I'm no expert in dating girls but I am one in attracting girls who cant make up their mindand brother you're not going to get a better catalyst than I almost fucking died. Like if that ain't do it nothing will
Yoooooo that's so true 😂 me and my got back together after I got hit by a fucking truck. I got all kinds of "I don't want to lose you"s
Not "I'll get back to you"
Not "I'll get back to you"
we'll see. i'd be put off if she was just like "eh whatever" after that but it clearly affected (effected?) her.
if not i got other things cooking. she knows that too.
if not i got other things cooking. she knows that too.
One door closes and another one opens. This girl one of my friends is tight with asked him to get me to take her out for her birthday Sunday, as his present to her.
I'm surprised she even remembered me because the one time I met her I probably said 2 words to her since I was focused on Clemson vs A&M. I figured she thought I was a sports obsessed asshole but apparently she's been asking about me since then.
Didn't really bother me that I took the L on work girl cause she called me right after we lost our soccer game 10-8 and I almost got in a fight with someone on the other team. I forgot we had even talked it out earlier in the day.
I'm surprised she even remembered me because the one time I met her I probably said 2 words to her since I was focused on Clemson vs A&M. I figured she thought I was a sports obsessed asshole but apparently she's been asking about me since then.
Didn't really bother me that I took the L on work girl cause she called me right after we lost our soccer game 10-8 and I almost got in a fight with someone on the other team. I forgot we had even talked it out earlier in the day.
By domino Go To PostWe still talk all the time now but one of the first things she said to me after was basically like "you remember you told me that if I was ever single you'd ask me out for real?..
loll
This right here...ain't no such thing as men and women in their primes being "just friends". You only become a "friend" once you've been kicked off the island.
I got plenty of friends of all genders and ages. The issue is when someone knows you're into them and they keep kicking it down the road. Either they want to fuck you or they don't.
You can be friends if you wanna be friends but I don't think Domino really trying to be friends lol
Glad you finally got something new tho
Edit: watch ole girl get jealous and/or trifling if you start showing signs of not being an emotional fallback option
Glad you finally got something new tho
Edit: watch ole girl get jealous and/or trifling if you start showing signs of not being an emotional fallback option
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou can be friends if you wanna be friends but I don't think Domino really trying to be friends lol
Glad you finally got something new tho
Edit: watch ole girl get jealous and/or trifling if you start showing signs of not being an emotional fallback option
this is kinda my point lol
niggas plot 24/7
yeah i dont believe that you can't be friends w/ women. that aint to say i'd turn them down if they wanted to fuck tho 
i wasn't trying to be friends with her tho lol. overall i can deal w/ the answer i got. a lot of things made more sense after we talked and i came out of it at ease about it all
thats more or less what i expect.
i wasn't trying to be friends with her tho lol. overall i can deal w/ the answer i got. a lot of things made more sense after we talked and i came out of it at ease about it all
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou can be friends if you wanna be friends but I don't think Domino really trying to be friends lol
Glad you finally got something new tho
Edit: watch ole girl get jealous and/or trifling if you start showing signs of not being an emotional fallback option
thats more or less what i expect.
By DY_nasty Go To PostEdit: watch ole girl get jealous and/or trifling if you start showing signs of not being an emotional fallback option
a paraphrased conversation from lunch the other day
"domino do you think you could train me at the gym?"
"ehhh no? what makes you want to work out w/ me now when you didn't before. you said you hate working out."
"i do...but then your assistant was telling everyone how much of a good time she has with you at the gym and getting dinner after"
"yeah and?"
"well wouldnt you have a better time w/ me? workout...get dinner...drinks. i've been trying to come up with something that could let us be together more w/o people asking questions."
"yeah, no that's gonna work the exact opposite of how you think and i can't believe you're really jealous like this"
other coworker w/ us interrupts: "jeez girl i know you said you were more confused than ever but this aint it"
By data Go To Postno one's going to ask questions about having dinner and drinks togetherlol bullshit
By domino Go To Posta paraphrased conversation from lunch the other daysee? you do have people looking out for you man
"domino do you think you could train me at the gym?"
