taking that relationship as far as it could go. And just later through rose tinted glasses you looked back at that girl like, "man, I really had a great thing!" Like, it was aite, but she wasn't the one. She was just a really good one.
Imo, you don't "start acting right" in order to not let an otherwise perfect fit walk away. The one solidifies in your mind that you don't want to risk losing that person. She motivates you to be committed. Her value in your life suddenly suppresses your interest in pursuing other women.
Btw i'm not really talking about blatant cheating. The fuckboy prefers to keep things undefined and bails once he gets the ultimatum about monogamy.
this was kind of deep tbh 🤔
I've been completely good for like a month now.
Worst thing I got going on is a friend I haven't seen in a long time contacted me out of the blue on instagram wanting to get together. I told her a day and time, she said she was busy so I just went, 'alright well some other time' and I got the immediate OH I STILL REALLY WANT TO HANG OUT WITH YOU THO from her. I haven't responded in 2 days though. I'm busy.
Worst thing I got going on is a friend I haven't seen in a long time contacted me out of the blue on instagram wanting to get together. I told her a day and time, she said she was busy so I just went, 'alright well some other time' and I got the immediate OH I STILL REALLY WANT TO HANG OUT WITH YOU THO from her. I haven't responded in 2 days though. I'm busy.
By Smokey Go To Postthis was kind of deep tbh 🤔If only any of this shit applied to domino
You know why simps lose? Because when they do finally get someone that wants to meet them halfway they take the feedback straight to the gas tank. Completely forgetting where that hole they were trying to fill was because they on point all of a sudden. That new interest may not be the immediate solution but if you don't ever build it up or even invest in earnest then who's fault is that 😂
Alls I'm saying is if you're waiting for someone so amazing to change how you feel about yourself and your general behavior you already lost.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostAlls I'm saying is if you're waiting for someone so amazing to change how you feel about yourself and your general behavior you already lost.That's true
But so is thinking you can big dick swerve people when you had Marvin's Room on repeat not too long ago 🤔
I just wanna know why domino ain't feeling her.
I want to know how you go about "I'm fucking around but I don't want girl to see but I don't care enough to just date her but I don't want to hurt her."
The fuck am I reading.
I want to know how you go about "I'm fucking around but I don't want girl to see but I don't care enough to just date her but I don't want to hurt her."
The fuck am I reading.
By data Go To PostI've been completely good for like a month now.Good for you. If she does reach out again and still wants to meet, just have her tell you when/where and let her know if that fits your schedule.
Worst thing I got going on is a friend I haven't seen in a long time contacted me out of the blue on instagram wanting to get together. I told her a day and time, she said she was busy so I just went, 'alright well some other time' and I got the immediate OH I STILL REALLY WANT TO HANG OUT WITH YOU THO from her. I haven't responded in 2 days though. I'm busy.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostAlls I'm saying is if you're waiting for someone so amazing to change how you feel about yourself and your general behavior you already lost.
This ... there is no “one”.
By Fenderputty Go To PostThis … there is no “one”.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostI just wanna know why domino ain't feeling her.
I want to know how you go about "I'm fucking around but I don't want girl to see but I don't care enough to just date her but I don't want to hurt her."
The fuck am I reading.
Honestly he probably thinks he can get someone prettier and is keeping her on the backburner in case he can't.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostHonestly he probably thinks he can get someone prettier and is keeping her on the backburner in case he can't.Which is something people do but I wanna know how that even got intiated. She say "hi" in a bathrobe or something.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostHonestly he probably thinks he can get someone prettier and is keeping her on the backburner in case he can't.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostWhich is something people do but I wanna know how that even got intiated. She say "hi" in a bathrobe or something.It's the humble brag that got me going lol
I hope everyone wins in the end but I'm not Kibner I'm sorry
By FortuneFaded Go To Post
Ded
By DY_nasty Go To PostIt's the humble brag that got me going lolYou'd lose a lot of your charm if you were more like me.
I hope everyone wins in the end but I'm not Kibner I'm sorry
domino is just switching it up from messing around with coworkers in the janitor's closet to the homely girl next door.
Let him uhhh live?
Let him uhhh live?
