i was bold in my youth--I had like 4 or 5 situationships at the same job over the course of a few years at one point, and it never blew up somehow
By Kibner Go To PostIt's not like people often stay at the same job for a long time anymore, so that matters less than it used to.Obviously, adjust for the type of career you have.
Also depends on how jealously you guard your job and career prospects.
Ultimately, such an environment is 9/10 times not conducive to a stable and tension-free environment.
Like Live said, if you do happen to meet your soul mate in the next cubicle, I suggest you try your hand at the lottery.
Ultimately, such an environment is 9/10 times not conducive to a stable and tension-free environment.
Like Live said, if you do happen to meet your soul mate in the next cubicle, I suggest you try your hand at the lottery.
best relationship i ever had was a work one
still wouldn't recommend it lol
still wouldn't recommend it lol
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostAlso depends on how jealously you guard your job and career prospects.for real, if you actually like your job (foreign idea, i know) then its entirely different
Ultimately, such an environment is 9/10 times not conducive to a stable and tension-free environment.
Like Live said, if you do happen to meet your soul mate in the next cubicle, I suggest you try your hand at the lottery.
By livefromkyoto Go To PostHow is anyone rolling “school and work” into one thing? Those are in no way the same thing.I've heard the work figure at much higher rates.
Like look, if your actual soul mate is in a cubicle on the next floor then fine, take your shot. But every relationship you will ever have in your life is going to end in breakup except one - and that’s only if you’re damn lucky. You’re inviting dynamics into your professional life that frequently blow up in people’s faces, inhibit careers or just make life awkward. If you’ve got a choice find another way.
And odds are that if you're both in the same field there's some common theme in your life, and you have the same work hours or can respect the others availability. And you know the other person exists.
I'm not advocating for creeping on every girl in the office. But the idiom "don't shit where you eat" etc etc is just moronic and false. By that reasoning you shouldn't make friends at work either.
don't make friends at work either to be on the safe side
after you get to a high enough level man fuck that backstabbery shit. wew
after you get to a high enough level man fuck that backstabbery shit. wew
My current job isn't just my 'job' its my career path, its pretty niche and even though I am at the tail-end of the entry-level phase, it took me over a year and about 15 separate interviews to get it. Trials and tribulations that took me all over the country.
Even if the woman is in another department, I oversee the entire group's departmental ops in a governance capacity.
I'm not saying you can't have friends or form deeper bonds in the work place - but everyone's got determine their risk apettite. For some of us, there is far too much to lose for uncertian gains.
Even if the woman is in another department, I oversee the entire group's departmental ops in a governance capacity.
I'm not saying you can't have friends or form deeper bonds in the work place - but everyone's got determine their risk apettite. For some of us, there is far too much to lose for uncertian gains.
That's cool but I know a lot of couples who met in retail, restaurant business and even certain professions
/shrug
It's also about finding a partner with similar socio economics, that you can talk to about the work and generally understands the demands and stress. It's hard to explain to someone who's never been in your line of work why a day was so bullshit. They can get in some level but still not really understand as much as someone who is there or has been there. Plus you don't really have to fret about someone looking down on your job, they're doing the same shit.
/shrug
It's also about finding a partner with similar socio economics, that you can talk to about the work and generally understands the demands and stress. It's hard to explain to someone who's never been in your line of work why a day was so bullshit. They can get in some level but still not really understand as much as someone who is there or has been there. Plus you don't really have to fret about someone looking down on your job, they're doing the same shit.
"Retail and restaurant business" have like ridiculous high turnover. I don't think that's a good comparison for people that actually stick with a company for a while.
Eh they're small as hell worlds though. Like here a bunch of people in the pizza biz know each other or have worked alongside each other.
By reilo Go To Post"Retail and restaurant business" have like ridiculous high turnover. I don't think that's a good comparison for people that actually stick with a company for a while.
I know of many that met and married while i was working in finance. And many of my friends met theirs while working in their fields.
It's just a stupid idiom.
Man I don't think I could do that "cash checks and go home" life. Maybe I'm just lucky in that I get to work with a really fun group of people.