"ehhh no? what makes you want to work out w/ me now when you didn't before. you said you hate working out."
"i do…but then your assistant was telling everyone how much of a good time she has with you at the gym and getting dinner after"
"yeah and?"
"well wouldnt you have a better time w/ me? workout…get dinner…drinks. i've been trying to come up with something that could let us be together more w/o people asking questions."
"yeah, no that's gonna work the exact opposite of how you think and i can't believe you're really jealous like this"
other coworker w/ us interrupts: "jeez girl i know you said you were more confused than ever but this aint it"
stay strong and vigilant. let this shameful display strengthen you
By data Go To Postno one's going to ask questions about having dinner and drinks together
banter
It's already enough questions from our coworkers, her friends, fam and boyfriend as is cause she loves to put me on her FaceTime when ppl call her at work.
I'm just being sarcastic, friends.
Women love to 'keep their options open' more than men but won't admit it.
Women love to 'keep their options open' more than men but won't admit it.
The desperation of people makes that waiting in the wings shit possible too. Who's just biding their time to get with someone already taken.
By data Go To PostWomen love to 'keep their options open' more than men but won't admit it.Doesn't sound sarcastic. Sounds bitter.
Every woman I meet and find interesting always lives far away and is just visiting, do I just like women from other places or do I like the idea of not having to see them every day if I got involved.
By You got 14 bricks right there? Go To PostEvery woman I meet and find interesting always lives far away and is just visiting, do I just like women from other places or do I like the idea of not having to see them every day if I got involved.Latter 4 sure
By data Go To PostLatter 4 sure
Probably, I always think about how cool it is to just visit, or have them visit but not actually staying.
I have acquired a perimeter girls problem
None of them want to date, but as soon as I start dating someone, it's gonna be an avalanche of problems.
None of them want to date, but as soon as I start dating someone, it's gonna be an avalanche of problems.
I never understand how women have the ability to create their own emotional problems. It's breathtaking. They get from point a to b doing the mental gymnastics console warriors would be proud of.
By Kidjr Go To PostI never understand how women have the ability to create their own emotional problems. It's breathtaking. They get from point a to b doing the mental gymnastics console warriors would be proud of.Men do this, too. I do it myself. Anxiety is a hell of a thing.
By Kibner Go To PostMen do this, too. I do it myself. Anxiety is a hell of a thing.
Fair point.
Can mods edit my post and change women to people please.
Thanks advance.
By reilo Go To PostYou can edit yourself? Just hit the edit icon?
Oh yeah I can I just thought id if you would do it 😊.
I kinda thought that was part of the mods jd, soz if not
I guess I'm sort of back in it but not really.
So I added this girl on Facebook years ago from when we worked together briefly. We didn't really talk much outside of that one meeting but we've been friends since like 2013. About a year ago, after I lost all the weight and started posting about shit other than just The Gamers stuff, she started liking my posts and we briefly began talking again. Then it stopped.
A couple months ago, we started talking again. Just bullshitting on FB messenger though she did tell me about some more serious stuff she never told me about the first time. She mentioned that she worked right next door to me. So after a couple talks, I figure I'd drop by her job one night as a surprise. We had talked about it before so I was making sure it wasn't some kind of creeper type behavior. I showed up and she seemed real happy to see me. We talked for a little bit but I wound up leaving because I wasn't trying to distract her from work and I didn't want to feel like a burden. When I go to leave, she comes around front and wants a hug. We've only met in person twice before and neither had physical contact. But she wants a hug and not a side hug but a full on frontal. It's a very different feel than the last time we met in person.
