"Why don't you like me for me?" Who the Fuck are you? đ¤
Makeup is one thing, professional lighting and angles along with a crash diet for a selfie though? You are doing the most and you can't live that lie for more than a moment.
Makeup is one thing, professional lighting and angles along with a crash diet for a selfie though? You are doing the most and you can't live that lie for more than a moment.
do what you want personally
but there's an IG thread right over there full of salivation
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but there's an IG thread right over there full of salivation
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By Random Ass Username Go To Posti think they get way more fish with that bait and it still works out for themSimps.
/shrug
If you're looking for someone with some financial stability and they pull up in their sister's old ass Saturn, you get to be disappointed unless you're the type to lower standards on the spot.
That's honestly shit for both parties and if you don't entertain it you ain't wrong.
By DY_nasty Go To Post"Why don't you like me for me?" Who the Fuck are you? đ¤
Makeup is one thing, professional lighting and angles along with a crash diet for a selfie though? You are doing the most and you can't live that lie for more than a moment.
i let a friend run one of my pictures (that i'd consider good) through Facetune and i didn't even recognize myself. it's levels to this shit.
maybe i need to cheese the game too.
By domino Go To Posti let a friend run one of my pictures (that i'd consider good) through Facetune and i didn't even recognize myself. it's levels to this shit.I'd say you're better off just getting used to sparking up conversation in person. Skip the first steps of all that online bullshit.
maybe i need to cheese the game too.
Hell, you really want to see the effects of it - get cool enough with a new date to ask to see their online messages. One good simp laugh and a thorough "these fuckboys ain't shit" moment and you've thrown dozens of people in the bushes.
Add in the fact that people understand intimacy less and less these days and you're loading the deck compared to playing persona before meeting up finally.
By DY_nasty Go To PostYou gotta see it.Yoooo someone showed me a vid on Facebook of these Asian chicks taking off their make up,
One of the reasons I dropped online dating.
I am now traumatised for life, there were prosthetics involved
DO NOT BELIEVE YOUR EYES
Talked to pretty church girl.
Was like 'hey i just want to know why it's so hard for me to get you to do something with me cause we seem cool at work. i'm not going to get all upset about it' and she told me how she had this last ex who was an asshole and how she's with a guy now that's 'not terrible'(her exact words) but she really likes me. so i'm like cool no problem. wrong place and time. still talked to her like i usually do. even told her to call me if things ever change and she's ready to try something
see isn't it nice when a girl says 'i have a boyfriend so i shouldnt' instead of WELL IM MARRIED BUT YOU KNOW I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU
Was like 'hey i just want to know why it's so hard for me to get you to do something with me cause we seem cool at work. i'm not going to get all upset about it' and she told me how she had this last ex who was an asshole and how she's with a guy now that's 'not terrible'(her exact words) but she really likes me. so i'm like cool no problem. wrong place and time. still talked to her like i usually do. even told her to call me if things ever change and she's ready to try something
see isn't it nice when a girl says 'i have a boyfriend so i shouldnt' instead of WELL IM MARRIED BUT YOU KNOW I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU
lets be real though we all know people in relationships like that
"least she cooks for me"
"least he doesn't beat me"
humanity is sad
"least she cooks for me"
"least he doesn't beat me"
humanity is sad
I mean I literally got a call right before that from another girl asking me to come over after i got off work
so i'm not really sweating it
also christ girl is socially awkward.
so i'm not really sweating it
also christ girl is socially awkward.
I only date maneaters data.
I can tell you how to identify them, but chill, nice, socially awkward women are just free food are lost on me.
Take the confidence boost and keep your distance. Especially before they get bold and decide to swing for the fences in order to force a reaction out of you.
I can tell you how to identify them, but chill, nice, socially awkward women are just free food are lost on me.
Take the confidence boost and keep your distance. Especially before they get bold and decide to swing for the fences in order to force a reaction out of you.
By DY_nasty Go To Postlmao
Been over to this ex-coworker's place a few times recently. Last night we made out before I left. Today she calls me and we talk for a little bit and she's like 'im sorry about last night. i still like you hanging out but i just got out of a relationship a month ago and shouldnt do that' but also before we made out that night she talked to me about her family and how theyd like me and how she's told them about me and how she's all territorial over me
I think I'm quitting this whole thing.
I think I'm quitting this whole thing.