The ride never really ends. So I have two friends that I work with that are both semi-mutual with the girl that called me the other day. One is more than the other because she works with his girlfriend. So the other who isn't as close but is someone I consider probably my best friend tells me she's been telling the closer one who's told him the stuff going on between me and her. like told him that we made out and she said she was 'drunk'. And even barring that, he told our other friend 'why the fuck are you talking about private personal stuff with her and why is she telling you.' It's amazing to me that she thought it wouldn't get back to me. And baffling to me because she wasn't drunk when she was the one telling me all about meeting her parents and the territorial shit.
The guy who told me this is the one who keeps telling me I need to focus on the nursing school girl and stop fucking with all these toxic women. Which is why I've been trying to get to know the nursing school girl because at this point I have doubts about everyone.
The guy who told me this is the one who keeps telling me I need to focus on the nursing school girl and stop fucking with all these toxic women. Which is why I've been trying to get to know the nursing school girl because at this point I have doubts about everyone.
she told our friend our laundry and our friend told my friend who told me
and she claimed she was drunk
and she claimed she was drunk
Basically some gal talked shit about her and datas hangouts and whatever else and it got back to him.
By DY_nasty Go To Postdon't make friends at work either to be on the safe sideIt’s true. There’s like 5% of humanity who are upright reptiles and should probably be in jail just for the sake of humanity’s optimal happiness.
after you get to a high enough level man fuck that backstabbery shit. wew
One man’s dystopian future is another man’s easy going utopia.
By data Go To Postdon't even smile at workI’m not going full iceman, but I’m seriously thinking of dialing it back to 25%.
By reilo Go To Post"Retail and restaurant business" have like ridiculous high turnover. I don't think that's a good comparison for people that actually stick with a company for a while.Plus everyone’s young, good looking and standing next to alcohol all the time. It’s a totally different thing.
By giririsss Go To PostI know of many that met and married while i was working in finance. And many of my friends met theirs while working in their fields.I can pull the same I know people who have had to quit a job they liked because casual sex didn't work out like they planned
It's just a stupid idiom.
Like I said before, it depends where you are in life and what your risk tolerance is.
I'm nit saying don't be social either, of course you can jest and be jovial with colleagues, just don't get caught with your pants around your ankles.
I'm nit saying don't be social either, of course you can jest and be jovial with colleagues, just don't get caught with your pants around your ankles.
i ain't even getting caught letting those around me know what my sources of happiness are in general
By DY_nasty Go To Posti ain't even getting caught letting those around me know what my sources of happiness are in generalA magic user’s true name must be kept secret, lest it be used against them in eldritch combat.
Also, never let them know where you buried the chest where you keep your heart, or the combination of rune stones to hit in order to open it.
By livefromkyoto Go To PostA magic user’s true name must be kept secret, lest it be used against them in eldritch combat.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Also, never let them know where you buried the chest where you keep your heart, or the combination of rune stones to hit in order to open it.
By Fenderputty Go To PostWill Vire be this threads only success story?The only one out of the dating colony that made it?
Otherwise we should have plenty of people that are in a longer relationship.
By reilo Go To PostLook, we don't even know if vire is still alive.
He’s still married even if he’s in a gulag somewhere
By Fenderputty Go To PostHe’s still married even if he’s in a gulag somewhereHe's posting quite a bit on that other forum, which closely resembles a gulag. You're correct.
By Pennywise Go To PostThe only one out of the dating colony that made it?Plenty of success stories amongst the user base.
Otherwise we should have plenty of people that are in a longer relationship.
Most just were already out of simp mode and stopped treating themselves badly.
I mean I've kissed 100% more girls than I had since high school since I started posting here.
These things take time.
These things take time.
By data Go To PostI mean I've kissed 100% more girls than I had since high school since I started posting here.
These things take time.
Two girl isn’t anything to brag about
By Apollo Go To PostTwo girl isn’t anything to brag about
jesus, apollo
By Smokey Go To Postjesus, apolloIt's math
By Smokey Go To Postjesus, apolloim sayin lol
By Apollo Go To PostTwo girl isn’t anything to brag aboutWhat % of era do you think he lapped with that?
By Apollo Go To PostTwo girl isn’t anything to brag about
Neither is 2 girls less than a plethora.
By domino Go To Postso you kissed 1.5 women before?
They are doing all-female reboots of sitcoms now?