By psychintellectYou're in the army right dy?If I told you, I'd have to kill you.
What do you do?
By lovingsteamWent to this gay bar out in Waikiki the other night (literally the best bar I've been to in my life. MAD chill) and this big red headed guy was so hurt that I was not down for the team. Literally felt bad. :(By IWMTB19This guy who I work with at the environmental lobby is so hot and sweet, but I don't think he's bi or gay :(
Man, that must be difficult. Being attracted to someone and really not knowing whether they're straight or gay.
passed all my skills exams today, first try! so that's the first half of my emt cert done. just waiting on the results of my written test from yesterday now.
By dy_nastyWent to this gay bar out in Waikiki the other night (literally the best bar I've been to in my life. MAD chill) and this big red headed guy was so hurt that I was not down for the team. Literally felt bad. :(Were you wearing your sailor moon shirt again?
good shit baldy
I did go to my unit BBQ with a sailor moon tank top though. I'm already the only black guy here. Eating off them at the basketball court, rocking sailor moon, and testing higher than 90% of them has them doing all kinds of googles right now haha
By giririsssNot that night lolBy dy_nastyWent to this gay bar out in Waikiki the other night (literally the best bar I've been to in my life. MAD chill) and this big red headed guy was so hurt that I was not down for the team. Literally felt bad. :(Were you wearing your sailor moon shirt again?
I did go to my unit BBQ with a sailor moon tank top though. I'm already the only black guy here. Eating off them at the basketball court, rocking sailor moon, and testing higher than 90% of them has them doing all kinds of googles right now haha
By dy_nastygood shit baldyUgh, mad jelly. Pulled a muscle in my leg and haven't been able to do anything for 8 days now.By giririsssNot that night lolBy dy_nastyWent to this gay bar out in Waikiki the other night (literally the best bar I've been to in my life. MAD chill) and this big red headed guy was so hurt that I was not down for the team. Literally felt bad. :(Were you wearing your sailor moon shirt again?
I did go to my unit BBQ with a sailor moon tank top though. I'm already the only black guy here. Eating off them at the basketball court, rocking sailor moon, and testing higher than 90% of them has them doing all kinds of googles right now haha
over it.
Atleast there is this in life though
By balddemonwho is that???Hyoseung of Secret. Get that Jiggle girl!
By viakadoYeah, you wish. Hyo is is actually better with out all the makeup. But you know, stylists gotta get paid for SOMETHING.By balddemonwho is that???average looking asian girl without all that cake on her face.
this is easily the craziest time of my life. tons of opportunities. daily drama. beautiful island. can't find a good barber.
Got my test results back. Not gonna lie I have been super nervous and on edge the last week. But I passed! I'm unofficially an emt 😁 Time to find a job haha.
By dy_nastyBy psychintellectYou're in the army right dy?If I told you, I'd have to kill you.
What do you do?By lovingsteamWent to this gay bar out in Waikiki the other night (literally the best bar I've been to in my life. MAD chill) and this big red headed guy was so hurt that I was not down for the team. Literally felt bad. :(By IWMTB19This guy who I work with at the environmental lobby is so hot and sweet, but I don't think he's bi or gay :(
Man, that must be difficult. Being attracted to someone and really not knowing whether they're straight or gay.
pics next time
hawaii has me so jelly
By balddemonGot my test results back. Not gonna lie I have been super nervous and on edge the last week. But I passed! I'm unofficially an emt 😁 Time to find a job haha.Congrats!
Congrats, baldy. Keep up the good work.
... them feels when you really like a girl and then realize you're not gonna do anything cause you have no game and no self-esteem.
I suck.
... them feels when you really like a girl and then realize you're not gonna do anything cause you have no game and no self-esteem.
I suck.
By AdamCongrats, baldy. Keep up the good work.You don't need "game."
… them feels when you really like a girl and then realize you're not gonna do anything cause you have no game and no self-esteem.
I suck.
Just ask her if she wants to get coffee or grab a drink sometime. Worst thing she can say is no.
And if she treats you like crap or demeans you for asking, realize that she wasn't worth chasing anyways.
Concur with Gondo. Do you talk to her right now? If you don't, and you ask her out, and she says "no", that means that you are in the same exact spot before except that you now have a concrete answer and you can channel your energy on someone better suited for you, no?