So she posts on my FB about how she was happy to see me later that night, and I message her something about what we were talking about in person. We end up spending the whole night talking on messenger. Next day she posts about a concert saying people should go. I message her that I was planning on going anyways(which I was) and she's like 'oh you're off? awesome!' then a couple minutes later she messages me, 'oh i should tell you my boyfriend is going to be there and it might be awkward cause you're a guy and it might not be awkward but you're too much my favorite for me not to tell you' I didn't know she was dating again. She broke up with a dude shortly after we stopped talking but I didnt know she met someone else. So I'm like 'cool I'm not trying to make any trouble for you if you think it might cause something, i got invited to something else anyways' (which I did) but I saw her talking to some of her other male friends that commented about going to that show and it was nbd. So that signified to me that there is something more between me and her or she would potentially like there to be.
I'm definitely not mad or whatever about her dating. It's not my business and it started before we started talking again. I'm trying not to get back into'THE ONE' mentality that fucked me up last time but it's a little harder because looks-wise she's so my type, she's got the same weird sense of humor and taste in music as me. We've got a shit ton in common which I think is why we're working out a lot better this second time because we actually talked about things like that.
Anyways, not a ton of drama, mostly fluff but I guess right now I'm trying to continue to play it cool and not throw myself into it like the last girl. But it's hard not to because it's built into my personality. Like I always just want to go 'HEY I LIKE YOU I'M BAD WITH SHOWING MY INTENT SO I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW' which seems like it goes poorly.
So I added this girl on Facebook years ago from when we worked together briefly. We didn't really talk much outside of that one meeting but we've been friends since like 2013. About a year ago, after I lost all the weight and started posting about shit other than just The Gamers stuff, she started liking my posts and we briefly began talking again. Then it stopped.
A couple months ago, we started talking again. Just bullshitting on FB messenger though she did tell me about some more serious stuff she never told me about the first time. She mentioned that she worked right next door to me. So after a couple talks, I figure I'd drop by her job one night as a surprise. We had talked about it before so I was making sure it wasn't some kind of creeper type behavior. I showed up and she seemed real happy to see me. We talked for a little bit but I wound up leaving because I wasn't trying to distract her from work and I didn't want to feel like a burden. When I go to leave, she comes around front and wants a hug. We've only met in person twice before and neither had physical contact. But she wants a hug and not a side hug but a full on frontal. It's a very different feel than the last time we met in person.
So she posts on my FB about how she was happy to see me later that night, and I message her something about what we were talking about in person. We end up spending the whole night talking on messenger. Next day she posts about a concert saying people should go. I message her that I was planning on going anyways(which I was) and she's like 'oh you're off? awesome!' then a couple minutes later she messages me, 'oh i should tell you my boyfriend is going to be there and it might be awkward cause you're a guy and it might not be awkward but you're too much my favorite for me not to tell you' I didn't know she was dating again. She broke up with a dude shortly after we stopped talking but I didnt know she met someone else. So I'm like 'cool I'm not trying to make any trouble for you if you think it might cause something, i got invited to something else anyways' (which I did) but I saw her talking to some of her other male friends that commented about going to that show and it was nbd. So that signified to me that there is something more between me and her or she would potentially like there to be.
I'm definitely not mad or whatever about her dating. It's not my business and it started before we started talking again. I'm trying not to get back into'THE ONE' mentality that fucked me up last time but it's a little harder because looks-wise she's so my type, she's got the same weird sense of humor and taste in music as me. We've got a shit ton in common which I think is why we're working out a lot better this second time because we actually talked about things like that.
Anyways, not a ton of drama, mostly fluff but I guess right now I'm trying to continue to play it cool and not throw myself into it like the last girl. But it's hard not to because it's built into my personality. Like I always just want to go 'HEY I LIKE YOU I'M BAD WITH SHOWING MY INTENT SO I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW' which seems like it goes poorly.
Well Data, is she serious about this one guy or is it casual.
It's hard to not think she's a little interested in you from what you've said. So hey, why not give it a shot?