By data Go To PostBeen over to this ex-coworker's place a few times recently. Last night we made out before I left. Today she calls me and we talk for a little bit and she's like 'im sorry about last night. i still like you hanging out but i just got out of a relationship a month ago and shouldnt do that' but also before we made out that night she talked to me about her family and how theyd like me and how she's told them about me and how she's all territorial over meYou've just got out of crazy. Walk away so fast.
I think I'm quitting this whole thing.
By data Go To PostBeen over to this ex-coworker's place a few times recently. Last night we made out before I left. Today she calls me and we talk for a little bit and she's like 'im sorry about last night. i still like you hanging out but i just got out of a relationship a month ago and shouldnt do that' but also before we made out that night she talked to me about her family and how theyd like me and how she's told them about me and how she's all territorial over meI think itâs time to work on some light but probing questions that let you detect wackos up front. Because you seem to have an affinity for the unstable.
I think I'm quitting this whole thing.
By livefromkyoto Go To PostI think itâs time to work on some light but probing questions that let you detect wackos up front. Because you seem to have an affinity for the unstable.
Don't we all?
By Apollo Go To PostDon't we all?No?
i'm really attracting the flakes lately on tinder/bumble. it's to the point where im basically making plans w/ friends around the expectation of getting flaked on whatever date/meet that's set up.
also matched w/ a woman this week, that back when we were HS freshmen said that i wasn't attractive enough to talk to her. chat was going well enough then it just stopped abruptly and disappeared from my list. found out today from a mutual friend that she didnt even remember me from HS (fair, i look very different now). apparently she reached out to our friend to see why we shared so many friends and that freshman year incident came up and she freaked out. that missed connection was probably for the best anyway because i was definitely just in it to prove a point to myself.
work bae situation is basically on ice since my wreck. she was actually the one of the people (non-family) i was most worried about seeing after it because i got a heads up on how bad she took the news. she told me was disappointed in herself at how broke up she was about my wreck when she already has a boyfriend. im fine w/ the fall back, as much as you can fall back from someone who works across the hall. i noticed (well my coworkers pointed it out to me) she's still really territorial around me though.
also matched w/ a woman this week, that back when we were HS freshmen said that i wasn't attractive enough to talk to her. chat was going well enough then it just stopped abruptly and disappeared from my list. found out today from a mutual friend that she didnt even remember me from HS (fair, i look very different now). apparently she reached out to our friend to see why we shared so many friends and that freshman year incident came up and she freaked out. that missed connection was probably for the best anyway because i was definitely just in it to prove a point to myself.
work bae situation is basically on ice since my wreck. she was actually the one of the people (non-family) i was most worried about seeing after it because i got a heads up on how bad she took the news. she told me was disappointed in herself at how broke up she was about my wreck when she already has a boyfriend. im fine w/ the fall back, as much as you can fall back from someone who works across the hall. i noticed (well my coworkers pointed it out to me) she's still really territorial around me though.
its kinda funny/fucked up
but when you almost die, people think about you a ton and afterwards you're never even close to what they dreamed up
unless you've got some awesome relationship beforehand at least
i have many near death experiences. im an expert
but when you almost die, people think about you a ton and afterwards you're never even close to what they dreamed up
unless you've got some awesome relationship beforehand at least
i have many near death experiences. im an expert
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostWhy on earth are y'all dating co-workers?something like 50% of marriages are formed in the work place, because you spend so much time there.
My friend called me a player because I talk to all these girls at work. I told him that I give every girl that I'm focused on 100% of the focus and if she wants to do something forreal I'll stop talking to others. But otherwise, I do it because I'm always prepared to move on and not get stuck because there has been so many examples of this wishy washy bullshit for me that I'm prepared to move immediately.
Married girl indirectly taught me I'm good enough to not have to wait around for shit.
Married girl indirectly taught me I'm good enough to not have to wait around for shit.
By giririsss Go To Postsomething like 50% of marriages are formed in the work place, because you spend so much time there.That can't be right... đ
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostWhy on earth are y'all dating co-workers?
i work around too many good looking women to not be interested.
By DY_nasty Go To Postits kinda funny/fucked up
but when you almost die, people think about you a ton and afterwards you're never even close to what they dreamed up
unless you've got some awesome relationship beforehand at least
i have many near death experiences. im an expert
really this has been the most frustrating part of the whole thing beyond all the paperwork and getting a new car. people just look at me very different now. maybe its in my head too.
no better time to switch your style/priorities up man
also, a few people here have seen pics of my old squad. its really worth it to not try and fuck your coworkers. get them to be a wing woman MAYBE but its not worth it
also, a few people here have seen pics of my old squad. its really worth it to not try and fuck your coworkers. get them to be a wing woman MAYBE but its not worth it
well its an entirely dependent type of thing so yeah it'll get you fucked up sooner or later
if you don't like you there's no point in getting someone to do it on your behalf. they'll either get tired of being what's holding you up or you'll start to resent them for not doing a good enough job
if you don't like you there's no point in getting someone to do it on your behalf. they'll either get tired of being what's holding you up or you'll start to resent them for not doing a good enough job
By Apollo Go To PostDon't we all?Yeah, but itâs a question of degree.