I already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda...
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda...
I'm going back to Htown on xmas eve finally going to play Smash bros U with some really good players cant wait!
By AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
By AdamI'd be much more hesitant if I was working with her every day, or if the work relationship involves your supervision of her or vice versa.By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
It's up to you, but assuming that a potential relationship won't greatly interfere with work then I'd say go for it.
Treat her like you want to get to know her as a person (which I assume you do) and don't let your attraction make things awkward.
By KingGondoBy AdamI'd be much more hesitant if I was working with her every day, or if the work relationship involves your supervision of her or vice versa.By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
It's up to you, but assuming that a potential relationship won't greatly interfere with work then I'd say go for it.
Treat her like you want to get to know her as a person (which I assume you do) and don't let your attraction make things awkward.
I don't see her daily generally and I'm not in any supervisory capacity at all.
I guess the worst that can happen is that I'm let down and move on. Don't want to really ruin a possible friendship though.
Thanks, Gondo / reilo.
By AdamNo reason you can't be friends even if she turns you down, just make sure you approach her with the mindset that you want to get to know her better, not as a potential sex partner.By KingGondoBy AdamI'd be much more hesitant if I was working with her every day, or if the work relationship involves your supervision of her or vice versa.By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
It's up to you, but assuming that a potential relationship won't greatly interfere with work then I'd say go for it.
Treat her like you want to get to know her as a person (which I assume you do) and don't let your attraction make things awkward.
I don't see her daily generally and I'm not in any supervisory capacity at all.
I guess the worst that can happen is that I'm let down and move on. Don't want to really ruin a possible friendship though.
Thanks, Gondo / reilo.
By KingGondoBy AdamNo reason you can't be friends even if she turns you down, just make sure you approach her with the mindset that you want to get to know her better, not as a potential sex partner.By KingGondoBy AdamI'd be much more hesitant if I was working with her every day, or if the work relationship involves your supervision of her or vice versa.By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
It's up to you, but assuming that a potential relationship won't greatly interfere with work then I'd say go for it.
Treat her like you want to get to know her as a person (which I assume you do) and don't let your attraction make things awkward.
I don't see her daily generally and I'm not in any supervisory capacity at all.
I guess the worst that can happen is that I'm let down and move on. Don't want to really ruin a possible friendship though.
Thanks, Gondo / reilo.
Yeah, for sure. All of the (granted, few) relationships I've been usually start as being friends before getting serious.
By KingGondoBy AdamI'd be much more hesitant if I was working with her every day, or if the work relationship involves your supervision of her or vice versa.By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
It's up to you, but assuming that a potential relationship won't greatly interfere with work then I'd say go for it.
Treat her like you want to get to know her as a person (which I assume you do) and don't let your attraction make things awkward.
+1. Sounds like how I met my wife, we worked together and just started hanging out.
thanks fellas. glad to be 1 step closer to fire/medic.
now my turn. it's about emojis. I asked this girl out and she responded with the monkey covering it's eyes and sure. so obvi a yes but what does that emoji even mean lol
now my turn. it's about emojis. I asked this girl out and she responded with the monkey covering it's eyes and sure. so obvi a yes but what does that emoji even mean lol
Ugh, my upper back has been a mess for months. I've been seeing a chiropractor and getting a massage every two weeks or so for the past month. It helps, but it's a slow progress. I've also been getting back into the gym, too, and thankfully I haven't felt that my back has been holding me back while working out. It's most definitely lack of movement (programming at a desk all day), bad sleep posture and stress related.
I am focusing in building up my lats and reverse some of the internal rotation that my shoulders are doing, but days like today is becoming unbearable at times.
I am focusing in building up my lats and reverse some of the internal rotation that my shoulders are doing, but days like today is becoming unbearable at times.