It's hard to not think she's a little interested in you from what you've said. So hey, why not give it a shot?
people joke about this, but it really is incredibly essential that you jerk off before you message someone. the climax brings with it an incredible clarity and understanding of many things. and makes you realize that messaging the person you were thinking about isn't the right thing to do.
i did jerk off. however, i did it only after messaging her.
i did jerk off. however, i did it only after messaging her.
Went out with this woman a few times 2 years ago and it was cool, but we started talking about the future and I said I didn't want a house cause of the mortgage, and how I was going to cut cable, eat less takeout and get a real cheap phone plan and she said I was cheap. Normally I wouldn't have been offended cause I am frugal & cheap, but she started talking about how she had a standard of living and how her family always went on trips, spare no expense yada yada...meanwhile she was living with her mom, she was in debt and still spent money on nonsense, so we stopped seeing each other right then and there. She left some foul comments on my IG when I stopped answering her calls even though I told her it was probably best we stopped seeing one another.
I saw her recently and she's a single mom now and I got no debt
I saw her recently and she's a single mom now and I got no debt
bet she'd love your sensible lifestyle now.
either that or she hit a lick w/ the baby
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sometimes i think i'll never get over the emotional traumas of like...16-22 and being back home only exacerbates it. this is a dating thing but also just a life thing in general. i hate how brand new some folks try to act w/ me now after about 5-10 years of life's ups and downs have gone by. its hard for me to accept people into my life that don't fw me off the rip. it's just like they fuck with me now only because they want something from me and i can't trust them. but i feel like i'm made to be the bad guy for keeping those folks at arms length though. only a move would solve that issue for me so this has been probably the most motivated i've been to leave home since i moved back home.
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work girl continues to confound me. she broke up with the boyfriend for the final (lol) time but she acts stranger toward me than ever. lots of shit like that gym episode a few posts back that just leaves me wondering wtf she's angling for
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holiday season tinder and bumble have been fun to mess around with but it still feels like too much work just to set up a date. so many flakes.
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visiting family for Christmas for a week. my cousin is trying to set me up w/ one of her friends. i'm a little afraid of what she'll be like because my family doesn't really get the real me like my friends do. got a feeling it's gonna be some stuck up jesus freak from my uncle's church. i wouldn't say I'm the black sheep of the family but i'm definitely the most....colorful.
/braindump
either that or she hit a lick w/ the baby
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sometimes i think i'll never get over the emotional traumas of like...16-22 and being back home only exacerbates it. this is a dating thing but also just a life thing in general. i hate how brand new some folks try to act w/ me now after about 5-10 years of life's ups and downs have gone by. its hard for me to accept people into my life that don't fw me off the rip. it's just like they fuck with me now only because they want something from me and i can't trust them. but i feel like i'm made to be the bad guy for keeping those folks at arms length though. only a move would solve that issue for me so this has been probably the most motivated i've been to leave home since i moved back home.
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work girl continues to confound me. she broke up with the boyfriend for the final (lol) time but she acts stranger toward me than ever. lots of shit like that gym episode a few posts back that just leaves me wondering wtf she's angling for
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holiday season tinder and bumble have been fun to mess around with but it still feels like too much work just to set up a date. so many flakes.
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visiting family for Christmas for a week. my cousin is trying to set me up w/ one of her friends. i'm a little afraid of what she'll be like because my family doesn't really get the real me like my friends do. got a feeling it's gonna be some stuck up jesus freak from my uncle's church. i wouldn't say I'm the black sheep of the family but i'm definitely the most....colorful.
/braindump
Got an invitation to a threesome with an ex of mine and her new boyfriend.
She's easily a 9 and has gotten even better over the course of the year it seems.
The guy is straight aswell so that's taken care of it seems, I might just give it a whirl.
She's easily a 9 and has gotten even better over the course of the year it seems.
The guy is straight aswell so that's taken care of it seems, I might just give it a whirl.