By DY_nasty Go To Postno better time to switch your style/priorities up manCampground rules, man. Donât shit where you sleep.
also, a few people here have seen pics of my old squad. its really worth it to not try and fuck your coworkers. get them to be a wing woman MAYBE but its not worth it
By DY_nasty Go To Postwell its an entirely dependent type of thing so yeah it'll get you fucked up sooner or laterDamn...
if you don't like you there's no point in getting someone to do it on your behalf. they'll either get tired of being what's holding you up or you'll start to resent them for not doing a good enough job
Truth nukes
Perception and reality are games everybody's playing
By DY_nasty Go To Postwell its an entirely dependent type of thing so yeah it'll get you fucked up sooner or laterExactly this.
if you don't like you there's no point in getting someone to do it on your behalf. they'll either get tired of being what's holding you up or you'll start to resent them for not doing a good enough job
By DY_nasty Go To Postwell its an entirely dependent type of thing so yeah it'll get you fucked up sooner or later
if you don't like you there's no point in getting someone to do it on your behalf. they'll either get tired of being what's holding you up or you'll start to resent them for not doing a good enough job
By Bold 2 in One Go To PostDamnâŚ
Truth nukes
Perception and reality are games everybody's playing
that's something i've always struggled with because i fell into placing my own self-worth in what other people thought of me just as a side effect of feeling like i wasnt shit up until i was maybe 22.
By domino Go To Postthat's something i've always struggled with because i fell into placing my own self-worth in what other people thought of me just as a side effect of feeling like i wasnt shit up until i was maybe 22.We never stop struggling with it tbh.
As time goes on, you just become more aware and cognisant of it.
I know how I'm like around cute girls at work, you channelling your best self to be funniest, smartest, most interesting dude in the room. Shit is exhausting, as soon as I catch myself doing it, I find an excuse to leave.
The only person who ain't shit is the person who basically creeps on people and acts aggressive upon rejection. You're probably okay if you're not making every other opposite gender person (or same gender since creeps of all stripes exist) at work feel uncomfortable af.
True but we're talking about specific instances of creeping at work. Context. Some people just end up meeting at work, it happens. My folks did.
Honestly I have those conflicting emotions of feeling almost rejected by the girl(which isnt what happened) from the other night but prior to that same call I kept having thoughts of like 'oh god am I in a relationship now. am i going to have to deal with these responsibilities' and that's with a woman who i generally think is mostly well put together and 'cool'
I've just been out of relationships for so long that it's hard to fight that desperation bubbling inside of me even though all those previous years I was a total shut-in and now I can talk to girls and have girls talk to me.
I've just been out of relationships for so long that it's hard to fight that desperation bubbling inside of me even though all those previous years I was a total shut-in and now I can talk to girls and have girls talk to me.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostTrue but we're talking about specific instances of creeping at work. Context. Some people just end up meeting at work, it happens. My folks did.If both parties go in with good intentions I can understand rolling the dice but if you aren't even thinking about a solid relationship work ain't the place for that
By livefromkyoto Go To PostCampground rules, man. Donât shit where you sleep.except, just not.
School and work are the next-most common meeting locations (15-20%)
It's just a stupid idiom.
By Random Ass Username Go To PostThe only person who ain't shit is the person who basically creeps on people and acts aggressive upon rejection. You're probably okay if you're not making every other opposite gender person (or same gender since creeps of all stripes exist) at work feel uncomfortable af.Basically.
it's like any social interaction really, but you can't "run" from the results like you can at a bar.
So just be less of a moron / creep about it.
By giririsss Go To Postexcept, just not.How is anyone rolling âschool and workâ into one thing? Those are in no way the same thing.
It's just a stupid idiom.
Like look, if your actual soul mate is in a cubicle on the next floor then fine, take your shot. But every relationship you will ever have in your life is going to end in breakup except one - and thatâs only if youâre damn lucky. Youâre inviting dynamics into your professional life that frequently blow up in peopleâs faces, inhibit careers or just make life awkward. If youâve got a choice find another way.