By balddemonthanks fellas. glad to be 1 step closer to fire/medic.I take it as her being coy and slightly shy. I guess. lol.
now my turn. it's about emojis. I asked this girl out and she responded with the monkey covering it's eyes and sure. so obvi a yes but what does that emoji even mean lol
By balddemonthanks fellas. glad to be 1 step closer to fire/medic.Means you're ugly bro ;(
now my turn. it's about emojis. I asked this girl out and she responded with the monkey covering it's eyes and sure. so obvi a yes but what does that emoji even mean lol
Hella uggz
By pilonv1By KingGondoBy AdamI'd be much more hesitant if I was working with her every day, or if the work relationship involves your supervision of her or vice versa.By KingGondoBy AdamI already talk to her, but the problem is that I sorta work with her but not really.What does "sorta" mean? You're gonna have to be more specific.
Meh. Don't dip your pen in company ink, yadda, yadda…
Different department, same building.
It's up to you, but assuming that a potential relationship won't greatly interfere with work then I'd say go for it.
Treat her like you want to get to know her as a person (which I assume you do) and don't let your attraction make things awkward.
+1. Sounds like how I met my wife, we worked together and just started hanging out.
Well, we'll see I guess. I'm only here for this year, so if things go south it won't be for a long period.
Meh.
Haven't really been too active on slaent lately...main reason is that i have severely sprained my ankle. Like...the worst sprain I've ever had in my life. I actually think ligaments/tendons are torn or something. This happened on Dec 15, and up until yesterday I was on crutches. Playing ball I went up for a rebound and landed wrong. I felt two painful pops in my foot/ankle. I immediately thought I dislocated my ankle and it popped back in place. My second thought was my foot is fucked and it's fractured or broke. Elite tier pain followed as I laid on the court. Couldn't walk, couldn't do anything.
I go to Emergency Care for Xrays. Nothing broken in my ankle. Given crutches and some pain medicine. I stayed on the crutches until this week when I saw a orthopedic doctor. They took more xrays on my foot. Nothing is broken, yet my foot is still swollen as fuck. I can't walk (it's more like a shuffle). I was given a huge air cast and I have to wear it for the next 4 weeks. Doc said 8-12 weeks before I can resume any physical activity and this doesn't include rehab. Shit is crazy. Luckily I had virtual training last week so I didn't have to go into the office. I sat in the house up until Saturday. I can't drive since it's my right foot, and up until Sunday I barely had any feeling in the foot. Ended up going in to work this week so they could see that I was fucked up. Didn't want them thinking I was trying to pull some shit that just so happened to line up with Xmas Eve/Xmas.
Went in again today. Had to use a regular shoe (that I made as loose as possible), drive to work, put on boot in parking garage, and shuffle my ass in. They sent me home and said I am not allowed to do any work until they get something from the doc saying what I can and cannot do. My company is extremely cautious when it comes to safety. In fact these dudes didn't even let me drive home. A co worker had to drive my ass home and he walked back to the office (I live about 2-3 blocks from the office). Owe that man lunch for taking that one. Faxed the hospital the paper work so now I'm just waiting on them to get it to the company. I'm ok with this though...at least they know I wasn't BSing. This is the second time I've fucked up my foot like this playing basketball. The other instance was during AAU years ago and it was on my left foot. Had to wear a boot there too, but this one feels far worse and the boot I was given this time reflects that.
I'm gonna back after the holidays for a MRI. This legit feels like some ligaments/tendons are torn.
Glad to hear. My plans are in motion to head over there. I've found tons of opportunities in Oahu. I'm going to ride it out with my company until at least Jan 2016 so that I am vested with my pension plan/401k etc. Got to take care of some big debt items (my car). That should be done this year and when that happens I'm hitting the turbos and getting the wheels really turning. We're looking into taking a trip in April/May. Going to actually look at neighborhoods and housing this time to get an idea of what we'd be working with. I've thought about the barber thing and was going to ask you what have you been doing. I figured I might have to learn to cut my own hair if we make that move.
I go to Emergency Care for Xrays. Nothing broken in my ankle. Given crutches and some pain medicine. I stayed on the crutches until this week when I saw a orthopedic doctor. They took more xrays on my foot. Nothing is broken, yet my foot is still swollen as fuck. I can't walk (it's more like a shuffle). I was given a huge air cast and I have to wear it for the next 4 weeks. Doc said 8-12 weeks before I can resume any physical activity and this doesn't include rehab. Shit is crazy. Luckily I had virtual training last week so I didn't have to go into the office. I sat in the house up until Saturday. I can't drive since it's my right foot, and up until Sunday I barely had any feeling in the foot. Ended up going in to work this week so they could see that I was fucked up. Didn't want them thinking I was trying to pull some shit that just so happened to line up with Xmas Eve/Xmas.