By Kibner Go To PostYou'd lose a lot of your charm if you were more like me.Says the guy dipping out the meetups early, sitting sideways in the coupe, going on cruises, and living out naked sushi night fantasies
Kibmer pls das enuf
thank you reilo for supporting my endeavors lol
it aint that im not feeling her. i just have to be sure i'd want to take on everything she has going on. single mom, history of drug/alcohol issues. moreso alcohol. it's like a jekyll/hyde thing there. lots of mixed messages and general sketchiness. nothing i had to pry about. she's pretty open with it.
nah she's the prettiest one otherwise i wouldnt have bothered w/ it to this point. she's trying to get her shit together. so for now im just trying to see how she is over an extended time.
i matched with her on tinder a while ago but we never messaged. then a few weeks ago she added me on IG and asked me how i knew her old boss (one of my best friends since me and her were like 11) and from there we figured out that we live across the street from each other and have been hanging out a lot since then
By Random Ass Username Go To PostI just wanna know why domino ain't feeling her.
I want to know how you go about "I'm fucking around but I don't want girl to see but I don't care enough to just date her but I don't want to hurt her."
The fuck am I reading.
it aint that im not feeling her. i just have to be sure i'd want to take on everything she has going on. single mom, history of drug/alcohol issues. moreso alcohol. it's like a jekyll/hyde thing there. lots of mixed messages and general sketchiness. nothing i had to pry about. she's pretty open with it.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostHonestly he probably thinks he can get someone prettier and is keeping her on the backburner in case he can't.
nah she's the prettiest one otherwise i wouldnt have bothered w/ it to this point. she's trying to get her shit together. so for now im just trying to see how she is over an extended time.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostWhich is something people do but I wanna know how that even got intiated. She say "hi" in a bathrobe or something.
i matched with her on tinder a while ago but we never messaged. then a few weeks ago she added me on IG and asked me how i knew her old boss (one of my best friends since me and her were like 11) and from there we figured out that we live across the street from each other and have been hanging out a lot since then
By domino Go To PostOh I wasn't at the bottom all along?The point of having a roster is having people you actually *want* on the roster...
Not emergency hug insurance and on-demand affirmation.
"I'd have to be sure" this fucking guy
By domino Go To Postsingle mom
I mean... if you are going to fuck around and "spread wings" why even get involved with a woman who lives across the street from you?
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostProbably going to call an ex to slap him up
By blackace Go To PostI mean… if you are going to fuck around and "spread wings" why even get involved with a woman who lives across the street from you?Try new things like talking to girls that actually like him
By blackace Go To PostI mean… if you are going to fuck around and "spread wings" why even get involved with a woman who lives across the street from you?
This is true. Now ask me if I anticipated any of this.
By domino Go To PostThis is true. Now ask me if I anticipated any of this.Wow... You're the victim?
Anticipated what? You knew you weren't ready to stop fucking multiple people...
it's like you want drama or something
Nah I don't feel like the victim. Idk where you got that from. I just didn't foresee things progressing how they have. I'm flat out in uncharted waters for myself
By domino Go To PostNah I don't feel like the victim. Idk where you got that from. I just didn't foresee things progressing how they have. I'm flat out in uncharted waters for myselfshe lives across the street... either just be a friend or cut loose the drop-ins. It's pretty binary...
By Dark PhaZe Go To Post98% of the time you're not leaving "the one" at the side of the door simply because you were thirsty for more ass. There *was* something that prevented you from being entirely 100% pursuant in taking that relationship as far as it could go. And just later through rose tinted glasses you looked back at that girl like, "man, I really had a great thing!" Like, it was aite, but she wasn't the one. She was just a really good one.
Imo, you don't "start acting right" in order to not let an otherwise perfect fit walk away. The one solidifies in your mind that you don't want to risk losing that person. She motivates you to be committed. Her value in your life suddenly suppresses your interest in pursuing other women.
Btw i'm not really talking about blatant cheating. The fuckboy prefers to keep things undefined and bails once he gets the ultimatum about monogamy.
This 1000x
I'm jealous of people who had successful older siblings or a dad who gave a shit about fathering.
I had to learn all this shit from movies. And movies literally don't know shit about relationships.
I had to learn all this shit from movies. And movies literally don't know shit about relationships.
By data Go To PostI'm jealous of people who had successful older siblings or a dad who gave a shit about fathering.I am the oldest sibling and my dad died before I got to high school. I learned by doing, being empathetic, valuing myself, and committing to self-reflection every day. Learning from movies is backwards and sad.
I had to learn all this shit from movies. And movies literally don't know shit about relationships.