Went in again today. Had to use a regular shoe (that I made as loose as possible), drive to work, put on boot in parking garage, and shuffle my ass in. They sent me home and said I am not allowed to do any work until they get something from the doc saying what I can and cannot do. My company is extremely cautious when it comes to safety. In fact these dudes didn't even let me drive home. A co worker had to drive my ass home and he walked back to the office (I live about 2-3 blocks from the office). Owe that man lunch for taking that one. Faxed the hospital the paper work so now I'm just waiting on them to get it to the company. I'm ok with this though...at least they know I wasn't BSing. This is the second time I've fucked up my foot like this playing basketball. The other instance was during AAU years ago and it was on my left foot. Had to wear a boot there too, but this one feels far worse and the boot I was given this time reflects that.
I'm gonna back after the holidays for a MRI. This legit feels like some ligaments/tendons are torn.
By dy_nastythis is easily the craziest time of my life. tons of opportunities. daily drama. beautiful island. can't find a good barber.
Glad to hear. My plans are in motion to head over there. I've found tons of opportunities in Oahu. I'm going to ride it out with my company until at least Jan 2016 so that I am vested with my pension plan/401k etc. Got to take care of some big debt items (my car). That should be done this year and when that happens I'm hitting the turbos and getting the wheels really turning. We're looking into taking a trip in April/May. Going to actually look at neighborhoods and housing this time to get an idea of what we'd be working with. I've thought about the barber thing and was going to ask you what have you been doing. I figured I might have to learn to cut my own hair if we make that move.
The fact that you've seen two doctors without an MRI being scheduled is legit huh shit smokey
damn still on that hawaii....i got a trip planned in motion for spring break, gonna see whats good
damn still on that hawaii....i got a trip planned in motion for spring break, gonna see whats good
By DarkThe fact that you've seen two doctors without an MRI being scheduled is legit huh shit smokey
Well the first one was one of those emergency car places that i went to just to see if something was broke. They weren't specialists or anything. the guy i saw this past week was actually an orthopedic. Took a good look at my foot. Could tell it was swole as fuck. Did other stuff, but he didn't seem to think it warranted a MRI. Didn't even mention it.
I'm gonna go on my own though especially if the swelling isn't gone by week 2 or making progress. Gotta make sure I don't catch some extra pounds since I literally can't do any kind of cardio fml.
damn still on that hawaii….i got a trip planned in motion for spring break, gonna see whats good
bring lots of bread. tourism in hawaii breaks pockets like no other
By balddemonGot my test results back. Not gonna lie I have been super nervous and on edge the last week. But I passed! I'm unofficially an emt 😁 Time to find a job haha.
Congrats, coming from where you were at at one stage, this is a nice turn around. Good work.
By AdamBy pilonv1+1. Sounds like how I met my wife, we worked together and just started hanging out.
Well, we'll see I guess. I'm only here for this year, so if things go south it won't be for a long period.
Meh.
Some insane number of marriages, 20 - 40% or so, are started in the workplace.
Just ask Adam. You'll never know if you never ask.
closed mouths don't get fed. see what happens, adam. you never know.
and, GEEZ, smokey ankles injuries are some shit - hope you get that MRI soon man. at least your company is doing the right thing by you
also - i've just given up on beds entirely. my back has never felt better.
and, GEEZ, smokey ankles injuries are some shit - hope you get that MRI soon man. at least your company is doing the right thing by you
also - i've just given up on beds entirely. my back has never felt better.
Sucks about the ankle Smokey.
I might be right behind you on that one. My back is just...
By dy_nastyalso - i've just given up on beds entirely. my back has never felt better.
I might be right behind you on that one. My back is just...
By reiloSucks about the ankle Smokey.it was a rough adjustment at first but i can't go back. i might enjoy a nice bed at a hotel or something from time to time but the vast majority of the week im too happy with a sleeping mat on the ground.By dy_nastyalso - i've just given up on beds entirely. my back has never felt better.
I might be right behind you on that one. My back is just…
Also smokey, Go to a Sports Injury doc. Not a GP.
Too often GP's just don't know enough about it. Not a slight against them, they just can't be expected to be specialists in everything.
I wasted 6 months buggering around with GP's before just booking into a Sports doc who diagnosed me instantly.
Too often GP's just don't know enough about it. Not a slight against them, they just can't be expected to be specialists in everything.
I wasted 6 months buggering around with GP's before just booking into a Sports doc who diagnosed me instantly.
By SmokeyBy DarkThe fact that you've seen two doctors without an MRI being scheduled is legit huh shit smokey
Well the first one was one of those emergency car places that i went to just to see if something was broke. They weren't specialists or anything. the guy i saw this past week was actually an orthopedic. Took a good look at my foot. Could tell it was swole as fuck. Did other stuff, but he didn't seem to think it warranted a MRI. Didn't even mention it.
I'm gonna go on my own though especially if the swelling isn't gone by week 2 or making progress. Gotta make sure I don't catch some extra pounds since I literally can't do any kind of cardio fml.damn still on that hawaii….i got a trip planned in motion for spring break, gonna see whats good
bring lots of bread. tourism in hawaii breaks pockets like no other
for real im thinkin about goin to san juan instead
hawaii tearin at the pockets breh
By dy_nastyclosed mouths don't get fed. see what happens, adam. you never know.
and, GEEZ, smokey ankles injuries are some shit - hope you get that MRI soon man. at least your company is doing the right thing by you
also - i've just given up on beds entirely. my back has never felt better.
Definitely sucks. You take being able to walk without any issues for granted. It took me like 5 minutes to make cereal last week between getting the box, the milk, the crutches, and hopping around. I just need to make sure I don't short cut the process. Last time this happened I got impatient and tried to get back on the court before I was ready which made things worse.
By reiloSucks about the ankle Smokey.
I might be right behind you on that one. My back is just…
Curious -- What kind of beds have you guys been sleeping on? My wife had bad back problems from our previous bed and had issues staying asleep through the night. We ended up investing into a Serta icomfort and it's been one of the best decisions we've made. I used to think that a bed was a bed but nah...there are some tangible differences.
By giririsssAlso smokey, Go to a Sports Injury doc. Not a GP.
Too often GP's just don't know enough about it. Not a slight against them, they just can't be expected to be specialists in everything.
I wasted 6 months buggering around with GP's before just booking into a Sports doc who diagnosed me instantly.
Yeah I'll be moving in this direction shortly. I am finding this out during the process.
for real im thinkin about goin to san juan instead
hawaii tearin at the pockets breh
Also depends on how long you trying to stay. We were over there for something like 8 days. I wouldn't do that again. I think 4-5 would be solid.
Getting pretty darn stressed out lately. Having to shoulder a lot of my family's bills ATM. I'm cool with that. They've helped me in so many ways that I can't refuse to.Im having to monitor my money really carefully so not much spending on my self in the near future. Need a car but gonna have to put that on hold for now.
But I think I might end up in jail soon if my father doesn't get the fuck out of my life soon.
But I think I might end up in jail soon if my father doesn't get the fuck out of my life soon.
By giririsssBy balddemonGot my test results back. Not gonna lie I have been super nervous and on edge the last week. But I passed! I'm unofficially an emt 😁 Time to find a job haha.
Congrats, coming from where you were at at one stage, this is a nice turn around. Good work.By AdamBy pilonv1+1. Sounds like how I met my wife, we worked together and just started hanging out.
Well, we'll see I guess. I'm only here for this year, so if things go south it won't be for a long period.
Meh.
Some insane number of marriages, 20 - 40% or so, are started in the workplace.
Just ask Adam. You'll never know if you never ask.
By dy_nastyclosed mouths don't get fed. see what happens, adam. you never know.
and, GEEZ, smokey ankles injuries are some shit - hope you get that MRI soon man. at least your company is doing the right thing by you
also - i've just given up on beds entirely. my back has never felt better.
Yeah, everyone is giving me sound advice to go for it. Thanks.
Y not?
By h3roI'm proposing to my girlfriend today!
:)
Nooo don't do it.
Just kidding. Good luck! You won't need it.